"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What about unattractive women? They may not be able to get or hold a relationship

How does the theory work on them
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It'd be interesting to see what OP has to say about this. I do have some ideas though.

An unattractive woman is still after all a woman. Women desire to be with someone who they are not only attracted to but also someone who doesn't want to accept mediocrity for himself, will fight to achieve more in life and who will protect her. Someone she can look up to and desire with all she has. Even if she hasn't been with said man, she knows in her mind who this man is.

For example, the ladies that had caught "Bieber Fever" really bad in the late 2000s. Not all of them were women certain men would do with someone else's junk! lol. That aside, it didn't change women finding a certain 'type' of man if you will desirable. If other women want to be with this guy and he looks like he could whoop some a$$ and knows how to carve some agency of his own over the natural world, this registers with women. HARD. And if he turns his eye to them, they'll not fast forget it.

Think about an average guy. The phrases, "I'll take one for the team.", or perhaps "Hey, you don't have to be ashamed, I've had 'beer goggles' too.", or maybe a not so common, subtle and sincere "I like em' bigger." If this type of guy is with an HB 4 even as a plate, this 4 is going to regard him as her best shot. Other guys just can't come close.

The arguable GOAT Tom Leykis compared men and s3x to taking a p1ss. "We don't care if it's Sadam's gold overlayed toilet with silk wipes, a porta john or a sketchy gas station on the 4-oh-5, if you need to go you need to go." His point was "a man will do what he has to if he has to." This includes an occasional lady who might not be someone you're really into. But if she keeps pawing on you and kissing you and rubbing certain places, I mean... Biology is biology.

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Long and short of it is men are men and women are women. There are exceptions to many things, but generally speaking, even an ugly, overweight or otherwise unattractive woman will still meet or have a casual encounter with a man she sees as "the man I really wish I can have and since I've been with one, that means I have a chance. I'm going to keep holding on to a man like him coming along."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It'd be interesting to see what OP has to say about this. I do have some ideas though.

An unattractive woman is still after all a woman. Women desire to be with someone who they are not only attracted to but also someone who doesn't want to accept mediocrity for himself, will fight to achieve more in life and who will protect her. Someone she can look up to and desire with all she has. Even if she hasn't been with said man, she knows in her mind who this man is.

For example, the ladies that had caught "Bieber Fever" really bad in the late 2000s. Not all of them were women certain men would do with someone else's junk! lol. That aside, it didn't change women finding a certain 'type' of man if you will desirable. If other women want to be with this guy and he looks like he could whoop some a$$ and knows how to carve some agency of his own over the natural world, this registers with women. HARD. And if he turns his eye to them, they'll not fast forget it.

Think about an average guy. The phrases, "I'll take one for the team.", or perhaps "Hey, you don't have to be ashamed, I've had 'beer goggles' too.", or maybe a not so common, subtle and sincere "I like em' bigger." If this type of guy is with an HB 4 even as a plate, this 4 is going to regard him as her best shot. Other guys just can't come close.

The arguable GOAT Tom Leykis compared men and s3x to taking a p1ss. "We don't care if it's Sadam's gold overlayed toilet with silk wipes, a porta john or a sketchy gas station on the 4-oh-5, if you need to go you need to go." His point was "a man will do what he has to if he has to." This includes an occasional lady who might not be someone you're really into. But if she keeps pawing on you and kissing you and rubbing certain places, I mean... Biology is biology.

**TLDR!**

Long and short of it is men are men and women are women. There are exceptions to many things, but generally speaking, even an ugly, overweight or otherwise unattractive woman will still meet or have a casual encounter with a man she sees as "the man I really wish I can have and since I've been with one, that means I have a chance. I'm going to keep holding on to a man like him coming along."
Thanks for this.

I have an Indian friend in his mid 30s. He showed me below average Indian women in their 30s on a dating app who swiped him.

In my opinion, I highly doubt these below average Indian women are hit on or had a relationship. I could be wrong.

There are two Indian women who are average looking women not in a relationship nearing 40.

For Indian men, it's cultural, go to university, get a good job, then get a good wife.

Indian men who I've been have told high standards. Even their parents despise below average looking women. The Indian men who were married all had attractive wives.
 
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