Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It really doesn't take a lot of energy to ask her out. Takes less than a minute, and then you will know. I think your best course of action now is to just move on and forget about her.... There is a reason why you haven't taken action, trust your gut.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This exactly.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Sounds like you did the right thing and moved on. To be honest, this sounds like some typical chick flick off a movie or something lol. But yeah, brother, moved on, you shot your shot and she showed her true colors.
Not talking in absolutes here, but this is the other side of plate spinning. Just like men use attention to get sex, women can use the possibility of sex to get attention, and this is often how they spin their plates, keeping men engaged and orbiting with just enough closeness or flirtation to maintain interest without offering real progression. Women value attention while men value sex.
Yes - if she wants to spend time with me she has to ask for it. I am not doing this again - once is enough. The fact that she is talking to me is encouraging on its own, but I am not getting too far ahead of myself, not this time. Besides, there have been plenty of times so far where I either stood right next to her, or sat across from her in the same aisle, just reading my book and minding my own business. I've said this before but to me it feels like she is playing games and I have zero time for that.