A good question for the 40 and over crowd.

[eli77]

What's the youngest you have ever dated someone i've been in the position to date a 18 year old but didn't go through I think the cut off of me is 21 years young.

 

[obelisk]

Age being used as a cutoff is a self-limiting belief. Does she pass the boner test? Does she have obvious red flags that you should disqualify her over?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What's the youngest you have ever dated someone i've been in the position to date a 18 year old but didn't go through I think the cut off of me is 21 years young.

19. Though I met her when she was 18.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What's the youngest you have ever dated someone i've been in the position to date a 18 year old but didn't go through I think the cut off of me is 21 years young.

Too many things are restricted to 21 & up.

 

[The Duke]

I wouldn't date anyone under 21. I like bars and drinking so I don't want that hassle. 22 was the youngest I ever dated and that was in my mid 30's.

 

[Solomon]

Currently dating a 26 year old, was dating a 24 year old when I was 39, not gonna lie she had the nicest pair of cakes but she dumped me cause I'm a Trump supporter lool

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Currently dating a 26 year old, was dating a 24 year old when I was 39, not gonna lie she had the nicest pair of cakes but she dumped me cause I'm a Trump supporter lool

my Zoomer was a typical Wokester & I’m Conservative. She told me. ‘We’re already together, the politics doesn’t matter.’

 

[Solomon]

my Zoomer was a typical Wokester & I’m Conservative. She told me. ‘We’re already together, the politics doesn’t matter.’

Good for you bro, my girl did not like it when I said some things about gay people needless to say she identifies as "Queer" which baffles me cause the way she was thirsting for sex there was nothing queer about her

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Good for you bro, my girl did not like it when I said some things about gay people needless to say she identifies as "Queer" which baffles me cause the way she was thirsting for sex there was nothing queer about her

Mine was a LGBTQ ally. She said she wished she was a lesbian. But she loved dvck too much. Once, when drunk, she suggested a 3-some with one of my ex-‘s. I went out drinking with the ex- and brought it up. She was into it. I called my Zoomer, who was now sober and got ready to set it up. She backed out. And then forbade me from speaking about that ex- to her again.

 

[DarwinTaurus]

I generally stick to the old adage and rule of thumb - 'Half your age, plus 7', so me, being 46, would be 30... however, I would perhaps go lower to around 27.

 

[DarwinTaurus]

Ha, you and I are the same age and I have always been a rule follower. I would probably feel guilty dating a woman under 30 since "I am breaking the rule".

However, early 30's would still be like hitting the jackpot. Many women at this age still look pretty hot and don't have kids.

Doesn't necessarily mean I actually date at that age, just a rule of thumb I follow. I did have a match on OLD dating and she was 26, talked on an off for a while, but she was going back to Vietnam for a holiday. She did say she saw me at a local pub, to bad she didn't come up and say hello.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Had a gf 10 yrs younger than me when I was in my late 20s, have a 9 yrs younger gf now that I'm in my late 30s.

Your age depends on your hair, a norwood 4 brad pitt would play only secondary roles and be couple with older women.

 

[Black Widow Void]

I think (provided she's of legal age) that it's more a matter of personal preference.

Personally, I prefer women around my age. However, at age thirty two, I did have a girlfriend that was eighteen.

While with her one day, I remember listening to the "oldies" station. A song came on that I remember hearing for the first time in 5th grade. I remember thinking to myself that she was not only born yet, but that her parents may not have even met yet. Even though she was nice 'arm candy'... there were times when I did feel like a creepy old man. On a funny note; While with her, I did enjoy the glares and snares that I'd get from women around my age.

edit; And in addition to bedroom fun (I was her first) she did turn me on to Beavis and Butthead and the group "Stereolab."

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Subverting societal norms was a fun side bonus.

 

[SW15]

At 40, I could see myself with a 21-22 year old. I'd have interest in that. 18-20 would be more difficult for me if I'd want to go out to bars.

Half my age + 7 is 27. I would go out with women younger than 27 right now.

 

[In2theGame]

At my age right now...

For an LTR, I wouldn't go lower than 25.

For fun and sexual satisfaction, I could go as low as 21.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

No, look at Bruce Willis, Jude Law, etc. They are successful actors and they probably have no problem dating hot young women.

You guys put too much importance on hair, I'm 37 I still have my hair but my hairline is receiding and it's quite visible, I date a 19yo Slovakian model.
Of course I fear baldness, but I think that even bald, with my swag and mouth piece I would still attract hot girls. I'm 6.2 though, height is more important than hair in my opinion, especially if you date tall girls like I do (5.8-5.11).

I asked a friend of mine what he would do if he was balding. He said: ‘Buy hair. Or a gun.’

 

[Solomon]

She dumped you cause you were not her best option, crazy that a guy with experience like you didn't recognize that and believed whatever bull$hit she told you.

So you were there in the room when she broke up with right? you know what led up to the fight?
SMH I ain't even gotta explain you weren't there so you don't know what the **** you talking about

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

No need to get defensive bro, do you really think a girl would breake up with Brad Pritt cause he supports Trump? Come on man!

If you live in a red state I understand where you might think that, but if you’re in a purple or blue state it’s quite likely.

Here in Californistan women often even state up front that if you support <insert politician’s name> they want nothing to do with you.

It’s real. The Brad comparison is ridiculous no one here has anywhere near his social proof.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you live in a red state I understand where you might think that, but if you’re in a purple or blue state it’s quite likely.

Here in Californistan women often even state up front that if you support <insert politician’s name> they want nothing to do with you.

It’s real. The Brad comparison is ridiculous no one here has anywhere near his social proof.

I’ve found women tend to make exceptions to their rules when they want to.