"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this is last message she ever sent me dudes this is bull****

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Do not respond to this because your number is blocked from my phone. DO NOT contact me again. If you contact me one more time I will call the police and make a complaint for harassment. I will also file an order of protection. You have taken this too far and I am afraid of your actions. Please stop.

I just giving her flowers and tryin get her to talk its bull**** man.

I just dont understand why complain about stuff and was going to do the stuff and everything and do fun stuff planned then she pulls this crap about not wanting be with me and being distant it doesnt make sense i didnt do nothing horribly wrong???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigneil

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I've been there dude. Women like to pretend they are so beautiful that they need police protection, but studies have shown that you could leave a person on a street corner and it would take 10,000 years for them to be abducted. And great idea! Let's call armed strangers on steroids who have legal immunity to the scene.
 

Mr. Kalikoat

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Do you ever listen to any of the advice given to you on this forum? Or are you just here to share your sob stories and get some attention?

If you listened to the advice your fellow DJ homies gave you this would never have happened.

Drop the b!tch and go full NC. Read the '60 days no contact challenge' thread and start today.
 

FortunateSon

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Woah, dude, sh*t just got serious!

How did the hell do you go from seeing a girl to her threatening to phone the police?
 

Bible_Belt

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You've said you're in St Louis. I told you to follow Cardinals baseball, because it will give you something in common with just about everyone, including a lot of women. I also told you to find a pet rescue charity and go adopt out cute puppies on Saturdays. I'm not in the city, but I'm not that far away, and I am telling you that these two things will help you a lot with women here.

And yet, I doubt you took either piece of advice, and now you are being threatened with cops. Make the right choices, and bullsh!t like this won't happen to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VikingKing

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It's going to look real bad if your record shows your harassing some one, or stalking, or anything like that.

When potential employers look up your record, they will label you as crazy and thats bad.
 
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