Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hey clockwerk,
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This thread is getting a little, for less of a better term, gay.
I don’t know, but acting like the wording on the video proves your point while ignoring the rest of the description is pretty disingenuous.
100%! I'm guilty of this^^ including with my current who is an attorney and I swore I wouid NEVER date an attorney after working with them for years. Among other things.
you don’t know?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The video says that the secret is that he never got defensive or reactive. I'm not sure what there is to interpret differently when he spells it out in the very next sentence.
Yes. Muscular body, abs, stylish, chiseled jaw, appropriate canthal tilt. Wheat Waffles would rank a 10. Definitely has good text game.This guy is quite a hit with women too.
Very natural and organic.
My hypothesis: OP has been getting AMOGed at clubs and is frustrated with OLD, so he’s gone from believing in PUA tricks, spins, routines, and dominance to believing looks are everything.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is decent, but the issue here is, you (by your admission) were attracted to his physical appearance. So he doesn't have to do much or say much, he just has to listen to you. It's like he's talking to his little sister. That's why the conversation was so natural and organic.
Hey BadBoy, I'm curious why you didn't bold the entire quote? What followed - "That played a part for sure, of course! But it's only one component, it's NOT what drew me to him in the grand scheme."
LMAO.
So his ‘secret’ to having a harem of models was -
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iRL. it’s exactly what BadBoy said.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes, as I said, he was handsome/attractive to me. I actually talked to other men before he approached who some might consider more conventionally attractive but they did nothing for ME
yes I think I do.
You posted the video. Just like with all your arguments, I’m not sure what the point is of using a clip from a full podcast as evidence when you don’t even take it seriously yourself.So his ‘secret’ to having a harem of models was -
“When you get busted by another chick, and she gets hysterical .. best to be cool and not also get hysterical.(in front of side chick) ”
“Be cool. Just take her aside and then feed her full of bullsh1t next step. to calm her down”
Ok cool.
I’m sure that’s what 99% of dudes would do anyway, in the same situation.
Great ‘secret’. Wow thanks for the mad insight Robert.
That’s an old movie trope btw heres the famous scene in A Guide for the Married Man (1967).
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I’m saying Greene is selling - using that old PUA method of “Secrets”.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.