“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hello all,

I recently asked a girl out go-karting for this weekend. She responded with "That sounds like soo much fun, but I am busy this weekend".

About 20 seconds later, she messaged again to ask if I wanted to go for drinks on Friday night.

Is this a counter-offer that shows interest or is she rejecting me?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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will123 said:
Hello all,

I recently asked a girl out go-karting for this weekend. She responded with "That sounds like soo much fun, but I am busy this weekend".

About 20 seconds later, she messaged again to ask if I wanted to go for drinks on Friday night.

Is this a counter-offer that shows interest or is she rejecting me?
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What would make you think she is rejecting you?

If that was the case she wouldn't have bothered to offer anything to you.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
None. She would have said she was busy Saturday and then that would have been it. You are way overthinking this one.
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And if you then asked when she WAS free, she would say something like " i am not sure what my schedule is" or "maybe" if i gave another time and date
 
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will123 said:
And if you then asked when she WAS free, she would say something like " i am not sure what my schedule is" or "maybe" if i gave another time and date
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Pretty much...she wouldn't give you an answer and wouldn't make it seem like she was making any effort to actually see you.
 
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