High Score Theory

[Desdinova]

So a woman would completely forget the emotions she experienced with A, because today there's B who makes her experience something different?

Women live in the moment of their emotions. If A gets comfortable and caters to her whims, then B has the potential to come in and give her a nice dose of emotional fluctuation. The woman may suffer remorse after her emotional experience with B comes to an end. She may try and go back to A. We all know scenarios like this happen when a woman we're working on suddenly drops off the face of the Earth.

Women are less likely to stick with their emotional morals than Men are. A man's spot at the top is never a guarantee of relationship stability. This whole theory is there to help a man improve his chances at having a woman stay with him, and I would say it's improves the odds significantly to a point where it's as close to a guarantee as you can get. If I'm in the market for a LTR, I'm going to have more confidence in pursuing an 18 year old virgin than I would pursuing a 33 year old single mom, even if she's known me for the last 15 years. The 18 year old is going to have men on her list with extremely low scores whereas the single mom has men on her list (including myself) who have been living in her brain for years, constantly increasing their scores. The odds are better with the 18 year old who is much closer to being a blank slate.

So your theory is targeting 20's to 30's but not what happen after?

It mainly encompasses women before they enter Menopause. In this case (at least with what I've seen), Menopause appears to be some sort of a reset button. A woman goes through hormonal changes that affect the brain chemistry. HST may become completely irrelevant at this point, but don't quote me on that. I haven't done much exploration with post-Menopausal women because I have no desire to go out and fvck a random granny. Although it may be fascinating, post-Menopausal women are largely irrelevant to me. However, if you're with the 18 year old up to the point where she's finished Menopause, you've got familiarity and history on your side. She also doesn't know anything else besides life with you.

A post-menopausal woman's emotional attachment to you could just simply disappear. I've seen couples who have split after 40-50 years of marriage. However, if you're with a woman who's significantly younger than you, then who give a fvck? You might be dead by the time she's done Menopause.

Sorry if your theory raises questions, but it's very interesting, friend.

Questions prompt exploration in thought. I will always welcome it. It's better than being a brain dead beta.

 

[Bigpapa]

Women live in the moment of their emotions. If A gets comfortable and caters to her whims, then B has the potential to come in and give her a nice dose of emotional fluctuation. The woman may suffer remorse after her emotional experience with B comes to an end. She may try and go back to A. We all know scenarios like this happen when a woman we're working on suddenly drops off the face of the Earth.

Women are less likely to stick with their emotional morals than Men are. A man's spot at the top is never a guarantee of relationship stability. This whole theory is there to help a man improve his chances at having a woman stay with him, and I would say it's improves the odds significantly to a point where it's as close to a guarantee as you can get. If I'm in the market for a LTR, I'm going to have more confidence in pursuing an 18 year old virgin than I would pursuing a 33 year old single mom, even if she's known me for the last 15 years. The 18 year old is going to have men on her list with extremely low scores whereas the single mom has men on her list (including myself) who have been living in her brain for years, constantly increasing their scores. The odds are better with the 18 year old who is much closer to being a blank slate.


It mainly encompasses women before they enter Menopause. In this case (at least with what I've seen), Menopause appears to be some sort of a reset button. A woman goes through hormonal changes that affect the brain chemistry. HST may become completely irrelevant at this point, but don't quote me on that. I haven't done much exploration with post-Menopausal women because I have no desire to go out and fvck a random granny. Although it may be fascinating, post-Menopausal women are largely irrelevant to me. However, if you're with the 18 year old up to the point where she's finished Menopause, you've got familiarity and history on your side. She also doesn't know anything else besides life with you.

A post-menopausal woman's emotional attachment to you could just simply disappear. I've seen couples who have split after 40-50 years of marriage. However, if you're with a woman who's significantly younger than you, then who give a fvck? You might be dead by the time she's done Menopause.



Questions prompt exploration in thought. I will always welcome it. It's better than being a brain dead beta.

i would add the same thing about guys, you will always remember the girls that you did interesting stuff with or gave you good emotions

I even have a friend of example that is 42 and after like 20 years he got together with an ex of his

he said because the emotions between them are purer than what he experienced with other girls

though, I do not think that the issue is that the women are not that infatuated when doing things that they like

I think the problem is that people as they age, they start putting their guard higher and higher as they experience things

and ofc, you can not really experience something amazing when your walls are very high

in order to experience something fully you need to be vulnerable to it

if you see a bear and you are on foot you experience the scare at a higher pace than when you are on a bike or in a car or in a plane

 

[jhonny9546]

Women live in the moment of their emotions. If A gets comfortable and caters to her whims, then B has the potential to come in and give her a nice dose of emotional fluctuation. The woman may suffer remorse after her emotional experience with B comes to an end. She may try and go back to A. We all know scenarios like this happen when a woman we're working on suddenly drops off the face of the Earth.

Nothing more true, I can't say otherwise.

Emotionally affected, could "any" woman falls prey to manipulation?
In my experience, all women had no way of regulating themselves or being immune to some man's manipulation, while I've seen men resist it with reason, even if their d1cks were obviously pointing in another direction.

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Personally, this affects me deeply because, as I've explained in other posts, I've emotionally affected some women, yet I've made no move to get them into bed.
And I've watched them drift apart emotionally, and then gradually return to their current boyfriend, but all of them, and I mean all of them, have left the door open to receiving those emotions I'd made them feel again.
This makes you think: as men, we try so hard, but we have to understand that, after all the fun we've had with her, if she's succumbed to another man's emotions, it can happen, it's part of the game, and we have to move on.
I've seen too many friends take her back, and today they're enjoying a woman who's a pain in the 4ss and doesn't respect them.
And some, not all, let's say the minority, of these friends of mine have game and high-level men (but they're not yet familiar with the world of sosuave, yet).
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What do you mean "She may try and go back to A"?
Are you saying that a woman who returns with A, after an emotional experience with B, will continue to think about B? (So in this case, her first place, A, moved to second place precisely because she didn't get B, which goes from second place to first?)

Women are less likely to stick with their emotional morals than Men are.

After all, we talked about the fact that women detach themselves emotionally; they're simply weak.
In this case, have you ever asked yourself, what should we do as men?
Control her environment, for example, not letting her go to nightclubs or other vulnerable places, or simply give her complete freedom, but maintain a frame of mind?

@Bigpapa Nostalgia

 

[Desdinova]

What do you mean "She may try and go back to A"?
Are you saying that a woman who returns with A, after an emotional experience with B, will continue to think about B? (So in this case, her first place, A, moved to second place precisely because she didn't get B, which goes from second place to first?)

Of course she'll still think about B. He's on the list. She'll still think about C, D, E, and so on, although it's less prominent the further you go down the list.

My mistress had a fiancee who I firmly believe was Man A. I was somewhere lower, although I have no clue where. She screwed around on him many times with me. She would try and make it work with him, and then text me out of the blue looking to hook up again. I ended it when her fiancee realized we were fvcking around. She went and found another guy to cheat on him with. I know because she messaged me again after the affair looking to hook up with me again. She eventually married Man A and has 3 or 4 kids with him. They've continued to break up and get back together over the years. It might be permanently over now, although I don't know the circumstances.