"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The importance of sexual discipline

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Sexual discipline is one if the most important things to have nowadays.

Especially in this environment where a man can satisfy his every need through virtual reality. You can buy an online gf and "be satisfied ". You can jerk yourself into oblivion and "be happy" . You're one search away from whatever satisfies you. It takes HUGE discipline to ignore that rabbithole.

Sexual discipline is the ONLY way to get that egde over women. Its strips them from their main power: the p00sy. Eliminate that and see what's left.

Sexual discipline will give you more time, and focus on the things you actually should be doing in order to yield the results you want. Its like taking two steps back in order to make four steps forward.

Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you think that much about sex, you do need discipline.
I definitely do. Not proud to admit it.

Had to go nofap to get myself in check. Slept with plenty of low smv type women just to get my D wet. Validated myself through women.

Went nofap and was amazed by how suddenly women aren't THAT important anymore. Its all about ME now.
 

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Sexual discipline is one if the most important things to have nowadays.

Especially in this environment where a man can satisfy his every need through virtual reality. You can buy an online gf and "be satisfied ". You can jerk yourself into oblivion and "be happy" . You're one search away from whatever satisfies you. It takes HUGE discipline to ignore that rabbithole.

Sexual discipline is the ONLY way to get that egde over women. Its strips them from their main power: the p00sy. Eliminate that and see what's left.

Sexual discipline will give you more time, and focus on the things you actually should be doing in order to yield the results you want. Its like taking two steps back in order to make four steps forward.

Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
Difficult when hot girls with tight bras and yoga pants are all over the place.
 

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Difficult when hot girls with tight bras and yoga pants are all over the place.
Thats why sexual discipline is probably the end boss of The Game.

Think about it: all it takes is a bra and some yoga pants to lure you in. But what does it takes to lure her in? The one wearing the bra and yoga pants?

Sexual discipline is the most difficult part of the game. To find a way to take advantage of your surplus of testosterone, but to yet never let it lead you.
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thats why sexual discipline is probably the end boss of The Game.

Think about it: all it takes is a bra and some yoga pants to lure you in. But what does it takes to lure her in? The one wearing the bra and yoga pants?

Sexual discipline is the most difficult part of the game. To find a way to take advantage of your surplus of testosterone, but to yet never let it lead you.
Most guys don't even have normal levels of T these days let alone surplus.
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
I’m always horny. Doesn’t matter if Im getting it or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
What about banging ex girlfriends and / or land whales and / or Ugly girls? How does that fit in the topic of sexual discipline?
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
Depends on what you're after. I've learned it's not necessarily the sexual release that I want, but the validation.

You can get plenty of sex but little validation if that makes sense.


I’m always horny. Doesn’t matter if Im getting it or not.
Same here. If I can have a different one everyday, I want 2 every day.

I can't get no...tududu......satis- fac- tion. Tududu
 

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What about banging ex girlfriends and / or land whales and / or Ugly girls? How does that fit in the topic of sexual discipline?
No go. Although y'all know I feel like there's a difference between an hb8+ ex and a land whale.

But again, strip the hb8 from her main power and see what's left. From that pov I do kinda agree with @BackInTheGame78 , that if you are satisfied in life there's no room for exes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think my biggest problem is that I find women absolutely fascinating

The different ways their minds work , the intracies of getting them to submit to my will

Having a woman who's like 50/50 into you then submiss to you and start becoming sexual with you is far more rewarding than the actual sex itself

Seduction truly is a form of art and its where I often find myself wanting to express my creativity

What this means is women become a prime interest in my life and I spend a LOT of time engaging and studying them.

Some guys obsess over their jobs , or their cars or their sports team
 

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There used to be a lot of "No Fap" posts a few years ago where guys acted like it bestowed these super powers on them. Personally, I can tell if I go a few days without sex and masturbation. When I do have sex after that, I can go longer and perform better overall. However, I think it is generally pretty overrated to go No Fap (assuming you aren't having sex) for days and days on end. All that happens is I start to feel like I need to nut at all costs.

To me, if you are having to do either of those things (No Fap OR the opposite: beating off every day) to control your urges as they concern women, your problems run deeper than something anatomical. Sex with beautiful women is great, but it can't be the driving force in why you get up each day and define you. Your best sexual discipline is to have a rich life outside of women.
 

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Perhaps that's the reason why so many men opt out of the game nowadays.

I'm always horny. Needed to discipline myself drastically.
No, that's a side effect of the root cause which is plastics and pesticides that have wreaked havoc on the male endocrine system since the 1950s
 

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There used to be a lot of "No Fap" posts a few years ago where guys acted like it bestowed these super powers on them. Personally, I can tell if I go a few days without sex and masturbation. When I do have sex after that, I can go longer and perform better overall. However, I think it is generally pretty overrated to go No Fap (assuming you aren't having sex) for days and days on end. All that happens is I start to feel like I need to nut at all costs.
NoFap is a good life practice and it can help with some things. The super powers thing is a bit overstated though there is a period in the early stages of NoFap where a man is super motivated to approach due to excessive horniness. As NoFap continues, there's sort of a baseline that gets established. It does help in some social situations.
 

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Agreed having sexual discipline does give you an edge.

Have any of you read the classic think and grow rich?

the chapter on sexual transmutation is worthwhile for all here to read.

just like it sounds, it’s about transmuting sexual energy into other pursuits. Career, higher level interests.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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