“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tinder match.

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Okay so what's the problem here? She's a gold digging wh0re. Is that what you want?
 

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Okay so what's the problem here? She's a gold digging wh0re. Is that what you want?
I did'nt say there was aproblem, that is your internal mind that has brought that viewpoint up.

I however was just sharing because i think other members might be interested in her message.
 

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Why would you even answer that and look like a beggar as if you need to meet her standards?

She should be meeting yours and she should have automatically failed. But she didn't because apparently you have no standards, which is half the problem.
 

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Why would you even answer that and look like a beggar as if you need to meet her standards?

She should be meeting yours and she should have automatically failed. But she didn't because apparently you have no standards, which is half the problem.
Was just interested to see what she had to say. Just because i answered one question on tinder dose'nt mean i have 'no standards' you constantly target me on here, troll, as i've said in the past, you are a terrible moderater.
 

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in the distant past i knew some women that had a money threshold for men.

she saved you time, that's win for you.

maybe you told more then you needed to. she only asked your income. its a direct question, so you have to respond. I have no knowledge if your number is high or low. If you in top 10% and want to be selected because of that, then telling is ok. else some snarky answer like "not much, usually the lady pays. I hope you have enough".
 

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@Rainman4707 a woman setting you up to qualify yourself right out of the gate., pretty bold of her. Only gold digging wh0res pull that card. Your response was pretty serious. This is a woman that makes her living as a professional sugar baby, you realize that right?
 

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Why would you even answer that and look like a beggar as if you need to meet her standards?

She should be meeting yours and she should have automatically failed. But she didn't because apparently you have no standards, which is half the problem.
Super cringe

What’s ironic is that had he simply left the message on “read” and gone about his business she would have chased him and being it was on vacation he could have just hit it and been on a flight out the next day - now that’s all conjecture but it certainly had no shot of happening the way OP did it, such a cringe moment
 

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@Rainman4707 since you seem a little defensive, let me rephrase her question in a way that you can understand how bold and disrespectful it is:

Forgive me, but it is important for me to understand your libido and how you have sex. I have my own ideas of how much my woman fu**s me and how we fu**. Tell me how it looks in terms of fu**ing me today and ideally, if you told me your average fu**s per month. Forgive me for asking that, it might seem forward, but I need to know from the start, since I'm looking to experience frequent org*sms with my future wife.
 

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Super cringe

What’s ironic is that had he simply left the message on “read” and gone about his business she would have chased him and being it was on vacation he could have just hit it and been on a flight out the next day - now that’s all conjecture but it certainly had no shot of happening the way OP did it, such a cringe moment
It honestly amazes me that long time forum members fail blatantly obvious sh!t tests and not only are they blatantly obvious, they are easy to see. We talk about stuff like this constantly. Tons of threads on exactly this type of stuff.

It really makes me wonder what people are actually learning on this forum when we see this kind of stuff.

Mind numbing to me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It honestly amazes me that long time forum members fail blatantly obvious sh!t tests and not only are they blatantly obvious, they are easy to see. We talk about stuff like this constantly. Tons of threads on exactly this type of stuff.

It really makes me wonder what people are actually learning on this forum when we see this kind of stuff.

Mind numbing to me.
This is how I know lowkey somebody is full of shvt on this forum lol. They get triggered and start going off at anything outside their little safe space, swear they’re an expert, then turn around and post the most “help me” rookie shvt on here lol.
 

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Was just in Pafos for a week vacation.

Thought i would share this.
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What the Hell, man!

That is such an inappropriate question for a woman to ask in a text-based conversation on a standard dating app. It might be considered acceptable if slightly altered on a sugar daddy website/app. Generally speaking, women on sugar daddy platforms are not seeking husbands but only short to medium term sex.

This is also an inappropriate question to ask on a first or second date in person.

I am in Dallas, TX, USA. There are many women in Dallas who are superficial and might be considered gold diggers. Not one woman in Dallas has ever asked me that question, either through the use of an app or on a 1st-2nd date.

You should not have responded to that question in any way. At best, you should replied to her with @BPH 's script.

Your response to that question showed a lack of understanding of game. You were supplicating to her and demonstrating a weak frame. You do not need to qualify yourself to her especially with her highly inappropriate question. You need to study game more. As @CornbreadFed says, you got owned there.

