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If my odds were 50% that I'd get together with this girl they are now about 10%. I should just go NEXT, and move on. It is the only option, the other is that I waste my time and get down that I get another rejection. Dwelling on it will only make my cynical. She needs to fly and I need to...

Hey Packers Number one lesson from this is not to contact a girl because you're feeling down, you will blow your chances with that girl for sure. Have a ****ty birthday on your own (dude, I've been there), call up some of your best friends, family etc, organise a party, think 'what is it that...

Pool is a good one to start the evening. Think I'll try that as there's a big pub right next door that has a free pool table. I went out on Friday and very cold, I didn't last 10 mins! Where are best places to go out solo? Clubs, bars, pubs, gigs?

Cheers Backseat, yup, a little confidence and time I'm sure I'll be fine! yup, a wing would be good. Anybody got any ideas how to find one?

Right, I posted on here a few days ago about whether I should contact this girl, she said she is busy this week, it didn't give me confidence but it did sound genuine http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201592 The advice I received was to contact her in a week and in the meantime...

Cheers peeps, go with the flow, stay cool, more dates, bang her! then, make decisions

This keeps happening. I'm on a date and its going well. I seem to like her but I have not made up my mind whether I'm completely attracted to her or not (despite the reality being that she's more than good enough), I guess I'm just weighing her up and seeing what she's like, mostly liking...

@Espi Thanks, I like this 'treat her the same' thing, it makes a lot of sense. And yes, the advice of nexting her 'if' is helping not get too caught up on her (there is nothing to get caught up on just yet) @JohnChops & yes, not jumping to conclusions is good, she's still a possibility and...

Thanks Greasy Pig. That's good, I like the idea of keeping things uncertain, short and not playing ball with her (she didn't with me). I'll let you know how I get on next week and if I manage to find any old dusty plates in the meantime. The annoying thing is the first date went really well...

Good advice backseat, next week I'll call. The dates were 2hrs then 3 1/2 hours so not tiny (I'd walk away if the third was only to be an hour!) She asked me how I am and then said she's busy today & the rest of the week, I feel I need to respond. Do you think it's bad form just to say a...

Tell her your car has been stolen (because its a super charged mo-fo with gold plated hub caps and all the rest) and then see if she's prepared to drive six hours to see you. I drove a long way to see a girl once, hired a car and all the rest but got all I did was made her feel self important...

Right, I'm gonna read the books & stuff so apologies if this is basic stuff and explained there (I read a few things a while back but, anyway...). I've gone on a couple of dates with a girl (the first was blind), both made deliberately short by her and during the daytime, nothing happened but...

First of all I'm a newbie however... I did some salsa classes for a bit and I scored with one. What I did was suggest going out and practicing salsa at a club, you know 'we could really show the rest of the class up if we practiced a little more'. Try to find a club that isn't full of...

Sneevox, tougirlsch, do you mean refrain from seeing two girls at the same time? Yup, gut instinct is good and don't lose my head which I have been doing. However I think I need to really keep a grip on reality here, I've had two dates with one and one with the other; I really like one of them...

1. Intense feelings when I date two girls at the same time, my instinct tells me to choose one and the guilty side of my personality struggles to deal with the morals, I’m never comfortable in this situation and it affects how I act; I become nervous and uncool. I’d like to date both and keep...