Most Women Under 30 Have Slept with 70 Men or More ... While the Average Guy Gets Laid Once Every Year

[MatureDJ]

If I don't count EscortMaxxing, my average has been lower than this.

 

[BPH]

Copy-pasted from Gemini. If we're going to gaslight, could we at least use actual statistics instead of red pill anecdotes...

The Percentage of Young Women with a High Number of Sexual Partners Is Notably Low, Data Suggests
Direct statistics on the percentage of women aged 30 or under who have had 70 or more sexual partners are not available in major national surveys. However, existing data on sexual behavior from reputable sources like the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) indicate that the figure is likely to be very small.

According to the 2015-2019 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) conducted by the CDC, the number of sexual partners among women is broken down into categories, with the highest bracket being "15 or more partners." For women aged 25-49, 12.9% fall into this category. When looking at a younger age demographic, the percentages of women with ten or more partners are 21% for those aged 25-29 and 13% for those aged 20-24.

While these figures provide a ceiling for the requested statistic, another study offers a closer, albeit still broad, insight. Research has indicated that approximately 2% of women, irrespective of their sexual orientation or age, have had more than 50 sexual partners in their lifetime. This suggests that the percentage of women under 30 who have had 70 or more partners would be even lower than this 2% figure.

It is important to note the context and limitations of such data. These surveys rely on self-reported information, which can be influenced by memory recall and social desirability biases. Furthermore, the available data categories do not offer the granularity needed to pinpoint the exact percentage for 70 or more partners.

In summary, while a precise number is not available, the available evidence strongly suggests that the percentage of women aged 30 or under who have had 70 or more sexual partners is well below 2% and likely a fraction of a percent.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Copy-pasted from Gemini. If we're going to gaslight, could we at least use actual statistics instead of red pill anecdotes...

The Percentage of Young Women with a High Number of Sexual Partners Is Notably Low, Data Suggests
Direct statistics on the percentage of women aged 30 or under who have had 70 or more sexual partners are not available in major national surveys. However, existing data on sexual behavior from reputable sources like the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) indicate that the figure is likely to be very small.

According to the 2015-2019 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) conducted by the CDC, the number of sexual partners among women is broken down into categories, with the highest bracket being "15 or more partners." For women aged 25-49, 12.9% fall into this category. When looking at a younger age demographic, the percentages of women with ten or more partners are 21% for those aged 25-29 and 13% for those aged 20-24.

While these figures provide a ceiling for the requested statistic, another study offers a closer, albeit still broad, insight. Research has indicated that approximately 2% of women, irrespective of their sexual orientation or age, have had more than 50 sexual partners in their lifetime. This suggests that the percentage of women under 30 who have had 70 or more partners would be even lower than this 2% figure.

It is important to note the context and limitations of such data. These surveys rely on self-reported information, which can be influenced by memory recall and social desirability biases. Furthermore, the available data categories do not offer the granularity needed to pinpoint the exact percentage for 70 or more partners.

In summary, while a precise number is not available, the available evidence strongly suggests that the percentage of women aged 30 or under who have had 70 or more sexual partners is well below 2% and likely a fraction of a percent.

A self-reported survey, huh?

 

[BPH]

A self-reported survey, huh?

"Most" implies at least 51%, as that would objectively define the majority.

Do you REALLY think "most" women have had sex with at least 70 different men before the age of 30...

 

[BaronOfHair]

The average Juliard grad never "makes it" in film or/and TV. This doesn't have much to do with talent(We can all name at least a dozen mediocre-sh-tty actors who've had decades long careers), and almost everything to do with most folks's reaction, upon discovering just how gritty and unglamorous life is for 99% of all actors, ESPECIALLY in the early days of their careers....

