"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Doubts about attractiveness during dates

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This keeps happening.

I'm on a date and its going well. I seem to like her but I have not made up my mind whether I'm completely attracted to her or not (despite the reality being that she's more than good enough), I guess I'm just weighing her up and seeing what she's like, mostly liking her and being attracted to her. Then she says something a bit stupid or mentions something I don't like or starts to talk about boring things and I switch off and I can't look at her with the same feelings of sexuality that I should be, the 'moment' is lost, 'chemistry' is lost and she starts to get nervous. I would like

What do other people do, if you don't fancy a girl ALL the way through the date? Do you kind of pretend you do all the way?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just think about her body and taking her clothes off later and having my way with her, especially if she has very nice legs......

Really, you are thinking way too much...let your little head think some more and it will work itself out.
 
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zinc4 said:
I just think about her body and taking her clothes off later and having my way with her, especially if she has very nice legs......

Really, you are thinking way too much...let your little head think some more and it will work itself out.
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This, don't over think things in the early stages. Just stay cool and go wih the flow..


You won't know whether she is worth keeping until you've been with her about 10 times anyway, and that assumes you are banging her within the first 3, which you MUST be.
 
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Cheers peeps,
go with the flow, stay cool, more dates, bang her! then, make decisions
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Had this exact situation happen to me last night as a matter of fact. The girl is a solid 8 (I'm picky, my buddies say she's a 10, they're idiots), but a little ditsy, and doesn't quite have a big enough a$$ for my tastes - too much hot yoga or something. Don't get me wrong, she has a super tight body (which I like) I'm just a major a$$ man.

I had a couple thoughts of doubt enter my head during our bottle of wine, but decided to just ignore them and enjoy myself, and her company. After one date with her I'm thinking I'll take her out again...at least get the f close, then see how I'm feeling about her.
 
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