Most Women Under 30 Have Slept with 70 Men or More ... While the Average Guy Gets Laid Once Every Year

[Solomon]

"Most" implies at least 51%, as that would objectively define the majority.

Do you REALLY think "most" women have had sex with at least 70 different men before the age of 30...

Does the average woman today have a higher body count than the average woman 25 years ago? probably
But most women have 70 bodies by 30? the RP and BP jokes keep writing themselves. This reminds me of these podcasts that think 30-50% of women in college are getting flown out.

I don't doubt there are women out there who have 70 by 30 or a 99 by 34 but I highly doubt it's most women a lot of this content and even post like these are low fodder rage bait.

 

[CoolWave1331]

Does the average woman today have a higher body count than the average woman 25 years ago? probably
But most women have 70 bodies by 30? the RP and BP jokes keep writing themselves. This reminds me of these podcasts that think 30-50% of women in college are getting flown out.

I don't doubt there are women out there who have 70 by 30 or a 99 by 34 but I highly doubt it's most women a lot of this content and even post like these are low fodder rage bait.

Yes, it is amazing some men say and actually believe this stuff. There segment of guys that don't operate in the real world and live in some kind of like porn fantasy or something.

 

[Divorced w 3]

If people spent this much time focusing on themselves instead of shaming women every two or three threads, they might actually get their count up

 

[Solomon]

If people spent this much time focusing on themselves instead of shaming women every two or three threads, they might actually get their count up

It's easier to be a victim and blame the whole world for your problems instead of focusing on what you truly want. Most men today are softer than Charmin toilet paper. One thing I love about IRL is you can easily tell who is a guy working on leveling up he may not be perfect but damn it he's trying and you can also tell the guy who is a an entitled loser and doesn't wanna put in the work

^^This guy was 16 had cancer wasn't giving a chance to live, now is a Chad at 28 years old. Whats your excuse? most guys are lazy, don't wanna put the work in and are soft

It is what it is

 

[MatureDJ]

It all comes down to money. If you have money, you can be sleeping with a different woman every week.

But you need A LOT of it. Or are you talking about EscortMaxxing?

 

[MatureDJ]

It's easier to be a victim and blame the whole world for your problems instead of focusing on what you truly want. Most men today are softer than Charmin toilet paper. One thing I love about IRL is you can easily tell who is a guy working on leveling up he may not be perfect but damn it he's trying and you can also tell the guy who is a an entitled loser and doesn't wanna put in the work

^^This guy was 16 had cancer wasn't giving a chance to live, now is a Chad at 28 years old. Whats your excuse? most guys are lazy, don't wanna put the work in and are soft

It is what it is

I was just as short after my time with cancer than before it.

 

[BaronOfHair]

If people spent this much time focusing on themselves instead of shaming women every two or three threads, they might actually get their count up

That requires an ounce of self-reflection, likely admitting to oneself: "However f-cked up women are(There's truth to this. Chicks are part of the human race, and to be human is to be f-cked up, to varying degrees), I'm not doing myself any favors, in many very basic ways"

Where's the fun in that?

 

[sevbucmash]

But you need A LOT of it. Or are you talking about EscortMaxxing?

Exactly!

 

[Bokanovsky]

70 partners by age 30? Even if you assume that the average woman starts swh0ring around at a very young age (let's say 15), that's almost 5 new partners per year. Meanwhile, the average man gets laid once a year you say? Let's do some basic math here. Given the M:F ratio is roughly 50:50, how is it mathematically possible for women to have 5 times as many partners? Only a certified sub-50 IQ retard would believe something like this.

 

[corrector]

Whats your excuse? most guys are lazy, don't wanna put the work in and are soft

It is what it is

Sure, I'll volunteer.

I'm like near 50 years old, working at a low-paying full-time job that is keeping my car in the driveway and managing two elderly folks. I cancelled out of a gym that I can't afford and have less than $ 50 on my account between paycheques. That's my excuse. Don't know about the 16 year old guy, but if you have free time and money then you can do allot of things. If you have neither than you are stuck.

According to chatgpt, I have it almost in one of the worst lot for most gen-Xes in my situation, which is aggrevated by the financial situation on top or the caregiving load. Pretty hard as you can get it for a gen-X.

 

[zekko]

I don't doubt there are women out there who have 70 by 30 or a 99 by 34 but I highly doubt it's most women a lot of this content and even post like these are low fodder rage bait.

Yeah, I was listening to a podcast, and they were saying something like 80% of college students said they were having sex, but when surveyed privately only like 20% were having sex. Something about cultural expectations are to be having sex, and they don't like to admit they're not meeting expectations. Anyway.