Most, when confronted with this reality, go to extraneous lengths to NOT memorize their lines, get up at 6 in the morning Mon-Fri, shave, shower, and attend sh-tloads of auditions + Possibly get their foot in the door by finding work behind the scenes in the industry. They instead concoct an endless array of rationalizations to bomb around in barely minimum wage work that pays just enough for them to booze and party, go home to Hackensack after a year or two in Hollywood, then spend the rest of their lives bitching to everyone in ear shot about all the lucky breaks that never fell into their laps

The same's true of dating and mating: Most guys, once they realize that real life isn't a Connery/Moore-era Bond flick or an episode of Californication(Supermodels who'll spread their legs for you, upon eye contact, aren't waiting around every corner)choose to stay in-doors playing video games and hate watching The Last Of Us, then griping endlessly over all the ways The Gynocentric Social Order has f-cked them over

You gotta put yourself out there, in order to get your needs and desires met. I'm astounded that most guys today are getting one mate PER DECADE, given our apathy

 

[BillyPilgrim]

"Most" implies at least 51%, as that would objectively define the majority.

Do you REALLY think "most" women have had sex with at least 70 different men before the age of 30...

No, but that number is probably somewhere between 2% and 51%. Just thought the self-reporting thing was worth mentioning for accuracy issues.

 

[SW15]

Do you REALLY think "most" women have had sex with at least 70 different men before the age of 30...

The short answer is no.

Most women don't have enough time or desire to have sex with 70 different men before their 30th birthday.

It is possible for a woman to have sex with 70 men in 15 years between ages 15-29. That's only a little more than 4 men per year for 15 years. It seems like it could happen.

However, female fussiness and sex exclusivity windows usually get in the way of having that become reality. Most women will get boyfriends and not have sex with other men during large chunks of that 15 year window. Some also take breaks from having sex during that period due to emotional trauma. Some women also might not have sex at ages 15-16, reducing the window of time they have before their 30th birthday.

While women have plenty of opportunities for sex, the desire to have sex with most of their opportunities isn't there.

Most women have sex with a very small percentage of their male sex pursuers.

For a woman to get to 70 male bodies at age 29, she likely needs to be a sex worker of some kind. Being an OF model (either low tier or elite tier), stripper, or directly paid for sex woman are the most logical paths to 70 male sex partners at 29. A Hooters/Twin Peaks Girl has enough options to get to 70, but she usually is too busy at the gym and with her real life stuff to get there. Most Hooters/Twin Peaks Girls don't have sex with men they meet at their workplaces. The same statement applies to strippers too. The best way to have sex with a Hooters/Twin Peaks Girl or a stripper is to meet them in real life.

More women under 30 are riding the penis carousel, which can increase the number of women with something like 10-29 male partners but that's nowhere near 70. Most women aren't in some kind of sex work either. Most females in their teens and 20s work office jobs, K-12 teacher jobs, retail/barista jobs, or healthcare setting jobs.

Getting a high partner in general also is related to be unmarried for longer. Women in their 30s and 40s who stay unmarried can rack up larger sex partner counts, but most don't get near 70.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Women do lie about their body counts, and women could effectively have one different guy per day if they really wanted to. But the logistics of that is a lot harder to pull off, not to mention women's mentality with anxiety stop them from going out with lots of guys to begin with.

However, we all forget that 70 is a pretty small number for women. Think about it. Starting at 14, even 12 sometimes, women start having sex. If we're talking math, that's 16 years. 16 x 365 = 5840. Let's assume that this is a loose girl who may have had a boyfriend but had a lot of sex during her fun young years. For every party, holiday, or trip she went on, there's a chance she ****ed someone. Band camp, party in high school or college, etc. Bar hopping. Holiday fling. You name it. So let's say at least 1 lay per month [different guy]. 16 x 12 = 192.

That's still 192 in possibility. Think about it, women have a range from say 1 guy in her entire life, up to...5840 by 30. 70 is greatly underestimating. Most women just have to spread their legs to receive sex. It's really takes no effort at all to just have a guy ram his c*ck into her.

