Leadership

[The Duke]

I had a recent experience with a volunteer organization that made me question the leaders ability to organize and lead the group.

Several months back I inquired about the status of the project and got no replies. A few weeks ago I got a "we are meeting with the officials that have jurisdiction."

I remained patient, and now the new acting leader of this volunteer organization is now looking for free equipment and labor. It's going to take way more than what they are requesting initially.

This is the second attempt to pull this project off. Now there is no plan. No schedule. No timeline. No work assignments. The original leader of this organization did a very good job with this but unfortunately had to step down.

So what does this have to do with women?

Every woman wants a strong leader. Direction. A man with a plan so she can feel comfortable supporting and helping him reach the goal. She needs to believe in you and what you offer.

I am not providing my time and resources to someone I don't have faith in. Neither will the woman you are trying to get with if she isn't convinced of your ability to lead.

A woman wants a guy that has his life in order, has direction, goals, focus, organization, passion, conviction, and plans, so she can feel confident and get behind him.

Until then you are just a fuhk boy if you're lucky. You won't be taken seriously for long term commitment. Get your life in order. Make something of yourself. Getting women becomes much easier when you do.

 

[Plinco]

Every woman wants a strong leader. Direction. A man with a plan so she can feel comfortable supporting and helping him reach the goal. She needs to believe in you and what you offer.

I am not providing my time and resources to someone I don't have faith in. Neither will the woman you are trying to get with if she isn't convinced of your ability to lead.

Leadership is not natural for women, and the vast, vast majority are terrible leaders. From my experience women go into these leadership roles for their ego and then end up screwing the organization, at least in the morale sense and usually more than that. With that said, we are talking about nature and nature is to be understood and overcome; as human beings, our nature is to control nature, not to be slaves to nature. Good women leaders do exists, but they are the exception because unfortunately women are so catered to that they fail to develop the character needed that leadership requires.

A woman wants a guy that has his life in order, has direction, goals, focus, organization, passion, conviction, and plans, so she can feel confident and get behind him.

That's because you are describing virtues and virtues are attractive, very simple.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Until then you are just a fuhk boy if you're lucky. You won't be taken seriously for long term commitment. Get your life in order. Make something of yourself. Getting women becomes much easier when you do.

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[DJ Novice]

I think that some women like guys who are strong leaders because it allows the woman to relax more into the feminine side of their nature.

Overly masculine women (boss babes) who love taking on the leadership role do exist (mostly at work). I don’t think this dynamic is good if she always brings that same energy home to the relationship and her partner expects her to make all the decisions, do all the work etc.

As a guy you do need to take the lead, help and make stuff happen at times. This doesn’t excuse the woman to never contribute or offer no help. Leadership is exhausting and sometimes it’s good to have someone other than you take the reins when needed.

Some semblance of leadership is important in a guy but there are other qualities that women value as much or even more.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I think that some women like guys who are strong leaders because it allows the woman to relax more into the feminine side of their nature.

Overly masculine women (boss babes) who love taking on the leadership role do exist (mostly at work). I don’t think this dynamic is good if she always brings that same energy home to the relationship and her partner expects her to make all the decisions, do all the work etc.

As a guy you do need to take the lead, help and make stuff happen at times. This doesn’t excuse the woman to never contribute or offer no help. Leadership is exhausting and sometimes it’s good to have someone other than you take the reins when needed.

Some semblance of leadership is important in a guy but there are other qualities that women value as much or even more.

Yeah, reminds one of the lyrics here

Women were expressing the yearning you describe all the way back in '96, and they still are today

 

[plumber]

leadership is the right angle. how to do it. some say, just put the man into the pool and he needs to swim or die. ok....

every single man desperately wants to be a leader and be respected. some may deny it but its just a natural male instinct.

we find some man that is having problems and then tell him, you need to learn leadership. and then we wash our hands and tell about shame on him for not doing it. at the same time we tell don't be shy, and a bunch of other don'ts. well, pretty much all the men want to be leaders and not shy, and not do all of the other don'ts.

so why does one man do it and another does not. why.....

OP, your right, women and men love men that show leadership and can really lead. it doesn't get better than that.

its not a trick question, this is a reason....

 

[Mike32ct]

Women certainly want a guy that can lead the relationship and also be in charge of his life.

At work or in business, I don’t think every guy is cut out for a leadership role (eg manager) or to run a business.

Some guys are really good at a particular skill set, but they actually NEED a boss to run things so they can focus exclusively on their area of expertise. As “beta” as that might sound, there’s no shame in that. It’s about working with your strengths.