"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so theres this girl...

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yea. so theres this girl. i see her every where. like,at mcdonalds in TWO different towns, at walmart, school (shes a year younger than me), and just... around. well, she looks pretty good and i want to get to know her more. she has a boyfriend thats a redneck/geek/idiot. i wanna get to know her more but i dont want to come off as a stalker or anything.im i guess what you would call one of the more-popular people but not very many people know her. i dont want to go out or anything i just want to become friends (but i wouldnt mind goin out, if u get my drift). what should i do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Become friends with her, use the same techniques as anyone would to get hooked up, but only so much that she recognises you as a friend (if that's what you really want). However, if you do want her to go out with you, I'm out of my league here, but some luck may be involved (i.e. her breaking up with her bf).
 

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Make up your mind first off. Either you want her or you don't, there is no middle ground. Just go up and talk to her, or do something near her and talk to her. Then go from there.
 
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