"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Blood test revealed pre diabetes

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who hurt you my guy? The doctor himself told me I was prediabetic so maybe slap him instead


Lol yea exactly
Yes because he assumed you took the test fasted since that is the only way those tests are given.

The person taking your blood should have asked you prior to doing it whether you were fasted or not, did you tell them you weren't?
 

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Or slap your doctor upside the head for scaring you.
Yes because he assumed you took the test fasted since that is the only way those tests are given.

The person taking your blood should have asked you prior to doing it whether you were fasted or not, did you tell them you weren't?
they never asked so I didn’t answer a question that was never asked.

And I went in for blood test for some leg discomfort, not to see if I was diabetic, so I had no idea diabetes was being tested.
Again, who hurt you? Why are you lashing out at me?
 

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Whenever your blood / urine is tested, a doctor should specify that you're sober and that the urine is your 'morning urine'. If your doctor didn't specify, you should've asked them. I suggest you retake the blood test sober and see the test results before you go into what you should do.
I’m always sober. Also, I’ve been told that an hba1c result won't be affected by fasting
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah so my doctor just confirmed it. He said blood glucose was 6% and it’s that hba1c. He gave me a pamphlet about it and I gonna start easing off the carbs in my diet
 

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Sorry to hear that brother. No need to drop carbs as a macro, just clean up the diet. Diabetes =/= low carb it means dump the sugar, alcohol, white bread, white rice, white pasta, desserts, and packaged goods (twinkies and chocolate bars shvt), potato chips, and things like that.

Also, if you don’t already, start weight training consistently.
 

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Sorry to hear that brother. No need to drop carbs as a macro, just clean up the diet. Diabetes =/= low carb it means dump the sugar, alcohol, white bread, white rice, white pasta, desserts, and packaged goods (twinkies and chocolate bars shvt), potato chips, and things like that.

Also, if you don’t already, start weight training consistently.
I don’t eat any of that save for sugar which I only added this year. I eat cleaner than anyone I know and people make fun of me for it. Now they gonna be all “seee!?! Your stupid diet didn’t save you” people are ****.


And no more TV dinners.
Never ever ever had any
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No idea how I can be pre diabetes. I have a host of food intolerances so I have to eat very clean and now this? My health is ****ed. What can I do?
How are your triglycerides? I hear people are more likely to convert to actual diabetes if their triglycerides are high.
Sounds like you eat pretty well already, aside from the Snickers. Bad bit of luck.
 

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@Serenity we need some harsh advice in here, unban Razor, please.
Haha, that's more trouble than it's worth.

Here's my pro-tip for dealing with threads that makes you shake your head:
  1. Shake your head.
  2. Go back to the forum list.
  3. When you see that thread in the forum list, shake your head again.
  4. Keep scrolling.
  5. Pick another thread.
It's so simple you won't believe it. Nobody is holding a gun to your head telling you to give a sh!t.
 

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I don’t eat any of that save for sugar which I only added this year. I eat cleaner than anyone I know and people make fun of me for it. Now they gonna be all “seee!?! Your stupid diet didn’t save you” people are ****.



Never ever ever had any
I'm late to this discussion but thought I would throw out a suggestion and some thoughts. If you can swing it and get your doctor to sign off, consider wearing a Continuous Glucose Monitor. If your doctor won't sign off, there are some doctor's online that will but it will be a little more pricey. I found regardless of what some food labels said and a foods sugar content, my body reacted poorly to certain foods in that it took longer for my body to clear the glucose and return to baseline. You can also use it to test the different supplements or meds and whether they are effective or not.

The A1C test is basically tracking your blood sugar levels over the last 3 months or maybe a little less.

Food and exercise is medicine and many prediabetic persons (not sold that you are) can fix their issues with these if caught early enough. If you do go on meds I think the goal should be to ween yourself off of them. The side effects of meds is a lot worse than the side effects of good exercise and good food. Food and exercise is just like meds in that, the dose makes the poison.

Finally, a simple 10 -30 minute walk within an hour or so of eating a meal can be a game changer. I didn't know how much so till I wore a CGM for a month. My glucose clearance sped up exponentially.

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm late to this discussion but thought I would throw out a suggestion and some thoughts. If you can swing it and get your doctor to sign off, consider wearing a Continuous Glucose Monitor. If your doctor won't sign off, there are some doctor's online that will but it will be a little more pricey. I found regardless of what some food labels said and a foods sugar content, my body reacted poorly to certain foods in that it took longer for my body to clear the glucose and return to baseline. You can also use it to test the different supplements or meds and whether they are effective or not.

The A1C test is basically tracking your blood sugar levels over the last 3 months or maybe a little less.

Food and exercise is medicine and many prediabetic persons (not sold that you are) can fix their issues with these if caught early enough. If you do go on meds I think the goal should be to ween yourself off of them. The side effects of meds is a lot worse than the side effects of good exercise and good food. Food and exercise is just like meds in that, the dose makes the poison.

Finally, a simple 10 -30 minute walk within an hour or so of eating a meal can be a game changer. I didn't know how much so till I wore a CGM for a month. My glucose clearance sped up exponentially.

Yup, forgot to add that in but have talked about this in the walking thread I made but the big muscles in the lower body clear glucose from repetitive movement all by themselves even in the absence of insulin.

Studies have shown simply walking for 15 minutes after a meal can lower glucose levels by 15-20% or more.

Funny how most cultures typically do things like take walks or strolls after dinner. They likely have no idea why but most of the time those type of things have been found to be health related even if they can't explain the reason why.

I second the CGM...it is basically a game changer in treatment because you have immediate feedback and can know exactly what foods do to your glucose levels so you can know what foods to avoid or what combinations of foods to avoid. It takes any guesswork out because you cannot argue with realtime feedback. No matter what you "think" should happen when you eat a food, this is telling you what IS happening when you eat it.

I am getting ready to have my doctor prescribe me one just to wear so I can monitor this and my glucose levels are well within range. I want to know what causes them to spike and how long they take to get back down to normal...that's the real key in all this. Spiking glucose is virtually irrelevant, it's how fast it returns to baseline that is important.
 
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Studies have shown simply walking for 15 minutes after a meal can lower glucose levels by 15-20% or more.
I’ve been working construction for the past year. Walking, lifting, 8 hours a day (4 before, and 4 after lunch) (eating)
 

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I’ve been working construction for the past year. Walking, lifting, 8 hours a day (4 before, and 4 after lunch) (eating)
OK, so you have that part covered.

I'd recommend the CGM to be able to track things. Insurance should pay for it with that diagnosis
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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