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Is Courtney Ryan a Fish Trying to Teach Men How to Catch Fish?

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And you know the saying, birds of a kind flock together.

We don't know her past, but we can deduct from the data we have, and it doesn't match the wholesome girl image she wants to portray. But many simps, judging by the comments in her videos (oh, if more women were like you, bla bla :lol:) have fallen for it.
Indeed, her looks got me into her channel, I was like...she looks like an attractive young girl, let's see how she views this dating/relationships topic. It didn't take me long to realize that without the makeup, lighting etc she's not nearly as attractive as some of the thumbnails on her videos would indicate. And secondly that she's either insincere/doesn't know what she's talking about.
The simps in the cmnts make me want to yack, so easily fooled

I'm surprised she let that excerpt of her past slip out in that vid I shared on here. Based on the IG photo dating back to 2018 (I think she started dating Teddy at some point in 2018) that another guy linked earlier in this thread, tells me it's likely that there are more instances than just the one dude that was cheating on her and flew her to Hawaii. Or... it only took one guy like that and she was done with that "type".

Fwiw, I do remember seeing a vid of hers a while back talking about hook up culture and when she mentioned something along the lines of not liking the idea of partaking in it, while saying it her eyes looked a couple different directions laterally (I believe subconsciously) instead of right at the camera. Perhaps a tell & and she did delve into it at one point? Just an observation.

Beyond thankful to have learned everything about "the game" the past few years. I feel bad for unaware guys that sign away their life on a legal marriage.
 

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There are so many better YouTube channels than Courtney Ryan's for male advice and self-improvement. Rollo Tomassi (Rational Male) and Richard Cooper (Enterpreneurs in Cars) would be examples of better channels.
 

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Rollo Tomassi (Rational Male) and Richard Cooper (Enterpreneurs in Cars) would be examples of better channels.
I don't know man, I've always been left with a bitter taste in my mouth after watching these 2...only in the past year I realized why they're toxic. Their good advice is about the red flags to watch out for when considering dating/relationships (which most of them are/should be common sense). Other than that, their own life experiences are nothing to be inspired of...the Cooper guy's is like a horror story and even now when he is this supposed super duper smart guy and allegedly in a LTR (some claim it's invented because he never shows his alleged girlfriend) he doesn't live with that woman because he thinks the divorce law will fvck him over or something.
here's an example of the type of advice he's giving...good for attracting hoes and goldiggers, not quality material.
 

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I don't know man, I've always been left with a bitter taste in my mouth after watching these 2...only in the past year I realized why they're toxic. Their good advice is about the red flags to watch out for when considering dating/relationships (which most of them are/should be common sense). Other than that, their own life experiences are nothing to be inspired of...the Cooper guy's is like a horror story and even now when he is this supposed super duper smart guy and allegedly in a LTR (some claim it's invented because he never shows his alleged girlfriend) he doesn't live with that woman because he thinks the divorce law will fvck him over or something.
here's an example of the type of advice he's giving...good for attracting hoes and goldiggers, not quality material.
SW15 is basically parroting everything I've seen Cooper say when I first learned these concepts back in 2018, especially the "Cancun foam party" reference, he says that in many vids. Another with the saying "alpha f#cks, beta bucks" label.

While that is true a lot of the time & you need to be vigilant and aware of how the world works, I with pipeman on Cooper. I think he's playing the part of a toxic character and it works very well with making guys angry/bitter because it reels in tons of cash.
 
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Her watch collection most likely came from him. Nothing wrong with that, but who knows what she really wants for herself in life.
She wanted someone 2 give her the beta buxx before she hit the wall too hard. She smelled a payday and snapped up her rich beta boy who can't d o any better
 

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She wanted someone 2 give her the beta buxx before she hit the wall too hard. She smelled a payday and snapped up her rich beta boy who can't d o any better
This is exactly what happened. None of the frat boy douchebag types would commit to her long term. While she's cute, she's not elite level hot, and the top tier guys that she believes she's entitled to wanted to give her the commitment.

She could have gotten a dweeby beta bucks guy at 30-35, but chose to do it far earlier in life that most women. She turns 27 next week and settled with her beta bucks guy at 25-26.
 

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For the sake of discussion:
One would need to believe that no woman alive is actually capable of a man’s concept of idealized love. While the majority of todays women probably are not who is to say that she is not? Could she actually truly be in love with her fiancé?

There are always outliers. Could she maybe be one?


This is exactly what happened. None of the frat boy douchebag types would commit to her long term. While she's cute, she's not elite level hot, and the top tier guys that she believes she's entitled to wanted to give her the commitment.

She could have gotten a dweeby beta bucks guy at 30-35, but chose to do it far earlier in life that most women. She turns 27 next week and settled with her beta bucks guy at 25-26.
 

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For the sake of discussion:
One would need to believe that no woman alive is actually capable of a man’s concept of idealized love. While the majority of todays women probably are not who is to say that she is not? Could she actually truly be in love with her fiancé?

