The art of being 'Confident and funny'.

[Travel memoir21]

Often, I find myself sprinkling just a tiny dab of confident humor and teasing from the start, then building plenty of connections and social panache to get the date or approach moving in the right direction. How much confident humor/teasing do you use throughout the date or approach?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Use it all the time in life generally

 

[BillyPilgrim]

None if I'm trying to get laid. C0cky/funny, yes. You need to be willing to be provocative and roguish, overtly willing to push up against (but not cross) boundaries. Merely being confident won't accomplish this.

The difference between c0cky/funny and confident/funny is the difference between Richard Pryor and Bob Saget.

Nobody liked Bob Saget until he started telling dirty jokes.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Nobody liked Bob Saget until he started telling dirty jokes.

Yet, he made his millions on Full House and HIMYM

 

[Pumax]

None if I'm trying to get laid. C0cky/funny, yes. You need to be willing to be provocative and roguish, overtly willing to push up against (but not cross) boundaries. Merely being confident won't accomplish this.

The difference between c0cky/funny and confident/funny is the difference between Richard Pryor and Bob Saget.

Nobody liked Bob Saget until he started telling dirty jokes.

Im considering that a red flag.
If a man has that attitude, its a red flag
(****y funny)

Also, do examples of a dialogue if you need to explain what do you think being ****y funny vs confident funny is, so we better enter your pov

 

[zekko]

Yet, he made his millions on Full House and HIMYM

And he was mainly known for that warm hearted wholesome stuff. Which made it all the more surprising when you saw his act.