Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Happened to you?When the doorman doesn’t card you, but just rolls his eyes as you pass by.
yes lolHappened to you?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Elaborateyes lol
niceIf you’re going to a club to pick up women, that’s the wrong mindset to have. You should go there to have fun with your friends, dance your ass off, have fun and let the chips fall where they may. If you don’t have any ladies with you that night, have something planned you can do nice for yourself like a hot bath, a glass of wine and a good movie or a book before hitting the hay. Treat yourself to a sunny day at the park and go day gaming afterwards with your dog. Have something nice planned for yourself when you don’t catch any fish lol.
My club entry experience transition by age:Elaborate
What city?My club entry experience transition by age:
1. Late 20s - Super friendly/chatty doormen.
2. Early 30s - Polite doormen.
3. Late 30s - Neutral doormen.
4. Over 40 - The look of “I don’t want to say yes to this guy’s entry, but he’s well dressed and hasn’t done anything wrong.” Subtle “whatever” eyeroll or sigh as I walked in lol.
I don’t club anymore. But I used to go to casino nightclubs back in the day because they typically are much more flexible for an older guy than a local nightclub. But even that has its limits.
Location ?My club entry experience transition by age:
1. Late 20s - Super friendly/chatty doormen.
2. Early 30s - Polite doormen.
3. Late 30s - Neutral doormen.
4. Over 40 - The look of “I don’t want to say yes to this guy’s entry, but he’s well dressed and hasn’t done anything wrong.” Subtle “whatever” eyeroll or sigh as I walked in lol.
I don’t club anymore. But I used to go to casino nightclubs back in the day because they typically are much more flexible for an older guy than a local nightclub. But even that has its limits.
Used to club in southeast CT back in the day. It wasn’t really close to any major cities.Location ?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.