“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The importance of sexual discipline

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Sexual discipline is one if the most important things to have nowadays.

Especially in this environment where a man can satisfy his every need through virtual reality. You can buy an online gf and "be satisfied ". You can jerk yourself into oblivion and "be happy" . You're one search away from whatever satisfies you. It takes HUGE discipline to ignore that rabbithole.

Sexual discipline is the ONLY way to get that egde over women. Its strips them from their main power: the p00sy. Eliminate that and see what's left.

Sexual discipline will give you more time, and focus on the things you actually should be doing in order to yield the results you want. Its like taking two steps back in order to make four steps forward.

Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you think that much about sex, you do need discipline.
I definitely do. Not proud to admit it.

Had to go nofap to get myself in check. Slept with plenty of low smv type women just to get my D wet. Validated myself through women.

Went nofap and was amazed by how suddenly women aren't THAT important anymore. Its all about ME now.
 

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Sexual discipline is one if the most important things to have nowadays.

Especially in this environment where a man can satisfy his every need through virtual reality. You can buy an online gf and "be satisfied ". You can jerk yourself into oblivion and "be happy" . You're one search away from whatever satisfies you. It takes HUGE discipline to ignore that rabbithole.

Sexual discipline is the ONLY way to get that egde over women. Its strips them from their main power: the p00sy. Eliminate that and see what's left.

Sexual discipline will give you more time, and focus on the things you actually should be doing in order to yield the results you want. Its like taking two steps back in order to make four steps forward.

Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
Difficult when hot girls with tight bras and yoga pants are all over the place.
 

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Difficult when hot girls with tight bras and yoga pants are all over the place.
Thats why sexual discipline is probably the end boss of The Game.

Think about it: all it takes is a bra and some yoga pants to lure you in. But what does it takes to lure her in? The one wearing the bra and yoga pants?

Sexual discipline is the most difficult part of the game. To find a way to take advantage of your surplus of testosterone, but to yet never let it lead you.
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thats why sexual discipline is probably the end boss of The Game.

Think about it: all it takes is a bra and some yoga pants to lure you in. But what does it takes to lure her in? The one wearing the bra and yoga pants?

Sexual discipline is the most difficult part of the game. To find a way to take advantage of your surplus of testosterone, but to yet never let it lead you.
Most guys don't even have normal levels of T these days let alone surplus.
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
I’m always horny. Doesn’t matter if Im getting it or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Everything you do that keeps you sexually hostage is obviously a no go: watching porn, paying for porn, paying for prostitutes, lusting after everything with a hole in it.

Your thoughts, gents?
What about banging ex girlfriends and / or land whales and / or Ugly girls? How does that fit in the topic of sexual discipline?
 

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I think guys who get laid regularly automatically place a lower value on it and guys who don't place a higher value on it.

Simple supply and demand, nothing more.

Those that have none want it badly and those that have plenty place little value on it. No different than anything else in life
Depends on what you're after. I've learned it's not necessarily the sexual release that I want, but the validation.

You can get plenty of sex but little validation if that makes sense.


I’m always horny. Doesn’t matter if Im getting it or not.
Same here. If I can have a different one everyday, I want 2 every day.

I can't get no...tududu......satis- fac- tion. Tududu
 

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What about banging ex girlfriends and / or land whales and / or Ugly girls? How does that fit in the topic of sexual discipline?
No go. Although y'all know I feel like there's a difference between an hb8+ ex and a land whale.

But again, strip the hb8 from her main power and see what's left. From that pov I do kinda agree with @BackInTheGame78 , that if you are satisfied in life there's no room for exes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think my biggest problem is that I find women absolutely fascinating

The different ways their minds work , the intracies of getting them to submit to my will

Having a woman who's like 50/50 into you then submiss to you and start becoming sexual with you is far more rewarding than the actual sex itself

Seduction truly is a form of art and its where I often find myself wanting to express my creativity

What this means is women become a prime interest in my life and I spend a LOT of time engaging and studying them.

Some guys obsess over their jobs , or their cars or their sports team
 

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There used to be a lot of "No Fap" posts a few years ago where guys acted like it bestowed these super powers on them. Personally, I can tell if I go a few days without sex and masturbation. When I do have sex after that, I can go longer and perform better overall. However, I think it is generally pretty overrated to go No Fap (assuming you aren't having sex) for days and days on end. All that happens is I start to feel like I need to nut at all costs.

To me, if you are having to do either of those things (No Fap OR the opposite: beating off every day) to control your urges as they concern women, your problems run deeper than something anatomical. Sex with beautiful women is great, but it can't be the driving force in why you get up each day and define you. Your best sexual discipline is to have a rich life outside of women.
 

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Perhaps that's the reason why so many men opt out of the game nowadays.

I'm always horny. Needed to discipline myself drastically.
No, that's a side effect of the root cause which is plastics and pesticides that have wreaked havoc on the male endocrine system since the 1950s
 

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There used to be a lot of "No Fap" posts a few years ago where guys acted like it bestowed these super powers on them. Personally, I can tell if I go a few days without sex and masturbation. When I do have sex after that, I can go longer and perform better overall. However, I think it is generally pretty overrated to go No Fap (assuming you aren't having sex) for days and days on end. All that happens is I start to feel like I need to nut at all costs.
NoFap is a good life practice and it can help with some things. The super powers thing is a bit overstated though there is a period in the early stages of NoFap where a man is super motivated to approach due to excessive horniness. As NoFap continues, there's sort of a baseline that gets established. It does help in some social situations.
 

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Agreed having sexual discipline does give you an edge.

Have any of you read the classic think and grow rich?

the chapter on sexual transmutation is worthwhile for all here to read.

just like it sounds, it’s about transmuting sexual energy into other pursuits. Career, higher level interests.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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