The Great One
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I don't want to do anything that is going to cost me money, just I don't want to ask like everyone else does. Any ideas? Thanks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Creative ways of asking a girl to prom
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
Ha Ha dude you should at least spend money on flowers when you actually ask her. I mean theres a bunch of cool creative things you could do but you should be willin to spend a bit since youll probly have to anyways,its prom right. I know this one guy asked this chick by leavin clues for her where she had to do a bunch of random things like go to a boys bathroom at the bla bla bla and get the next clue all leadin back to her house where he was waiting with some flowers. Thats just an idea though be creative the best ideas are the ones you think up. if not go with the flowers ------>:flowers:
Dandrufman
Don Juan
You dont have to do anything expensive. The reason girls like flowers and stuff when they're asked is because it creates drama. It gives them something to talk about, and if its public it gives them the spotlight. Do something a bit flashy, especially if your sure she'll say yes (like a gf or if she's hinted that she wants you to ask her).
If your looking for ideas, a bunch of guys at my school asked the girl on the morning announcements. The clue idea is great as well. If you know an office aid, you could try writing a note like an office referal that asked her out and have them deliver it (note: I think this is against the rules, so check first and be sure the guy is trustworthy). Use your best judgement and make it big.
If your looking for ideas, a bunch of guys at my school asked the girl on the morning announcements. The clue idea is great as well. If you know an office aid, you could try writing a note like an office referal that asked her out and have them deliver it (note: I think this is against the rules, so check first and be sure the guy is trustworthy). Use your best judgement and make it big.
The Great One
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Yea, well I have no problem spending a little bit, I just dont want something that is going to be expensive.PumpingIron13 said:
Krak
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Exactly. Do not buy her flowers, thats ridiculous.Mctwist4 said:
Walk up to HB
You: So, what time should I pick you up for prom?
HB: I'm going to prom with you?
You: Yep
HB: ok! bla bla bla
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
get them to ask you by playing it cool.
The Great One
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Nice, I like this idea. I think I will be using it.Krak said:
supajsilver2
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What if HB replies with something awkward, ie "uh...what are you talking about?"Krak said:
Flabbergasped?
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I'm against buying them things. It's just silly, and doesn't make you seem very suave, if you have to bribe them.
The person I asked was an underclassman.
Me: Man, I can't wait till prom.
Her: Yea, I wish I could go.
Me: I know, right? If only there was so miraculous, imaginary way for you to find a date that is in the graduating class. *wink*
Her: *laughs* So, I'm just a charity case?
Me: Exactly. And thank your lucky stars.
I think it's more important to say something creative than to actually buy them gifts/set up an event. I like Krak's idea.
The person I asked was an underclassman.
Me: Man, I can't wait till prom.
Her: Yea, I wish I could go.
Me: I know, right? If only there was so miraculous, imaginary way for you to find a date that is in the graduating class. *wink*
Her: *laughs* So, I'm just a charity case?
Me: Exactly. And thank your lucky stars.
I think it's more important to say something creative than to actually buy them gifts/set up an event. I like Krak's idea.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NYC Dude
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Why spend money on ASKING a girl to prom? That's just stupid, and a waste. Just bring up prom in a convo, find out if she has a date, if she doesn't then ask her to go with you. This is how I got my date:
Me: ... So, who are you going to prom with?
Her: I actually don't have a date yet.
Me: Really? Me neither! Let's go together!
Her: Okay, that sounds awesome.
Simple as that my friend.
Me: ... So, who are you going to prom with?
Her: I actually don't have a date yet.
Me: Really? Me neither! Let's go together!
Her: Okay, that sounds awesome.
Simple as that my friend.
john_wilshusen
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http://www.angelfire.com/tx6/jmpicpage/prom.wav
i never used it but i wrote it and its not too bad.. steal my words, just play g and c for the chords. i pretty much freestyled the whole thing, just playing and making up words as i went.
i never used it but i wrote it and its not too bad.. steal my words, just play g and c for the chords. i pretty much freestyled the whole thing, just playing and making up words as i went.