There are always outliers. Could she maybe be one?
The only thing that she deserves credit for doing is realizing that things were going nowhere fast with the frat boy douchebag type and she made the adjustment quickly. She's talked about wanting marriage and children, so it's better to start that sooner than later. The main argument that can be made is that she reached Rollo Tomassi's Epiphany Phase a few years earlier than most women.

I think it is a fair argument to make that Teddy Baldassarre (Courtney's fiance) is a poor man's Bill Gates. Bill Gates used his money/Microsoft CEO status to get a mediocre looking MBA having careerist woman in the 1980s. Baldassarre used the same script with less money to get a more attractive female with only a bachelor's degree.
 

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She had a Q&A video with Teddy (see below IG post) that I remember watching, that's where she mentioned they met on Tinder, now it's gone from her channel. Wonder why. :rolleyes:
http://instagr.am/p/B-46WRfhqA6/
 

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For the sake of discussion:
One would need to believe that no woman alive is actually capable of a man’s concept of idealized love. While the majority of todays women probably are not who is to say that she is not? Could she actually truly be in love with her fiancé?

There are always outliers. Could she maybe be one?
I don't think so, and here's why: she already had relationships and at least one with a 'bad boy' who cheated on her...so that indicates that 1. her bonding capacity had diminished and 2. her primary attraction is towards the 'dangerous' masculine guy. If she was the wholesome girl type waiting for a nice guy to get married and start a family with and Teddy was her first guy, then it would be believable that she truly loves him.

So she might appreciate him for providing her with this lifestyle (I think he was behind her quitting whatever corporate job she had and starting her YouTube channel), but love? I very much doubt it. Her past, her present entourage (all those hoes in her videos), her opinions just don't indicate a person capable of loving, let alone someone who looks like Teddy. And when I think about it, I realize it's really sad to be Teddy...how is his position different to a guy who establishes good rapport with an escort? Both are in for the money, both are appreciative of the opportunity provided to them, but there is no love.
 
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I don't think so, and here's why: she already had relationships and at least one with a 'bad boy' who cheated on her...so that indicates that 1. her bonding capacity had diminished and 2. her primary attraction is towards the 'dangerous' masculine guy. If she was the wholesome girl type waiting for a nice guy to get married and start a family with and Teddy was her first guy, then it would be believable that she truly loves him.

So she might appreciate him for providing her with this lifestyle (I think he was behind her quitting whatever corporate job she had and starting her YouTube channel), but love? I very much doubt it. Her past, her present entourage (all those hoes in her videos), her opinions just don't indicate a person capable of loving, let alone someone who looks like Teddy. And when I think about it, I realize it's really sad to be Teddy...how is his position different to a guy who establishes good rapport with an escort? Both are in for the money, both are appreciative of the opportunity provided to them, but there is no love.
I don't feel sorry 4 Teddy. He should have known from all those years in the friend zone that she's bad news. He did it 2 himself. So cute that he encouraged her to drop her career so she can spend his money and provide nothing in return.

PS, she's not even that hot. She's in her late 30's and approaching the wall fast. Also, that forehead and jaw make her look like an MTF.

My boy Undead Chronic said it best. No hymen, no diamond.
 

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PS, she's not even that hot. She's in her late 30's and approaching the wall fast. Also, that forehead and jaw make her look like an MTF.
She turns 27 next week according to Google. Her best feature is her enormous breasts.
 

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There's no way that guy was her first choice or even close to her top tier of choices. It's likely she was banged out by a lot of frat boy douchebag types in college and maybe even a random hot guy or two at a Cancun foam party/Las Vegas pool party type place. While the frat boy douchebag types banged her and some even got into a relationship with her, none of them wanted the level of commitment she wanted. She had to stoop to a dweeb with money to get her beta bucks hypergamy fulfillment.

Classic Alpha Fuccks, Beta Bucks situation
Maybe she's attracted to the nerdy type? I cannot see many dudes turning her down. She's pretty attractive.

And you know the saying, birds of a kind flock together.

We don't know her past, but we can deduct from the data we have, and it doesn't match the wholesome girl image she wants to portray. But many simps, judging by the comments in her videos (oh, if more women were like you, bla bla :lol:) have fallen for it.
Indeed, her looks got me into her channel, I was like...she looks like an attractive young girl, let's see how she views this dating/relationships topic. It didn't take me long to realize that without the makeup, lighting etc she's not nearly as attractive as some of the thumbnails on her videos would indicate. And secondly that she's either insincere/doesn't know what she's talking about.
No one knows. She could had/or is still a hardcore slvt, or true to what she portrays online (rare these days).

She wanted someone 2 give her the beta buxx before she hit the wall too hard. She smelled a payday and snapped up her rich beta boy who can't d o any better
Anything is possible. However, I think she's still years away from the proverbial wall. I tried to watch a video of his.. Geez, not sure what she sees in him. But, whatever, hope all works out for the newlyweds.
 

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Maybe she's attracted to the nerdy type? I cannot see many dudes turning her down. She's pretty attractive.
Very few men would turn her down. Since she turns 27 next week, we're talking about the 25-26 year old version of her. Imagine what she was like at 18-20.

