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Recent content by Exil

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    I can't *** from sex at the moment...

    First one. Been dating two other girls for a while but haven't done anything with them other than kissed both. Don't really have sexual urges at all towards any of them either. To be honest, I'm starting to worry that reading all the rp stuff has made me hate women even on a subconscious level.
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    I can't *** from sex at the moment...

    Hi gents. This is a strange one for me. So I've been seeing a few girls lately and one of them has become my main plate. Started sleeping with her around early December and for some reason, I just can't *** from sex with her. She's a very attractive girl, easily an 8 but she's got a totally...
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    Feel like calling.. need advice

    Definitely don't do this. My advice to you is never go back but if you're absolutely certain you can't kick your oneitis for this girl then this is what you must do; 1) No contact - this isn't the 30 day no contact b's you see on YouTube. This is indefinite no contact initiated by you. No...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    Ok, let's play devil's advocate. What would you have done in my situation? You would have stayed for the good of the kids? In a toxic environment? That wouldn't benefit anyone, especially not the kids. Being abusive to other members and name calling in the forum is really beta behaviour...
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    Feel like calling.. need advice

    Why give her the power back? All you will do by contacting her is show weakness and that you've made a mistake. Regardless of whether that's true or not and regardless of whether you want her back or not, she must make the first move if it's going to be overtly done. That's not to say you can't...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    If I'd been red pilled back then I would never have gotten married. I'm not red pilled, I'm aware. I still make beta mistakes fairly often but I've stopped giving women attention when it isn't earned and can see how weak other men look when they do it. Little changes I've made over time that...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    The world has become too soft and men are being raised to behave like women, think like women and sympathise with women. When I think back, all of my teachers at school during the 90's were women and we were taught to protect women, even the girls at school who you had no responsibility for. Now...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    This was the point I was trying to make. I've never said "it's nailed on". Just that it's a possibility and having never had one before, it could be a great experience for me and potentially for them. Obviously my kids are still a top priority for me as they've lost the security and safe feeling...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    My priorities? My priorities are making sure my kids have everything they need and that I exit that marriage with the best possible outcome. I won't get drawn into a debate about mentality because clearly you don't belong on this forum. If I want to fvck my housemates and the opportunity arises...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    I'm actually not doing that at all. I've done that before and it doesn't really help. What I'm doing is trying to get a few potential fvcks lined up. I don't want a relationship or for someone to replace my wife. No one will ever replace her, she's the mother of my children and regardless of...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    Thanks gents. I know I'm not the only one going through a rough time and I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I had plans for a new business that I really wanted to start but finances have been sapped due to me now paying my mortgage, bills at the house and rent for a room as well as...
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    Getting stuck in a rut

    Gents. Some of you will know my situation from a previous post so for others that don't I'll be brief. I've now moved out of my family home and got a house share with two young, semi-hot women after finding out that my wife and mother of my children had been texting and meeting up with a guy she...
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    Advice on dating a cheater

    How many of you can honestly say that they've dated a cheater than changed?
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    Advice on dating a cheater

    OP is this an actual question? The answer is you don't. If you're non-exclusive then she's not cheating, she's just a ho in which case, decide what you're looking for. If you want a relationship, next her and find someone else who isn't fvcking with other guys. If you're happy with just banging...
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    Learning to become Alpha after being cheated on (long story)

    This is the problem. She's proven to you she can't be faithful. She's a proven liar and has shown you who she is. The good sex is irrelevant in the face of hypergamy. You're bargaining.
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