Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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pushpull lines and cold reads
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Of course I do not believe that. She's with him because of extremely high-status. When a man is a billionaire, he can have an endless supply of women so long as his Johnson works.
First mention of “not hot”.
Yes, there is a difference. And one doesn't have to be incredibly tall and handsome to get women. I'm only 5'10" and have been called handsome, though I'm well aware I am not striking. My physique, as shown in an old photo post-contest in my avatar, is above average.
Second mention of them not being gorgeous, which is besides the point because women who are "5s" and "6s" have more sexual power than most men. And I suspect nearly all men lurking and posting on this forum would gladly go for these women if invited by them, and they know it. With all the sexual selection these 5's and 6's have available, including access to good looking and high-status men considering their positions (female lawyer, prison governor), they went for those featured men. Besides these examples I provided I have my own real-life observation anyway.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And I'm glad it works this way.
My experience has simply made me realize that many women can't separate the concept of having a well-rounded but respectful man from a ****ty man who's aggressive and punishes her when she makes mistakes.
I think the problem is a man that is too respectful can come off to a women be a yes man/nice guy who is weak underneath. They are looking for strength in some form.
Eh, I've seen lots of women with overweight men. I don't mean big sloppy guys. I'm talking about guys who are big and husky, but they have a bit of a gut on them. Built like a small defensive end. So they're tall, look strong, and look like they can protect her. Don't necessarily need to have a six pack to attract women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That’s not fat though. That’s masculine. I know what you mean. Maybe I should have been more specific. I’m talking about, not athletic , just fat. Your example looks ambitious my example is a slob and that means lazy.
My example isn't ambitious necessarily, just physically strong, or strong looking. But I take your meaning.
Continued.Of course I do not believe that. She's with him because of extremely high-status. When a man is a billionaire, he can have an endless supply of women so long as his Johnson works.
First mention of “not hot”.
Yes, there is a difference. And one doesn't have to be incredibly tall and handsome to get women. I'm only 5'10" and have been called handsome, though I'm well aware I am not striking. My physique, as shown in an old photo post-contest in my avatar, is above average.
Second mention of them not being gorgeous, which is besides the point because women who are "5s" and "6s" have more sexual power than most men. And I suspect nearly all men lurking and posting on this forum would gladly go for these women if invited by them, and they know it. With all the sexual selection these 5's and 6's have available, including access to good looking and high-status men considering their positions (female lawyer, prison governor), they went for those featured men. Besides these examples I provided I have my own real-life observation anyway.
Backed up by research.
Scientific Blackpill
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And how do you show it?
Some people are just damaged.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How many have you met?
Violent men can have a moral compass
We all live in a very damaged culture in the west
It doesn't help when different people will have vastly different ideas of what is healthy and what isn't.
Very wise words
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.