Sh$t test???

Mertz09

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So if she sh$t test you after you have known her for a few months. What do you think? Does it go on forever??
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So if she sh$t test you after you have known her for a few months. What do you think? Does it go on forever??
it will go on until it does not affect you. if the event can get past your filter and activate your emotion it will continue; forever. when the event happens process it logically. do not pass it through to your emotion unless you choose to do so.

then you will never have a sh$t test. you will only have calm information to consider. you do not need her approval. she can go if she wants. do not participate in the sh$t test. she can just do that by herself you do not need to participate. you do not need to defend or correct her. do not pass it to your emotions unless you choose.
 

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So if she sh$t test you after you have known her for a few months. What do you think? Does it go on forever??
It means she has questions about what you present yourself as versus what she sees by your actions and is working on trying to figure that out.
 

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Can you give this a little context? In other words, what happened specifically?
I’m still trying to figure it out . AKA a **** test LOL
 

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Are you saying you're not successfully identifying them when they occur? Or perhaps you know they're happening and are unsure on different ways to 'pass' them?

Whatever you do, do NOT go about these s tests in a manner prescribed in the silly book "Way of the superior man."
 
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