You are really either good at taking pics and hiding something or your personality/game is dog shvt. No reason for you to be two years in a dry spell.
It's possible to be a normie and have a 2 year dry spell. Normies are having more and more dry spells.
Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn’t have sex once over the past 12 months, according to the 2021 General Social Survey.
There are some normies who are a part of that 26%. Additionally, besides that 26% (which is more male than female), there are men who aren't in relationships who are barely getting laid, men in LTRs/mariages with very little sex, and men who can't get laid conventionally and directly pay for sex.
@Donesimping probably has nothing in the way of a social circle capable of arranging introductions/dates for him. When you don't get social circle introductions, you're forced to fight it out on either swipe apps, the social media DMs, or approach strangers in a variety of real life venues. All of those paths are much more difficult than getting an introduction and settling into some sort of extended relationship that might last 2+ years.
The biggest flaw with a lot of men who get social circle introductions is that they tend to stay in relationships that are social circle generated too long. They tend to stay in these relationships beyond their useful life because they realize how difficult sparking up new relationships would be from swipe apps or strangers approaches. Additionally, these men often have blue pill conditioning too about how life should progress. According to their blue pill conditioning, the path is supposed to be: meet woman, start relationship, put a ring on it, get house in suburbs, have babies. I also think a lot of these blue pill men live in fear of the reactions of other people in their social circle if they deviate from blue pill/normie life development path.
Social circles have a way of getting pissed off at men who continually exchange girlfriends without marriage or babies, even if the relationships are semi-long (1-4 years). After 2 or so instances of medium term relationships, the social circle will run dry. Social circle is not likely ideal for serial monogamist who does have extended relationships but doesn't commit or the player type who tends to have relationships of less than 1 year. The serial monogamist will likely exhaust his social circle options in roughly 3-7 years, whereas a player type would piss off a social circle in less than 2 years.
It takes a lot to build a social circle and I don't think that's the best course of action for
@Donesimping right now. He needs to change. There are certain things he can do with his looks and he might need mental health therapy based on another thread he started about his current mental state. The first thing he needs to have is a more relationship orientation because he's not going to be getting casual sex based on his looks alone. He would need a lot of charisma and/or money for that, neither of which he likely has right now or can get rather quickly. He's probably been too dependent on swipe apps or sending DMs on Instagram, which are both very competitive forms of game.
@sangheilios is correct that it is a difficult game market out there.
@sangheilios has the basic looks of a top tier guy, as a 6'4", 220-230 lb guy with big muscles. With those stats, he's one of the top guys at any gym. That's the profile of the "Chad Thundercocck" women desire. If a guy with the "Chad" look can encounter issues in a reasonably sized metro area, that's a sign of a lack of health of the mating market at large. Guys under 6'0" and without big muscles are less equipped for success than
@sangheilios .
