"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Xavier's Guide to getting Jacked in 30 days.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ricky

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Its easy to go from 160-180...

180-200 is where it gets hard as hell.

It depends on where on the muscle scale you're at.

I was at 160, 8-9% body fat forever prior to my weight gain. And I didn't eat a lot naturally as I was used to one meal a day and intermittent fasting...

Maybe that factors into it, but regardless It was an easy 20 lbs I gained that month just by following a strict meal plan, eating more of the right things, right macros.

Took Creatine and Multi Vs. Thats all you need.
Was this beginner gains. If it was his first time lifting its fairly believable
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When your brain doesn't wanna attempt or try it will look for ways to prove it "impossible". Countless examples of dudes gaining weight fast on the internet, countless examples of dudes losing weight fast.

Everybody places it in the category of myth and explains it away as genetics, blah blah.

Im not even gonna attempt to convince you it's possible.

Whatever you believe is the truth lmao

I can or I can't, you're right

I'm not even gonna continue to argue on this
 

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When your brain doesn't wanna attempt or try it will look for ways to prove it "impossible". Countless examples of dudes gaining weight fast on the internet, countless examples of dudes losing weight fast.

Everybody places it in the category of myth and explains it away as genetics, blah blah.

Im not even gonna attempt to convince you it's possible.

Whatever you believe is the truth lmao

I can or I can't, you're right

I'm not even gonna continue to argue on this
anyone can gain or lose weight fast. But gaining a bunch of weight fast means most of it isn't muscle.

There is a rate limit of muscle synthesis that cannot be overridden in the human body except by outside factors such as steroids.

No amount of "hearsay" you want to bring up overrides scientific facts.
 

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anyone can gain or lose weight fast. But gaining a bunch of weight fast means most of it isn't muscle.

There is a rate limit of muscle synthesis that cannot be overridden in the human body except by outside factors such as steroids.

No amount of "hearsay" you want to bring up overrides scientific facts.
What's the purpose of steroids? What traits does it give you? What does it do? Do you need steroids to have the effect it gives you?

I'm only asking cause I genuinely want the best for you and love you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hypocrites everywhere on this forum. Preaching health and making fun of actual advice

You give an App that literally replaces a personal trainer and gives you exact recipe to get jacked without needing to pay thousands for a personal trainer

"Smoke Meth" Makes jokes about being a dumb caveman lol

Anyways I've done my due diligence, my mind gets infected by the virus of this loser energy.

You try to teach a dude to start his own business and watch as he tries to tell you the business your in is a scam and thinks your tryna sell him MLM
Haha i agree
 

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Overreaching and supercompensation does work. Smolov program, Poliquins superaccumulation program, Marine Corps boot camp, Nick Nillson;s programs, etc. Push to overeaching, (most call it overtraining), then back off. You wil definately feel like crap, but rebound is phenominal.
 

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Overreaching and supercompensation does work. Smolov program, Poliquins superaccumulation program, Marine Corps boot camp, Nick Nillson;s programs, etc. Push to overeaching, (most call it overtraining), then back off. You wil definately feel like crap, but rebound is phenominal.
YUP.

But nah. "Slow and steady wins the race" NGMI
 

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OP sounds like you've been eating a lot of TRENbologni sandwiches.

The body literally cannot put on double digit lbs. of muscle in a month, even on a copious amounts of steroids. If you did gain 20lbs, 15 was probably fat and water. The idea that this is a legitimate or sustainable method is absolutely idiotic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OP sounds like you've been eating a lot of TRENbologni sandwiches.

The body literally cannot put on double digit lbs. of muscle in a month, even on a copious amounts of steroids. If you did gain 20lbs, 15 was probably fat and water. The idea that this is a legitimate or sustainable method is absolutely idiotic.
Pretty much...then OP wants to talk about pushing so hard...

Meanwhile takes 3 minute breaks between sets to take pics of himself, LMAO.

Most people never truly push themselves...they only push themselves to their preconceived limit in their mind and then never push past it.
 

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Pretty much...then OP wants to talk about pushing so hard...

Meanwhile takes 3 minute breaks between sets to take pics of himself, LMAO.

Most people never truly push themselves...they only push themselves to their preconceived limit in their mind and then never push past it.
lmao ur a moderator in this? Wow
 

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Most of y’all are dudes who go to the gym for years and only gain or lose 20 lbs.

We are not the same lol.

You’re pushing what u conceive to be “reality” based on your own limits.

Stoning everyone that goes against the grain.

projecting that sh onto me lmaoo but hey it’s the internet
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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