 

[SW15]

But the logistics of that is a lot harder to pull off, not to mention women's mentality with anxiety stop them from going out with lots of guys to begin with.

That's the major reason that you won't find many 29 year old women with 70 male sex partners.

The practical considerations/logistics are difficult around it.

Most conventional women can't keep the penis carousel pacing up year after year for 10+ years without serious emotional damage. The emotional damage will often slow down the rate of new penises. Some extended relationships without side sex also happen.

 

[GoodMan32]

The short answer is no.

Most women don't have enough time or desire to have sex with 70 different men before their 30th birthday.

It is possible for a woman to have sex with 70 men in 15 years between ages 15-29. That's only a little more than 4 men per year for 15 years. It seems like it could happen.

However, female fussiness and sex exclusivity windows usually get in the way of having that become reality. Most women will get boyfriends and not have sex with other men during large chunks of that 15 year window. Some also take breaks from having sex during that period due to emotional trauma. Some women also might not have sex at ages 15-16, reducing the window of time they have before their 30th birthday.

While women have plenty of opportunities for sex, the desire to have sex with most of their opportunities isn't there.

Most women have sex with a very small percentage of their male sex pursuers.

For a woman to get to 70 male bodies at age 29, she likely needs to be a sex worker of some kind. Being an OF model (either low tier or elite tier), stripper, or directly paid for sex woman are the most logical paths to 70 male sex partners at 29. A Hooters/Twin Peaks Girl has enough options to get to 70, but she usually is too busy at the gym and with her real life stuff to get there. Most Hooters/Twin Peaks Girls don't have sex with men they meet at their workplaces. The same statement applies to strippers too. The best way to have sex with a Hooters/Twin Peaks Girl or a stripper is to meet them in real life.

More women under 30 are riding the penis carousel, which can increase the number of women with something like 10-29 male partners but that's nowhere near 70. Most women aren't in some kind of sex work either. Most females in their teens and 20s work office jobs, K-12 teacher jobs, retail/barista jobs, or healthcare setting jobs.

Getting a high partner in general also is related to be unmarried for longer. Women in their 30s and 40s who stay unmarried can rack up larger sex partner counts, but most don't get near 70.

Your math (of how many men a woman would have to nail per year to reach 70 partners by age 30) gave me the idea to do some math of my own.

In 2012 alone (the first year I was sexually active), I had 6 partners (all of which were free). Had I continued my lucky streak of 6 free partners per year, I would have had a whopping 60 free partners by the end of 2021 (the year I turned 30). Pretty close to 70...and that would be with me getting a late start (never having sex until I was 20).

My sex life took a severely wrong turn somewhere along the way (the fact a dude who had 6 free partners in 2012 alone has only had 3 free partners from 2013-2025 combined)

I'd be curious to find out how much truth there is to the YouTube vid's claim about the average man only getting laid once per year.

 

[BPH]

Your math (of how many men a woman would have to nail per year to reach 70 partners by age 30) gave me the idea to do some math of my own.

In 2012 alone (the first year I was sexually active), I had 6 partners (all of which were free). Had I continued my lucky streak of 6 free partners per year, I would have had a whopping 60 free partners by the end of 2021 (the year I turned 30). Pretty close to 70...and that would be with me getting a late start (never having sex until I was 20).

My sex life took a severely wrong turn somewhere along the way (the fact a dude who had 6 free partners in 2012 alone has only had 3 free partners from 2013-2025 combined)

I'd be curious to find out how much truth there is to the YouTube vid's claim about the average man only getting laid once per year.

Can you stop commenting on every thread, making it about you.

We get it - your sex life sucks and you want attention. You might get it if you'd shut up and act on damn near any of the advice you've been given, multiple times now.

EDIT: Remember when @New_Journey created that thread about the state of Sosuave several months ago with the hopes of improving it? The mods were going to drain the swamp of pessimistic/useless posters. I didn't see you for a while after that, and genuinely thought you were among them.

