"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I?

GodOFcharm

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Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Go for it. What you did wasnt an accident.
 

GodOFcharm

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I guess

You know, I should. A Don Juan doesn't hesitate no matter the outcome right? It's safer to say it than actually do it though. Should I talk softly while attempting to do it? You know. To distract her?
 

Sammo

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Man, your leaving soon and you 'might' not be able to see her again. Don't leave this up to chance. Go for the kiss close, if that works, try and take her back to your house.

Actually if your leaving, this is an awesome time to get in some experience, go approach 50 girls in the next week! Use a canned opener to start with, female oppinion ones tend to work best at first.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dandrufman

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Trust your gut... if you want to kiss her go for it.
 

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GodOFcharm said:
Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.

Someone read The DJ Bible before making you VERY FIRST POST on How to get THIS SPECIFIC girl. Useless Thread #15

Wow, it is SO EASY to find a Useless Thread on this Forum!

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