In the early to mid 2000s, I attended "Hot Girl U". My school was known for its attractive female student body and it had a solid party scene. Part of the reason I chose to attend this school was for the attractive women, though I also had an academic reason for attending.

At my "Hot Girl U" (there are a number of schools I'd call "Hot Girl U"), very few of the women I would have rated 7+ were interested in anything other than the frat boy douchebag type. These were mostly guys of at least average height but usually taller and fit guys, usually with big muscles. It's possible to be a fit guy and not have big muscles. Look at Novak Djokovic as an example of that.

I have no doubt that Courtney Ryan from ages 18-24 was mostly interested in the frat boy douchebag type. At my college, the only nerdy type guys with girlfriends were ones that got them via something social circle. I remember one non-nerdy but classic beta male having a girlfriend and even then, I was surprised by that. No one had any idea what she saw in him. She was average-ish to cute too, but not Courtney Ryan caliber. At my "Hot Girl U" Courtney Ryan wouldn't have stood out that much.

Geez, not sure what she sees in him. But, whatever, hope all works out for the newlyweds.
That's a normal reaction. She sees safety and security. She failed to get a commitment out of the tall, tanned, and muscular men. They all used her as a fuccktoy and did not want to commit to her. A male in the 7.5-8+ range will commit to a woman, but she needs to be a looks equal and offer some other non-looks value too.

I see Courtney Ryan as a 7 who was trying to get men in the 8+ range to commit.
 

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The only reason this girl gets followers is because of her looks. She is a decent looking girl with huge ( . )( . ) so she has probably been spoiled with choice her entire life. Her channel is the basic female rhetoric about wanting a good guy while having a lifetime history of doing the opposite. Then she has on her friends that spew the same rhetoric because they are tired of the Chads and Tyrones doing them dirty. Women are driven by emotions and they get bored when there is no drama. The ”good guys” they claim they want are boring because they are predicable and don’t excite them. They prefer chaos and emotional turbulence.

Courtney has gotten to the point where she has been ran through and damaged. Now she is settling for a guy that was in her friendzone. “He’s such a great guy, I ignored him for the most part but the guy I really wanted cheated on me and treated me like dirt…blah blah blah. “. They all eventually come to the same place and ask, “where have all the good guys gone?” Um, they were everywhere, you just didn’t want them.

Listen to Rollo and read his books if you want a better perspective and understanding of women’s illogical behavior. Female advice has lower value since they can change their minds and opinions at any given moment.
 

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I don't think so, and here's why: she already had relationships and at least one with a 'bad boy' who cheated on her...so that indicates that 1. her bonding capacity had diminished and 2. her primary attraction is towards the 'dangerous' masculine guy.
Regarding #2, maybe but not necessarily. Maybe she ended up with him because he was more aggressive/proactive at asking her out. Women don't like making the first move, at least not in any real sense. They view making the first move as degrading as some guys view paying for sex.
 

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Regarding #2, maybe but not necessarily. Maybe she ended up with him because he was more aggressive/proactive at asking her out. Women don't like making the first move, at least not in any real sense. They view making the first move as degrading as some guys view paying for sex.
Yeah, I've heard that argument. "Why do you date ****y jerks?" "Because they approach me." It certainly makes some sense on the surface.

I knew that women don't prefer to make the first move. But I always thought it was just a mix of laziness and that adopting a submissive frame is more of a turn on for her.

It didn't cross my mind that women view making the first move as degrading, but I'm certainly not surprised to hear that.
 
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It didn't cross my mind that women view making the first move as degrading, but I'm certainly not surprised to hear that.
Yeah, some women will get downright outraged at the suggestion that they make the first move. Makes sense if you think about it. Such a woman might think that it is the male's responsibility to make the first move. And for them to have to make the first move suggests that they are unattractive, because as we all know here, any desirable woman is going to attract male attention.
 

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The only thing that she deserves credit for doing is realizing that things were going nowhere fast with the frat boy douchebag type and she made the adjustment quickly. She's talked about wanting marriage and children, so it's better to start that sooner than later. The main argument that can be made is that she reached Rollo Tomassi's Epiphany Phase a few years earlier than most women.

I think it is a fair argument to make that Teddy Baldassarre (Courtney's fiance) is a poor man's Bill Gates. Bill Gates used his money/Microsoft CEO status to get a mediocre looking MBA having careerist woman in the 1980s. Baldassarre used the same script with less money to get a more attractive female with only a bachelor's degree.
She wanted someone 2 give her the beta buxx before she hit the wall too hard. She smelled a payday and snapped up her rich beta boy who can't d o any better
This is exactly what happened. None of the frat boy douchebag types would commit to her long term. While she's cute, she's not elite level hot, and the top tier guys that she believes she's entitled to wanted to give her the commitment.

She could have gotten a dweeby beta bucks guy at 30-35, but chose to do it far earlier in life that most women. She settled with her beta bucks guy at 25-26.
Teddy Baldassarre's store doesn't even sell the top tier brands of luxury watches. I still have no idea how a fake luxury watch beta male was able to get with Courtney Ryan.

 
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