You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most women I asked have said that to me, but they do not know details. I tell them that there was nothing in the content of the message that indicates flirting. However, most dont want to hear details. They say she is not flirting, her vagina is.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hello,
way to thirsty OP for a woman who has given you nothing,
No. I know a chick who was interested in me. She had a daughter and was married to some dude who tried something like this. He is in jail. You say things so easy....but easier said than done. You believe I would leave her for the daughter like if the daughter is going to go with me........ I guess you will be ending like the dude who is now in prison..... I got a sister and she has a daughter, this is why she does not want man around her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You don't get it....There is no magic time frame for the initial contact. You present yourself the best you can,control the time, place and duration of the interaction. If she's not interested then nothing is going to change that.
This is not even Don Juan advice. You either a cop or a pervert.
I will look into it, but I believe it is already too late. It is Wednesday night and the last day to call. I cannot call in the next 4 days.
I skimmed through the posts. No need to analyze this. Your looking to much into this situation for nothing. As if your trying to figure something out. You need to stay less invested.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I can read your post, and get your advice. What I needed figured out is done. Next is to get the number and call. I don't know what gives all of you the inkling that I am too concern, invested, worried about this chick. It is like some of you can only advice this. Relax, relax, relax dont do anything. Let life do it all for you......... The original post was about what it means when a woman texts late at night, somehow, it became something of your desperate and need to relax. ****, I am relaxed, bitsh PM me this morning and I am still here reading your nonsense. If I was you I woud have called as soon as I get the number.
I got her number.
LOL
Now, antidump says wait max 5 days. Tomorrow is Thursday. I believe it is late to set up anything for Saturday night or even Sunday afternoon. My best option is to call on Monday and ask her out for Saturday. I should have asked her for her number before, but she was not asking me questions. So I sensed level of interest low.
Youre checking green dots on facebook, and writing paragraphs on SM.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Give me a focking break.
Glassguy is blocked. You?
Update. You gave me hopes so I reply to you.
Glad to help.
B.S.......I wish. 6 hours 1 way in trip.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.