Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Not according to my mindset. This isn't work, it's fun.
I posted a summary of the conversation. In reality, it was about a three minute conversation.
You’re both missing a variable: what the target values. Most of the time, it depends on the woman’s internal state at the moment of contact, boredom with her current life, stress, emotional dissatisfaction, craving for adventure, or simply an empty space in her mind that’s waiting to be filled. External factors also play a role such as timing, environment, social pressure, and mood. Truthfully, a seducer controls maybe 40%, at best less than 50%, of the overall dynamic.
This approach may seem blunt but in reality it is a huge turn on for women. It exudes confidence. Remember that boldness is almost always rewarded.60-90 seconds is long compared to 5-10 seconds.
Me: Excuse me miss, are you single?
Her: No, I have a boyfriend.
Me: Aight, you know I had to ask.
Her: But thank you
Me: You're welcome
*Walks away, curtain closes*
10 seconds, tops.
Cut chatter. Get to the point. Keep it simple.
Trivial, bullshiit talk about a damn TV stand or the weather is a waste of time.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Simplicity wins.
It is what it is
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Why would someone worry about something that they don't control?
Mode One philosophy doesn't contradict any of those things, and in fact it is based solely upon two of those things (honesty & integrity).
First of all, you wouldn't be approaching any woman if it wasn't for your pursuit of sex.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I wasn't criticizing anything you said. I just wanted to keep the topic on track and to remind everyone to check their blackpill baggage at the doorMode One philosophy doesn't contradict any of those things, and in fact it is based solely upon two of those things (honesty & integrity).
First of all, you wouldn't be approaching any woman if it wasn't for your pursuit of sex.
Second, I can't speak for others, but I never said rejection is a horrible thing.
Third, I never said talking to strangers ain't fun...and again, if your mentality is "Even if a woman ain't interested in me, I'll still talk to her for X amount of time"...if that is your idea of "fun", then hey...get your talk on.
I agree with you. Not sure if you were reading what I was saying with a different interpretation than it was intended. You should always look at talking to women as playing with house money and have fun with it. First off, these interactions if they don't materialize into anything more won't matter at all. And if they do, then it's gravy.
You can, a little bit. To increase the success rate, the hunter should know where to hunt and who to hunt. By focusing on those who are unhappy or not preoccupied with work, school, or personal crises will naturally raise your odds, since they're more open to new connections and distractions.
I never enjoy the hunt more than the sex. I am a 'Pleasure of Sex' guy.
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No need to gaslight.
The topic never left track, and I'm not blackpill.
Take off the "chill", and there is your rightfully owned Blue Pill.
