"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheeky_James

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You're so fixated on his looks that you dismiss every other factor that has been described, then pass off your own speculation as fact. His looks were clearly a factor, but claiming they were the only factor is pure speculation.

Maybe take your own advice and reread the definition of confirmation bias until the penny drops.
hey clockwerk,
What do you think it means when Greene says
“ but his SECRET was ..”
he isn’t clear here and doesn’t finish the sentence..

his ‘secret’ to what exactly ? .. Or ..of what

I am confused. Pls help clarify thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Clockwerk50

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hey clockwerk,
What do you think it means when Greene says
“ but his SECRET was ..”
he isn’t clear here and doesn’t finish the sentence..

his ‘secret’ to what exactly ? .. Or ..of what

I am confused. Pls help clarify thanks
I don’t know, but acting like the wording on the video proves your point while ignoring the rest of the description is pretty disingenuous.
 

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In my experience, I always take what women say with a grain of salt. Most of the time, they end up with someone completely different from the type they claim to be looking for.
100%! I'm guilty of this^^ including with my current who is an attorney and I swore I wouid NEVER date an attorney after working with them for years. Among other things.

I'm the same re looks. I always said my preference is tall, blonde and lean (swimmers physique). Why? Because my first love had that look and physique. And for a long time I compared every man to HIM!

But once I finally got over him, I have found myself attracted to all different types, men who did not have that look. So I stopped trying to figure it out. It's much too nuanced and subjective.

As I stated in my previous, in my experience it's about the chemistry/energy that exists between two people, a natural masculine/feminine polarity which is intangible and cannot be defined.

His looks factor in but not for the reason you think. Meaning he may not be conventionally good looking but because of the our mutual natural chemistry/energy which often times is felt very quickly after meeting, he becomes good looking TO ME.

It's also why I have turned down extremely hot men, men with a certain status and wealth..

What I'm trying to say is there is NO magic sauce or formula that will guarantee attraction for either gender IME. No amount of looks or Game will work if the natural chemistry isn't there.

Ever wonder why after a date when YOU felt everything went right, you looked great, were 100% on your Game, did everything right, the woman texted the next day saying "I had a great time but just wasn't 'feeling it'"?

For her, there was no chemistry, no "spark." It happens all the time

Genuine attraction (versus superficial) and chemistry cannot be manufactured or created, again jmo and experience. It simply exists, it's an intangible force, no rhyme or reason.

Stop trying so hard.

All that said, I acknowledge since this is a seduction forum this may not be the right thread (or the right forum) to discuss this in more detail so I'll leave it. Just food for thought

Carry on mate, good luck!
 
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I don’t know, but acting like the wording on the video proves your point while ignoring the rest of the description is pretty disingenuous.
you don’t know?
But you followed along when he said the word SECRET and then the words HE DIDNT GET DEFENSIVE And HE DIDNT GET REACTIVE atraight after it right?

So what do you make of the meaning of that sentence … this Brazilian Man’s ‘SECRET’
His secret to WHAT mate.
Cmon, you made you’re interpretation of the video,
What’s your interpretation of that particular sentence..?

it’s a pretty simple question about a single sentence in the video.
I’m just confused . I need help understanding that sentence . Help me out here guys!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you don’t know?
But you followed along when he said the word SECRET and then the words HE DIDNT GET DEFENSIVE And HE DIDNT GET REACTIVE atraight after it right?

So what do you make of the meaning of that sentence … this Brazilian Man’s ‘SECRET’
His secret to WHAT mate.
Cmon, you made you’re interpretation of the video,
What’s your interpretation of that particular sentence..?

it’s a pretty simple question about a single sentence in the video.
The video says that the secret is that he never got defensive or reactive. I'm not sure what there is to interpret differently when he spells it out in the very next sentence.
 
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