The fact that you are being asked that question makes me think that your looks tier isn't that good. Your income is not good by USA standards, though I do not know the local costs of living in Paphos, Cyprus.

@BPH has less impressive income, lives with his parents, has a below average car, and gets casual sex from women. Women are not asking @BPH about his money. They are horny for him based on his 6'0" height, his facial aesthetics, and his physique.

"Money, muscles, game" - Rollo Tomassi.

@Rainman4707 likely needs to improve all 3. Game would be the most important of these to fix with that response showing a complete lack of game.

@Rainman4707 since you seem a little defensive, let me rephrase her question in a way that you can understand how bold and disrespectful it is:

Forgive me, but it is important for me to understand your libido and how you have sex. I have my own ideas of how much my woman fu**s me and how we fu**. Tell me how it looks in terms of fu**ing me today and ideally, if you told me your average fu**s per month. Forgive me for asking that, it might seem forward, but I need to know from the start, since I'm looking to experience frequent org*sms with my future wife.
That's a perfect response to this inappropriate Tinder question.

I would imagine this is what @SW15 refers to as ‘Pussie begging’
Yes, this is a form of supplicating and pussie begging.
 

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Was just in Pafos for a week vacation.

Thought i would share this.
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Disappointed you didn't retort with:

"Forgive me, honeybun, but those who I bring into my life are a component of my brand: As such, it's vital that they reflect well on me. So

-What's your bust size, and does your rear end at least approach upside down heart shape?

-Do you have a reasonably flat stomach and a beautiful face?

-What sort of shape is the hair growing out of your scalp in, and do you keep everywhere else on your body hairless?

-Is your dental health at least pretty good?

-How would you describe your fashion aesthetic? Do you have such a thing, and can you spell the word "aesthetic", without requiring a dictionary?"
 

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Super cringe

What’s ironic is that had he simply left the message on “read” and gone about his business she would have chased him and being it was on vacation he could have just hit it and been on a flight out the next day - now that’s all conjecture but it certainly had no shot of happening the way OP did it, such a cringe moment
Not in the online world. I think you live in the dream world. Look at facts online, all the facts online dating and this guy thinks its 1999, ignore her message and she'll drop her knickers. No.
 

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What the Hell, man!

That is such an inappropriate question for a woman to ask in a text-based conversation on a standard dating app. It might be considered acceptable if slightly altered on a sugar daddy website/app. Generally speaking, women on sugar daddy platforms are not seeking husbands but only short to medium term sex.

This is also an inappropriate question to ask on a first or second date in person.

I am in Dallas, TX, USA. There are many women in Dallas who are superficial and might be considered gold diggers. Not one woman in Dallas has ever asked me that question, either through the use of an app or on a 1st-2nd date.

You should not have responded to that question in any way. At best, you should replied to her with @BPH 's script.

Your response to that question showed a lack of understanding of game. You were supplicating to her and demonstrating a weak frame. You do not need to qualify yourself to her especially with her highly inappropriate question. You need to study game more. As @CornbreadFed says, you got owned there.

The fact that you are being asked that question makes me think that your looks tier isn't that good. Your income is not good by USA standards, though I do not know the local costs of living in Paphos, Cyprus.

@BPH has less impressive income, lives with his parents, has a below average car, and gets casual sex from women. Women are not asking @BPH about his money. They are horny for him based on his 6'0" height, his facial aesthetics, and his physique.

"Money, muscles, game" - Rollo Tomassi.

@Rainman4707 likely needs to improve all 3. Game would be the most important of these to fix with that response showing a complete lack of game.



That's a perfect response to this inappropriate Tinder question.



Yes, this is a form of supplicating and pussie begging.
I was on vacation. I dont live in pahos as i stated in OP

I'm fully aware. I only replied. Yes i shoud'nt have replied, but christ almighty....now you're saying i have no game, looks, money. Btw, i get complimented on my looks all the time, so your opinion on that is wrong.

Maybe my game is'nt up to scratch at the moment, i am concentrating on myself. On my own interests, maybe you guys need to leave your moms basement.

I do respect you as a poster on here SW15. Just feel your a little to quick to judge me.


Yes i probably should'nt have replied. As soon as i seen her response, respect went out the window for her. I was only playing.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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