How ridiculous is it that, as a man, the moment you improve something in your life, all the women who rejected you, ghosted you, or simply didn't care about you, but they we're attracted by you, suddenly come back with renewed interest?
Sometimes it only takes something as simple as getting a more prestigious job, buying your own home, starting or managing a successful business, getting into better shape, gaining a higher social status, becoming friends with a very attractive woman, becoming the leader of an association, and so on...
And suddenly, there they are again.
They text you first. They start liking your photos. They suddenly want to know how you're doing.
But this attention often lasts only until the excitement fades.
And honestly, these are not the moments a man should live his life for.
A man should always be focused on bigger things. Yet, unfortunately, it often seems that women respond most strongly to these visible changes: status, success, novelty, social proof, appearance.
The problem is that a man cannot spend his entire life trying to keep these moments of novelty alive forever. If he did, he would risk wasting the opportunity to focus on the things that truly matter in his life, simply because he is too busy trying to maintain women's attention.
A woman suddenly becomes infatuated again. She's proactive, enthusiastic, interested...
But as soon as the novelty in you fades, because naturally, it eventually does, she becomes indifferent all over again.
How many of you have experienced the same thing.. I wonder.. and.. is this specific to "all" female nature, or only to these women that never had the intention to put you in their "1st" place in life?
Sometimes it only takes something as simple as getting a more prestigious job, buying your own home, starting or managing a successful business, getting into better shape, gaining a higher social status, becoming friends with a very attractive woman, becoming the leader of an association, and so on...
And suddenly, there they are again.
They text you first. They start liking your photos. They suddenly want to know how you're doing.
But this attention often lasts only until the excitement fades.
And honestly, these are not the moments a man should live his life for.
A man should always be focused on bigger things. Yet, unfortunately, it often seems that women respond most strongly to these visible changes: status, success, novelty, social proof, appearance.
The problem is that a man cannot spend his entire life trying to keep these moments of novelty alive forever. If he did, he would risk wasting the opportunity to focus on the things that truly matter in his life, simply because he is too busy trying to maintain women's attention.
A woman suddenly becomes infatuated again. She's proactive, enthusiastic, interested...
But as soon as the novelty in you fades, because naturally, it eventually does, she becomes indifferent all over again.
How many of you have experienced the same thing.. I wonder.. and.. is this specific to "all" female nature, or only to these women that never had the intention to put you in their "1st" place in life?