Seemingly not. Coupled with the fact that you made next to no progress and took almost no action in that timeframe of your absence, I do not understand why you seem to get off on posting about your shortcomings.

 

[CoolWave1331]

Some good thoughts - yes that guy's figure is made up. Most women don't aspire to be a Lily Phillips.

Yes, it's possible for a semi-attractive woman to be with 70 men with ease. If she committed to the idea and wasn't remotely picky, she'd reach the number in a few months no problem.

Do women lie about count? Of course. I know from personal experience. I once dated this girl, she told me couple dates in about her 'experience' - she volunteered the information herself. She said she had 3 boyfriends, even told me about them. She wasn't lying per say but what she didn't know is we had a mutual friend. I knew a guy in college that was from her city, he knew this girl personally, not very well because was older but his brother was in her grade same highschool. He gave me the dirt, she had at least two other bf's but these were like short term not significant like the 3 other guys.

When she says only been with 4 guys it's probably really like 8 or 9, not 40, you get the idea. Tbh even 10 guys might be too much.

 

[Barrister]

There’s outliers, but most women are serial monogamists going from one LTR to the next, with short stints in between where they ride the c0ck carousel. It’s those short stints inbetween where their numbers can skyrocket above men since sex is so much easier to obtain for them.

Now, 70 as a body count before 30 seems incredibly high given that they still ultimately lock themselves into LTRs for the most part. I’m guessing it’s more between 20-30 for most women.

 

[sevbucmash]

It all comes down to money. If you have money, you can be sleeping with a different woman every week.

 

[BadBoy89]

Do you REALLY think "most" women have had sex with at least 70 different men before the age of 30...

No I thought it was at least 100 different men before the age of 30.

Let’s say say she started at 15. 15-29 is 14 years. Thats 5 men a year from 15 years old. That very very doable, especially is she has some look to her,

My mom went to University in her 40s to become a teacher. One day she went out to lunch with a classmate who was a good looking 26 year old blond woman. She was engaged, going to get married in 2 months, She told my mom ”Do you see the strands in my hair, I have slept more men than strands in my hair.” This women looked good, under 30, was becoming a teacher. Slept with that many Men.

I don’t how men on Sosuave defend these women as some sort of virginal saints. If they are good looking, every guy will smash them in 17 seconds,

“No, no, the girls I know are raised by good families, have good values, virigns before marriage.” Yeah, keep telling yourself that.

 

[BPH]

No I thought it was at least 100 different men before the age of 30.

Let’s say say she started at 15. 15-29 is 14 years. Thats 5 men a year from 15 years old. That very very doable, especially is she has some look to her,

My mom went to University in her 40s to become a teacher. One day she went out to lunch with a classmate who was a good looking 26 year old blond woman. She was engaged, going to get married in 2 months, She told my mom ”Do you see the strands in my hair, I have slept more men than strands in my hair.” This women looked good, under 30, was becoming a teacher. Slept with that many Men.

I don’t how men on Sosuave defend these women as some sort of virginal saints. If they are good looking, every guy will smash them in 17 seconds,

“No, no, the girls I know are raised by good families, have good values, virigns before marriage.” Yeah, keep telling yourself that.

I think some of you guys on this board are ridiculous woman-haters who prefer to have their worldviews validated as opposed to finding success...

Where am I defending women as saints? I've made numerous posts about having experienced the worst that women have to offer.

Wh*res exist, doesn't mean they make up the majority. Sharks exist, doesn't mean they make up the majority of fish in the ocean. Let's be real now...don't pretend you're so dense as to believe that more than half of all women before the age of 30 have slept with so many men...

As @Barrister stated above, most women move from relationship to relationship. Just because an attractive woman CAN sleep with as many men as she wants, doesn't mean she WANTS to. Just like I could probably go out and bang a new woman every night if I were willing to completely disregard any standards - spoiler: I'm not.

