She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most women I asked have said that to me, but they do not know details. I tell them that there was nothing in the content of the message that indicates flirting. However, most dont want to hear details. They say she is not flirting, her vagina is.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hello,
way to thirsty OP for a woman who has given you nothing,
No. I know a chick who was interested in me. She had a daughter and was married to some dude who tried something like this. He is in jail. You say things so easy....but easier said than done. You believe I would leave her for the daughter like if the daughter is going to go with me........ I guess you will be ending like the dude who is now in prison..... I got a sister and she has a daughter, this is why she does not want man around her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You don't get it....There is no magic time frame for the initial contact. You present yourself the best you can,control the time, place and duration of the interaction. If she's not interested then nothing is going to change that.
This is not even Don Juan advice. You either a cop or a pervert.
I will look into it, but I believe it is already too late. It is Wednesday night and the last day to call. I cannot call in the next 4 days.
I skimmed through the posts. No need to analyze this. Your looking to much into this situation for nothing. As if your trying to figure something out. You need to stay less invested.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I can read your post, and get your advice. What I needed figured out is done. Next is to get the number and call. I don't know what gives all of you the inkling that I am too concern, invested, worried about this chick. It is like some of you can only advice this. Relax, relax, relax dont do anything. Let life do it all for you......... The original post was about what it means when a woman texts late at night, somehow, it became something of your desperate and need to relax. ****, I am relaxed, bitsh PM me this morning and I am still here reading your nonsense. If I was you I woud have called as soon as I get the number.
I got her number.
LOL
Now, antidump says wait max 5 days. Tomorrow is Thursday. I believe it is late to set up anything for Saturday night or even Sunday afternoon. My best option is to call on Monday and ask her out for Saturday. I should have asked her for her number before, but she was not asking me questions. So I sensed level of interest low.
Youre checking green dots on facebook, and writing paragraphs on SM.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Give me a focking break.
Glassguy is blocked. You?
Update. You gave me hopes so I reply to you.
Glad to help.
B.S.......I wish. 6 hours 1 way in trip.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.