If a woman has slept with 70 men by age 30, I wonder how many times each of those men have had sex with her? That would be pretty revealing, I would think.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sure, I'll volunteer.

I'm like near 50 years old, working at a low-paying full-time job that is keeping my car in the driveway and managing two elderly folks. I cancelled out of a gym that I can't afford and have less than $ 50 on my account between paycheques. That's my excuse. Don't know about the 16 year old guy, but if you have free time and money then you can do allot of things. If you have neither than you are stuck.

According to chatgpt, I have it almost in one of the worst lot for most gen-Xes in my situation, which is aggrevated by the financial situation on top or the caregiving load. Pretty hard as you can get it for a gen-X.

Wow, it is OVER for you on so many levels.

 

[zekko]

According to chatgpt, I have it almost in one of the worst lot for most gen-Xes in my situation, which is aggrevated by the financial situation on top or the caregiving load. Pretty hard as you can get it for a gen-X.

You know, what you are doing is actually a very admirable thing. I know people here like to portray women as soulless automatons, but there are all kinds out there. Many women are actually kind and giving, and might appreciate that you are doing the same. You shouldn't just assume everything about your life is a negative and a turn off.

 

[corrector]

You know, what you are doing is actually a very admirable thing. I know people here like to portray women as soulless automatons, but there are all kinds out there. Many women are actually kind and giving, and might appreciate that you are doing the same. You shouldn't just assume everything about your life is a negative and a turn off.

Interesting points made. Thanks for your kind words.

I was more focused on building an argument that I don't have time make drastic changes to how my body looks to go from Mr. Invisible to Mr Chad. It's fair to assume that being obese, having a balding hairline, a number of different things sort of bring me down on how my looks are.

While on the surface what you are making could make sense, except for the fact, we are also in poverty (despite me having a full-time job and my folks bringing in pensions) and live in rather crappy place. I did have an ex-wife who left me in the past because of money-issues and the way this house is. I really have it too rough to be dealing with any girl apart from video-fantasy.

Even if hypothetically such a woman existed, then her own nature would not want to disturb the delicate ecosystem of this home if my folks are too reliant on me. This is not a normal set-up here.

 

[20Humble5050]

You gotta put yourself out there, in order to get your needs and desires met. I'm astounded that most guys today are getting one mate PER DECADE, given our apathy

I believe the current statistic is at least 40 percent of Generation Z men over 21 have never been intimate with a woman. The problem is that whilst all but an insignificant minority of these men report wanting sex in theory, none of these surveys seem to quantify exactly how much effort these sexless men have put in to changing that in practice, making it hard to determine whether hoeflation or male chickenisation is the primary factor here.

Sure, I'll volunteer.

I'm like near 50 years old, working at a low-paying full-time job that is keeping my car in the driveway and managing two elderly folks. I cancelled out of a gym that I can't afford and have less than $ 50 on my account between paycheques. That's my excuse. Don't know about the 16 year old guy, but if you have free time and money then you can do allot of things. If you have neither than you are stuck.

According to chatgpt, I have it almost in one of the worst lot for most gen-Xes in my situation, which is aggrevated by the financial situation on top or the caregiving load. Pretty hard as you can get it for a gen-X.

I assume that you have had at least some dating experience previously before your situation became so bad, and aren't in the same boat as a lot of younger adult virgins who have been trying for years without success.

 

[corrector]

I assume that you have had at least some dating experience previously before your situation became so bad, and aren't in the same boat as a lot of younger adult virgins who have been trying for years without success.

I was also a younger adult virgin that have been trying without years without success until I had some marriage experience. Only really had some strong actvity between 2012-2014, and overall between 2006-2017 with some notable years of activity here and there (ie 2002), etc...
The experiences were high-impact at the time.

 

[SW15]

I believe the current statistic is at least 40 percent of Generation Z men over 21 have never been intimate with a woman. The problem is that whilst all but an insignificant minority of these men report wanting sex in theory, none of these surveys seem to quantify exactly how much effort these sexless men have put in to changing that in practice, making it hard to determine whether hoeflation or male chickenisation is the primary factor here.

The oldest members of Generation Z are turning 28 in 2025.

If approximately 40% of 21-28 year old Gen Z males (1997-2004 births) have never had sex with a woman, that's an alarming statistic.

Good or great survey design would be able to quantify the difference between wanting sex in theory and the level of effort to get sex in practice.

More men are invisible to women now. Most men have a terrible match rate on their right swipes on swipe apps. It's also difficult to have an Instagram profile that will incentive women to respond to DMs. Most of these sexless males have a weak Instagram presence.