This entire argument is based on an anecdote from a red pill podcast...even your example boils down to "mamma said..."

Let's be adults. Stop being ridiculous.

 

[SW15]

most women are serial monogamists going from one LTR to the next, with short stints in between where they ride the c0ck carousel. It’s those short stints inbetween where their numbers can skyrocket above men since sex is so much easier to obtain for them.

most women move from relationship to relationship.

This is correct. The length of various relationships affect female body counts. Women having longer relationships slows their body count.

Just because an attractive woman CAN sleep with as many men as she wants, doesn't mean she WANTS to.

female fussiness

Most women don't want to have sex with many men.

The emotional trauma of some failed short term and long term interactions does reduce the quantity of partners.

10+ body count women are getting more common, as are 20+. 70 is a difficult number to get to for most women.

 

[BadBoy89]

I think some of you guys on this board are ridiculous woman-haters who prefer to have their worldviews validated as opposed to finding success...

Where did we say we are women haters? Where did we say we don’t want success with women? We just said women sleep with a lot of men before 30. You are projecting to make a point.

Where am I defending women as saints? I've made numerous posts about having experienced the worst that women have to offer.

Virginal saints. There is difference between virginal saints and societal saints.

Wh*res exist, doesn't mean they make up the majority. Sharks exist, doesn't mean they make up the majority of fish in the ocean. Let's be real now...don't pretend you're so dense as to believe that more than half of all women before the age of 30 have slept with so many men...

*****s get paid, We are not talking hookers. We are talking regular women.

Do you guys all live in amish country? Do you not go outside and talk to people? Come on.

As @Barrister stated above, most women move from relationship to relationship. Just because an attractive woman CAN sleep with as many men as she wants, doesn't mean she WANTS to.

Why do you think men don’t want to marry women over 30? Because of their past. Their baggage. Their number, That’s the only thing men care about,

Or maybe men don’t want to marry 30 year old women because their number is so low.

Just like I could probably go out and bang a new woman every night if I were willing to completely disregard any standards - spoiler: I'm not.

Thats different, Men go out and sleep with women below them. Women go out and sleep with men above them.

This entire argument is based on an anecdote from a red pill podcast...even your example boils down to "mamma said..."

OK, if the argument is dismissed because you don’t agree with it, every argument you have made in regards to women not sleeping with 70 men before 30 is dismissed because I don’t agree with it.

Our politicians have taught us well.

Let's be adults. Stop being ridiculous.

You don’t want to live in reality because it hits a nerve.

Yeah, a good looking unmarried women between 30-35 hasn’t slept with half the football team because in her spare time she splits the atom.

Rock on!

 

[BPH]

Where did we say we are women haters? Where did we say we don’t want success with women? We just said women sleep with a lot of men before 30. You are projecting to make a point.



Virginal saints. There is difference between virginal saints and societal saints.



*****s get paid, We are not talking hookers. We are talking regular women.

Do you guys all live in amish country? Do you not go outside and talk to people? Come on.



Why do you think men don’t want to marry women over 30? Because of their past. Their baggage. Their number, That’s the only thing men care about,

Or maybe men don’t want to marry 30 year old women because their number is so low.



Thats different, Men go out and sleep with women below them. Women go out and sleep with men above them.



OK, if the argument is dismissed because you don’t agree with it, every argument you have made in regards to women not sleeping with 70 men before 30 is dismissed because I don’t agree with it.

Our politicians have taught us well.



You don’t want to live in reality because it hits a nerve.

Yeah, a good looking unmarried women between 30-35 hasn’t slept with half the football team because in her spare time she splits the atom.

Rock on!

You know what, I gain nothing by convincing you otherwise, so if you want to be stupid, be stupid.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Yeah, discovering that your sweet, wholesome Snookeywookums makes Annie Knight appear purer than the driven snow is always, and probably always will be, a risk. Women similarly risk discovering that their modern day Billy Dee Williams

isn't quite what he seemed. Such is life