Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Not necessarily, her 4yrs long relationship was with a black dude.
So as a new member of this forum, enlighten me, what is the average age here? An American 12 year old?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
He's being sarcastic, he also posts everyday about how if your not 6 ft tall your doomed to be forever alone
If a man needs Sosuave for women over 30, he is in big trouble.
That is not correct.
Just curious what your age is? How many girls have you been with?
I disagree with the idea that she is settling for this highly successful man. What is her value, that she looks good? Who cares? He has the value, not her.
She is settling in the sense that she most probably isn't with him out of lust/love.
I am going to agree with your first idea. After that, sure life does not end, but prime time is gone wether you like it or not.
Why does everyone always assume that if the guy is successful on any level, the woman isn't turned on by him? If he isn't a deadbeat unemployed gym rat, he isn't attractive? I reject the entire premise.
Typically, the high IQ guys are the most incapable with getting women to have sex with them or into relationships with them.
Nice comeback today Daniel. The season was looking done, but the Giants may make the playoffs yet.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
A woman may be turned on by him, but generally it’s not on an instinctive level, it’s on a provider level; i.e. if he buys her enough gifts and dinners, she will have sex with him.
I reject the idea that a guy can only be one or the other. And of the women I've had who wanted me as a boyfriend, they were always eager for sex, and would be wet for it.
She might've been turned on in the beginning, so what? Her failed relationships indicate she's been turned on before, but it doesn't last.
Most relationships have a shelf life.
