Cheeky_James
Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No, because ugliness is global. A 300lbs Landwhale will disgust you, even if that's all that's available in your locale. The landwhale with the longest hair doesn't become a "10" if all the others have short hair. She's still a 2/10 > 1/10.Attractiveness is relative and tied to constraints of access. If you were confined to a limited environment,( like say just within your neighbourhood or small town), then the best looking girl in town… is the 10 no?
A "5" Is an OK looking woman to me. She certainly won't be fat. This is a "5" to me:You guys should use the same grading scale video game reviewers use: 10 = masterpiece, 9 = amazing, 8 = great, 7 = good, and 6 = okay. Anything below 6 is unplayable.
I never said the 300lb landwhale becomes a 10.No, because ugliness is global. A 300lbs Landwhale will disgust you, even if that's all that's available in your locale. The landwhale with the longest hair doesn't become a "10" if all the others have short hair. She's still a 2/10 > 1/10.
Evolution will take tens of thousands of years. Your ancestors preferred fit, slim, active young women who could forage for berries and food, collect crops, walk 2 miles to a water well/source and 2 miles back each day. Thats why today most of us prefer that slim-fit look/build and youthful mothers means healthier babies with less chance of defects.
People like you a weird man.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just look at history. Even fat noble women lost to a pretty peasant girl. The fact women are so fat today is very abnormal for the human species. Being fat was a last resort for fending against the winter and starvation. Today, they are fat regardless of the safe environment. It is sad. I am seeing so many fat and chubby women that it's making me hate western women more and more. And unfortunately, it has the double effect of inflating the egos of any skinny woman, which makes things worse for the dating market. Basically, women are winning regardless cause there's always a man ready to **** a woman no matter how fat she is. Just look at any fat woman walking around walmart with kids. Someone hit that.This is completely subjective man to man -- although there are probably certain women who would be considered "beautiful" by most if not all men. But yes -- for me this particular difference in the scale is a big one. A 6/10 is typically one I am good to sleep with. A 5/10 I am usually not good to sleep with. Generally, weight is the biggest factor in moving women around the HB scale for me -- with their faces being the second biggest factor. Being over-weight drives women down the scale very quickly for me in terms of my attraction to them.
I think women would say men have gone wrong too.Just look at history. Even fat noble women lost to a pretty peasant girl. The fact women are so fat today is very abnormal for the human species. Being fat was a last resort for fending against the winter and starvation. Today, they are fat regardless of the safe environment. It is sad. I am seeing so many fat and chubby women that it's making me hate western women more and more. And unfortunately, it has the double effect of inflating the egos of any skinny woman, which makes things worse for the dating market. Basically, women are winning regardless cause there's always a man ready to **** a woman no matter how fat she is. Just look at any fat woman walking around walmart with kids. Someone hit that.
I said my 5/10 example could be rated a 6/10 due to makeup. But thats due to makeup enhancing features - darkening eyebrows, skin foundation, lipstick, mascara. Also a tight dress on a slim body, and spending hours on hair is gonna add to improvement on smv.I never said the 300lb landwhale becomes a 10.
I meant attractiveness is relative , it’s subjective and there is bias , variance and distortion in any’ beauty scale.’
Attractiveness has ties to culture.
And time period. (The ideal body shape has changed over time ) There’s a lot of aspects to it being ‘relative.’
Even your 5 could maybe be a 6 you say
So there’s relative movement already. Right there.
Other examples of issues
-Should chicks be rated looking their best , or most natural ?
-If she was a different ethnicity would you still rate her the same..? black, Asian etc
re the title of the post - a 1 ‘point’ difference is 10% increase.
So it should be subtle per the % increase ..
not a ‘ large jump’ for anyone using the scale.
It’s a redundant question in the title then.
I’d like to see your individual examples for 6,7,8,9,10 btw .just out of curiousity. I find it hard to grade point-to -point personally, there’s so many factors .
I generally rate women when they are looking their best mate - and they generally put their best out there right? Then being obsessed with beauty and fashion. And basically never wanting to be seen in trackies , sans make up.I said my 5/10 example could be rated a 6/10 due to makeup. But thats due to makeup enhancing features - darkening eyebrows, skin foundation, lipstick, mascara. Also a tight dress on a slim body, and spending hours on hair is gonna add to improvement on smv.
Mia Goth with and without makeup. Big difference, eh? Some guys would rate her a 4 without makeup and a 6-7 with makeup. that's a big jump. Men do not have such things to boost SMV like makeup does to women.
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No its not me in that WW video. I'm a 48yo man.Btw Was that you in that WW dating experiment video? If so have you updated your pics yet.
I see WW has , after taking PWFs tips, and it’s much improved imo. Just sayin..
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The data from BP does look pretty bad I have to admit. Im lucky I am a boomer also and lived my best years pre internet .. thats really fvcked society and it’s Its outta control.No its not me in that WW video. I'm a 48yo man.
Wheat reminds me of myself 20 years ago. He was right to move out of the UK to Poland, the market here in the UK is heavily shifted to allow women to date up in looks.
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