"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is Courtney Ryan a Fish Trying to Teach Men How to Catch Fish?

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She's also in Cleveland. Not much out there I am told. I'm sure people from Ohio are much different than people from NYC, LA, and similar areas.
I want to like this idea. There might be some merit to it.

I have lived in a couple of vicious dating markets that are much like Los Angeles. My perspective is skewed.

There are some videos that Courtney has posted of people she knows in Ohio who act no different than Dallas or Los Angeles women. The whole area can't be judged based on the women who appear in her videos though.

I have felt in the past that women in smaller and/or less flashy metro areas generally possess less toxic traits.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She probably ran out of content in less than a year with that approach.



There's a case to be made that she's in the 6.5-7 range. Her tits are amazing. Those big naturals without being fat are somewhat rare. Face is decent too.

I would approach her at a bar or in a daygame setting.



He's not true luxury.
She's phony and narc as phuck (it's obvious from her pics) but that body is banging. Give her a human soul and she'd be an amazing catch.
 

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She's phony and narc as phuck (it's obvious from her pics) but that body is banging. Give her a human soul and she'd be an amazing catch.
Great tits! Decent face. Not elite on looks but solid on looks. In terms of looks, most men would rate her somewhere in the 6.5 - 7.5 range.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Courtney acting like a fish.
 

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I personally have done a deep dive on her videos a long time ago, in general I think her thoughts on men's fashion are on point, like for example she made the observation that curly hair in men today is kind of what's in and I've also found that to be the case.

I think her over arcing commentary on dating as a man is uninformed as opposed to misleading though, there is a cold reality when interfacing with women that women tend to not acknowledge.
 

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I personally have done a deep dive on her videos a long time ago, in general I think her thoughts on men's fashion are on point, like for example she made the observation that curly hair in men today is kind of what's in and I've also found that to be the case.

I think her over arcing commentary on dating as a man is uninformed as opposed to misleading though, there is a cold reality when interfacing with women that women tend to not acknowledge.
Good for you for doing a deep dive on Courtney Ryan's content.

I can imagine that her thoughts on men's fashion would be valuable. Although limiting her content to men's fashion issues would create the highest quality content for her, there are 2 problems for her in limiting to that subject...

1. She would have less overall content because she'd run out of content sooner
2. She would get fewer likes, comments, and shares

As a result of those problems, she would not be able to make money off of her channel as well as she has.
 

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Better Bachelor breaks down Courtney Ryan and did call her a fish too.

 

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:lol: My opinion hasnt changed I would still clap those cheeks but all one needs is to see is this video
- go to the part where they hug. If my man Teddy ****s her the way he hugs her... I have some very bad news lololol. It's not too late to call off the wedding, Teddy!

This is clearly a case of her cashing out and there is no real love/attraction there otherwise. Will probably find out she was a massive ***** to him post wedding day when the mask can finally come off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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- go to the part where they hug. If my man Teddy ****s her the way he hugs her... I have some very bad news lololol. It's not too late to call off the wedding, Teddy!

This is clearly a case of her cashing out and there is no real love/attraction there otherwise.
Man, that's exactly my feeling as well.
Can you point out the timestamp where they hug, I scrolled over the video and I couldn't find it.
 

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Man, that's exactly my feeling as well.
Can you point out the timestamp where they hug, I scrolled over the video and I couldn't find it.
Around 21:00. Pay close attention to the build up especially - if she/they didn't announce they were getting married I honestly would've assumed he was her gay best friend.

I don't suggest you guys watch the whole thing, but fear not because I already did the heavy lifting. I watched it some months ago and it is unintentionally funny af at times; she moans and groans about wanting certain watches. At one point she says something to effect she was starting to wonder if she would have to buy it herself. Man I felt like I was being tickled by about 30 people when I saw that part. My dog and cat came into the room because I roared with laughter.
 

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It's not too late to call off the wedding, Teddy!
Actually, it is. The Teddy Baldassarre - Courtney Ryan wedding happened on June 24, 2023.


Around 21:00. Pay close attention to the build up especially - if she/they didn't announce they were getting married I honestly would've assumed he was her gay best friend.
So true. She doesn't have the genuine, burning desire for him that she would have for some 6'0"+, fit guy.

This is clearly a case of her cashing out and there is no real love/attraction there otherwise. Will probably find out she was a massive ***** to him post wedding day when the mask can finally come off.
Teddy Baldassarre is a dweeb and just a beta male with some money/status. This isn't the kind of guy who inspires immense attraction and sexual passion. Courtney Ryan cashed out and cashed out early in life. Courtney is 27 right now and cashed out in her mid-20s. Her tits are big enough and her face is attractive enough to get attention from top tier guys and commitment from above average looking guys (definitely guys better looking than Teddy). She was likely run through in college by the top tier guys and is now thinking she's learned a lesson from it, settling with a dweebish beta male at 25-26. This sounds like a case of Alpha Widowing.
 

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This is the kind of video where Courtney Ryan could add value. It is fashion oriented. It is her newest video of as this writing.

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Courtney Ryan is still doing a lot of the same things in 2024 as we're about to start 2025.

Very occasionally, she is still posting some good fashion and style content, like the newest video below as of this writing.


Most of her content is about the mating environment.



 
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