Recent content by Dandrufman

alot of times when I'm chatting with a girl online, she'll randomly mention a song that just came on the radio. Normally I just ignore it and keep going on with whatever we're talking about, but I'm sensing a pattern. This is about the third or fourth time this has happened and I have no idea...

God, I dunno whats more disturbing, that this showed up in a forum for dating advice or that I actually understood alot of those acronyms before the definition.

1.) Don't obsess over this one or that one. Ever. Period. End of sentence. You're putting too much importance on her, and that sets you up for a fall. Its like winding a spring, the more energy you put into it the harder it will hit you if (and in this case, when) it breaks. 2.) Don't let...

Been there. Do yourself a favor, take a two month leave from sosuave. I'm not saying that just to make you leave, I'm saying it as advice. Best thing I ever did was take a vacation from this site. Made me realize that I was using the learning from this site as a quick fix rather than actually...

If you can find it (I think its on a few p2p networks as well as in bookstores) get Comedy Writing Secrets by Melvin Helitzer. Its a nightmare to find, but an awesome book.

As long as the humor is directed at raising your status instead of lowering it, its good. Itishe has a good point though, there are times to laugh and times to be serious. As with anything, take in moderation.

Make up your mind first off. Either you want her or you don't, there is no middle ground. Just go up and talk to her, or do something near her and talk to her. Then go from there.

Same, but getting made fun of and bullying are two different things. As far as your situation goes, two things. First off, if anyone actuall hits her, just find the kid where no teacher can see you, throw him to the ground, then calmly tell him that you'll beat his brains out if he does that...

You're lucky... I'm still trying to figure out a way to order a book without my parents finding out (I figure mail order would be easy, but if they get to the door first, I'm dead)

Dont go lookin' for a fight, but if one finds you dont be afraid to win.

Trust your gut... if you want to kiss her go for it.

You can do all the techniques you want, if you dont give her solid evidence you are interested (number close, ask her out, etc.) she will put you in the friendzone.

Sometimes its good to see a worst case scenario and say "well, at least i'm not that!". I like it.

You dont have to do anything expensive. The reason girls like flowers and stuff when they're asked is because it creates drama. It gives them something to talk about, and if its public it gives them the spotlight. Do something a bit flashy, especially if your sure she'll say yes (like a gf or if...

Names of gf's are a bit of a fluke. Also, most names are related somewhat to physical characteristics (ever met a white girl named Sha'niqua), so its possible that certain names are characteristic of the kind of things you look for in a girl. Or maby you need help, i dunno.