At bars, it's easy to be invisible too. Daygame is a niche activity, so I don't think a lot of 21-28 year olds are approaching in non-bar venues. The typical 25 year old in 2025 isn't approaching women in a grocery store.

I think it is more of hoeflation and hypergamy than an epidemic of wimp males. Males tend to check out of dating after experiencing bad results and feeling invisible from constant rejection and not getting IOIs from women.

The typical Boomer and older Gen X (1965-1974) would be incel or borderline incel if he were the same age as his Millennial or Gen Z son has been during the 2010s-2020s. It's a far more difficult sexual marketplace than the Boomers dealt with in young adulthood during the 1970s-early 1980s or Gen X dealt with during the late 1980s-1990s.

For Millennials and Gen Z, it's common to think about the idea of how realistic it would have been for their parents to get together if the Big 3 swipe apps (Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge) had existed when they were single in the late 20th Century. When most Millennials and Gen Z think about this, they answer that question with no.

I doubt that my parents would have gotten together if swipe apps existed around the time they met.

 

[BadBoy89]

But most women have 70 bodies by 30? the RP and BP jokes keep writing themselves. This reminds me of these podcasts that think 30-50% of women in college are getting flown out.

I don't doubt there are women out there who have 70 by 30 or a 99 by 34 but I highly doubt it's most women a lot of this content and even post like these are low fodder rage bait.

When it’s “most” women it’s means hot women under 30, not fat or ugly or single mothers.

You say it’s low fodder rage bait, I say it’s low fodder rage denial. Men don’t want to believe hot wormen sleep around, it will destroy their virgin fantasy of the woman. It’s the same reason K-pop girls groups are not allowed to date, destroys the fantasy. It’s the same reason they don’t hire married mothers in seductive Hollywood roles, destroys the fantasy.

Sleeping with 70 men by 30 is nothing if the woman is hot . If she started at 15, that’s 5 men / year for 15 years. That’s a hot woman sleeping with a new man every 10 weeks This woman is coveted by the rich, the powerful, the actors, the politicians.

Yet we don’t question men on Sosuave who come in and say they have slept with a new woman every 5 weeks for last 10 years because they have analyzed women and can spit a few words.

So ideally it’s not realistic to expect a hot young women covered by Putin and Trump and Brad Pitt and Carlos Alcaraz to sleep with a new man every 10 weeks.

But it’s realistic for a man who has studied woman and can spit a few romantic sentences to sleep with a new woman every 5 weeks.

Come on Sosuave, you are not that naive.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If the average guy gets laid once a year then honestly they have only themselves to blame.

 

[Clockwerk50]

When it’s “most” women it’s means hot women under 30, not fat or ugly or single mothers.

You say it’s low fodder rage bait, I say it’s low fodder rage denial. Men don’t want to believe hot wormen sleep around, it will destroy their virgin fantasy of the woman. It’s the same reason K-pop girls groups are not allowed to date, destroys the fantasy. It’s the same reason they don’t hire married mothers in seductive Hollywood roles, destroys the fantasy.

Sleeping with 70 men by 30 is nothing if the woman is hot . If she started at 15, that’s 5 men / year for 15 years. That’s a hot woman sleeping with a new man every 10 weeks This woman is coveted by the rich, the powerful, the actors, the politicians.

Yet we don’t question men on Sosuave who come in and say they have slept with a new woman every 5 weeks for last 10 years because they have analyzed women and can spit a few words.

So ideally it’s not realistic to expect a hot young women covered by Putin and Trump and Brad Pitt and Carlos Alcaraz to sleep with a new man every 10 weeks.

But it’s realistic for a man who has studied woman and can spit a few romantic sentences to sleep with a new woman every 5 weeks.

Come on Sosuave, you are not that naive.

The claim that most hot women rack up 70 partners by 30 ignores basic biology. Men and women don’t have the same mating strategy because they’re not driven by the same hormonal incentives. Men produce 12–17x more testosterone than women, which is the hormone that fuels sexual drive and risk-taking. Women, by contrast, produce more estrogen and oxytocin, hormones tied to caution, bonding, and selectivity.

So while men are biologically primed to pursue volume, women are wired to be highly selective, because sex carries far more potential cost like pregnancy, vulnerability during gestation, social judgment, long-term impact on pair-bonding, and reduced value in the mating market. Evolution shaped women to filter for the highest-value genes and best provisioning potential, not to sleep with a new guy every 10 weeks for 15 years straight.

Obviously they are outliers, but women cluster around top-tier men, not average guys who know how to “spit game.” The average attractive woman isn’t cycling through 70 partners; she’s navigating a strategy that balances sexual opportunity with long-term security, often unconsciously. This is the essence of hypergamy: seeking to mate upward, whether genetically, socially, or financially.