She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You're clearly on the spectrum and / or trolling.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dude consider this
That actually looks like a really good read. And makes me think yet again that I should write something. HA!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
woaaah brosephius
I will add yours to The List buddy
It matters and it doesn’t. It is complicated to explain it because personality doesn’t overwrite the main funadamental of attraction: value. But at the same time it matters a lot for social things. Pick up and game is a social thing. Personality is created around socialization. So it is really difficult to say it doesn’t matter.
it matters , but which personality traits , and how much does it matter as a % piece of the pie.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It really is not like that simple, where you can make a % representation of it like 10 % o whatever. Personality is so involved in your life that many mental disease are based on personality disorder. Depression and being unable to handle emotions which is critical to game maybe all be rooted in a personality disorder. Personality is more than just being charismatic or certain trait like that. Personality is almost everything related with you at every ****ing second. Masculinity must be ingrained into your personality since early child so a lack of masculinity which leads to sexual failure is also lack of that ingridient into your personality.
If you would go back and read my previous post you would see I explained that personality is important but its really about a connection. That connection develops because of everything else beyond looks.Dude consider this
If this is the game strategy
Let’s call it EverythingMaxxing approach.
(Ive copied this from another post by Gamisch)
-Patience maxxx
-Money maxxx.
-Fitness maxxx
-Mental health maxxx
-Social skill maxxx
-Touch grass maxxx
-Self esteem maxxx
Right? Roughly speaking.
Now, take an example of an average woman call her Jane .who has had 3 LTRs by age 30 and those relationships did not work out.
Ask her why , and the answer will always be
“He turned out to be xyz” , too boring, too controlling, too mentally unstable, too lazy, too something. right ?
And if the success rate of marriage is about 50/50 also .
what does that tell you about a womans requirement for that certain right set of ‘personality traits’ and her ability to detect and judge personality?
And how important was ‘personality’ when she first met him .. if he “turned out” to have another personality after X number of years?
Answer me that question , (all of youse)
Use your brain guys.
a womans primary interest in a man is sexual interest.
women choose men primarily and most largely based on their sex appeal initially, at the start of any relationship.
thepersonality is discovered later in the relationship. And if his actual complete personality does not work for her 1 year, 2 years, 3 years more into the relationship , they break up or divorce and she moves on . To another guy with similar sex appeal.
And usually a different personality
and then another guy, with yet a different personality .
so when women say they “have a type”
it’s a Looks Type .
Not a personality type.
Because personality doesn’t really matter that much early days, when engaging in the fvcking-like-rabbits dating phase , the first year or so.
It’s all about having lots of sex and good times.
As that’s how Mother Nature wants it to happen , to make more children and propagate the species.
The guy just has to have any generic pleasant personaility.
Now guys,
please try and pick this example of Jane and her 3 LTRs . And proce me wrong about the rest of it.
re your assertion that personality matters to any significance is so much more correct.
your last part - No, I didn’t pass the requirement.
yes, this is a known issue, really.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
