This girl came into my business this past weekend. We really hit it off and the chemistry was great, and when I talked to the customer after her, she quietly wrote down her phone number and left.
I texted her later that night, and she was very excited and said to let her know if I ever wanted to hang out. I said we should grab a drink when I have some free time later next week, and she said she was very down.
At that point she asked how old I was. I told her I am turning 28 in a couple weeks, and she replied "Damn I’m only 23 Might have to skip drinks, you seem really sweet though!"
Not quite sure how to read into this. Does this seem like a polite, apologetic rejection? Or is it her way of putting out a feeler to see how I view this age disparity? I mean it's 5 years, we're both in our 20s. I'm too busy with my company and don't really care to get invested in a woman right now, so it's not a huge deal to me if this doesn't go anywhere. But she seemed pretty cool.
Typically, I've dated either women my age or older, really just by circumstance or due to the age range setting I've put on dating apps when I've used them in the past. The couple times in the past year when I've went out with a 22 or 23 year old, I've found it to be a bit boring and the women to be too immature for me. I really liked the vibe of this chick though, and although the gap does give me some pause, I'd still like to see what's up.
How do you view this, and what would you say?
Thank you.
I texted her later that night, and she was very excited and said to let her know if I ever wanted to hang out. I said we should grab a drink when I have some free time later next week, and she said she was very down.
At that point she asked how old I was. I told her I am turning 28 in a couple weeks, and she replied "Damn I’m only 23 Might have to skip drinks, you seem really sweet though!"
Not quite sure how to read into this. Does this seem like a polite, apologetic rejection? Or is it her way of putting out a feeler to see how I view this age disparity? I mean it's 5 years, we're both in our 20s. I'm too busy with my company and don't really care to get invested in a woman right now, so it's not a huge deal to me if this doesn't go anywhere. But she seemed pretty cool.
Typically, I've dated either women my age or older, really just by circumstance or due to the age range setting I've put on dating apps when I've used them in the past. The couple times in the past year when I've went out with a 22 or 23 year old, I've found it to be a bit boring and the women to be too immature for me. I really liked the vibe of this chick though, and although the gap does give me some pause, I'd still like to see what's up.
How do you view this, and what would you say?
Thank you.
