"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The importance of sexual discipline

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I don't fap, so i would sleep with a lot of women that were below my standards.
No porn and no fap is the way to go.

NoFap is a good life practice and it can help with some things. The super powers thing is a bit overstated though there is a period in the early stages of NoFap where a man is super motivated to approach due to excessive horniness. As NoFap continues, there's sort of a baseline that gets established. It does help in some social situations.
And I could understand this to an extent. I am at a point where I am generally very outgoing with most everyone around me so I don't notice a major difference in the approach department. It is almost strictly measured by performance in the sack.

I think what you say does have merit and do think for the less experienced DJs it could give an extra bit of motivation.
Performance in the bedroom is a key part of Game overall. A good performance in the bedroom can keep women coming back for more and reduce the need to regularly approach. Being good at sex has a lot of benefits.

I agree that no porn and no fap will help sex performance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No porn and no fap is the way to go.





Performance in the bedroom is a key part of Game overall. A good performance in the bedroom can keep women coming back for more and reduce the need to regularly approach. Being good at sex has a lot of benefits.

I agree that no porn and no fap will help sex performance.
You said you regularly approached.
 

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One more thing regarding the concept of "sexual discipline."

This also includes the resistance to masturbating AND watching pornography.

Yeah. So basically. The ability to control our hornyness dictates whether or not we are truly discipline, sexually.
 
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