“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sh!t Testing

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I’m writing this from experience and observations for my own sake, for clarification.

Women feel more confident with you when you pass their sh!t tests. In a woman’s shoes, they have to be very selective and have a deep seated fear of making the wrong choice. That’s why they test you. Women only sh!t test if she is interested in you. If a woman is not interested in you, she’s not sh!t testing you, she’s disrespecting you.

Women like to see you fail her sh!t tests for her ego sake, but she needs you to pass them it to get turned on. She sh!t tests at her ‘level,’ passing them means you are above her, failing means you are below her. Women like sh!t testing, regardless if you pass or fail; you pass she’s turned on, you fail she feels superior to you. The only time she doesn’t like you failing a sh!t test is when she has invested in you already, because then she feels led on.

Since testing is mostly a win win scenario for women, they test often. It is in women’s nature to see how far they can go with their bs. Women do not respect men who give in to their bs, that’s why having a high amount of self-respect and living a life worthy of respect is so important, this is your so called ‘frame.’

Women have been allowed to feel superior because the vast majority of men these days are soft. Stress, pain, and frustration are needed to build a character worthy of self-respect, yet life is so easy now that a man can go through life without having such a character. What’s worse, is that beta males are so sex deprived that women know that the beta males really want to have sex with them; on the forum we know this as one of the causes of simping. Women get to feel validated with little effort.


The solution:

Don’t let women make the rules. If she does, break them.

Recognize that modern women lie constantly.

Don’t let her feel validated unless she actually deserves it, that often means banging them first. That also means not being an orbiter or chasing her in any way. If she's taking hours to reply then next her, she has low interest in you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I read the player handbook by rollo tomassi, in ther he stated 2 kinds of **** test,
1. Congruence **** tes
2. Passive **** test

i guess yours are the passive one
 

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I read the player handbook by rollo tomassi, in ther he stated 2 kinds of **** test,
1. Congruence **** tes
2. Passive **** test

i guess yours are the passive one
Never heard of it but that sounds interesting.
 

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Yes, and most of the time, women sh!t test you subconsciously, meaning they don't even know they are sh!t testing you, they just do.
Agree. Additionally, many people, men and women alike have a taste for mean jokes. You also will come to find you "accidentally" **** test girls by saying something casually and suddenly getting an unexpectedly emotional reaction.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I read the player handbook by rollo tomassi, in ther he stated 2 kinds of **** test,
1. Congruence **** tes
2. Passive **** test

i guess yours are the passive one
Just went to buy the audible version, can't wait to listen to it :cool:
 

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I read the player handbook by rollo tomassi, in ther he stated 2 kinds of **** test,
1. Congruence **** tes
2. Passive **** test

i guess yours are the passive one
I'm half way through the audible version.
 
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