"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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  1. Look out for salmon tails. I sometimes see these at my fish mongers. They’re the tail end of the fillet and often get tossed out. They have lots of lovely skin on them (the most nutritious bit of the fish…please don’t discard!!). They’re half the price of the rest of the fillet and cook up beautifully.
  2. I buy discount meats, hard cheese and smallgoods in bulk. Perishable items are often discounted a few days before their “best before” date. I buy up and freeze what I can’t use straight away. Mince is a great one to buy when it’s discounted. I turn it into meatballs and freeze them immediately.
  3. I cook cheap cuts-offs, offal and other unpopular parts of an animal. They’re cheaper, sustainable and often more flavoursome and nutritious.
  4. I buy seasonally and locally. If it’s not in season you shouldn’t be eating it for a whole bunch of reasons – health, carbon miles and undercutting local farmers. Buying asparagus from Mexico or pink grapefruit from Peru is criminal.
  5. keep my freezer full. It’s more energy efficient that way, as solids freeze at a lower temperature than air.
  6. use the brine or oil from olives, anchovies or marinated feta as a salad dressing. Brine from canned tuna can be repurposed to sautee veggies and almost empty mustard jars become dressing shakers, to use up the very last bits.
  7. I create different scrap bags in the freezer. I add vegetable and fruit cut-offs, herb stalks and other scraps as I go along. I have one for vegetable stock, chicken and fish stock, a leftover pesto bag and a smoothie bag.
  8. I regrow the cut-off roots of the veggies and herbs I cooked with. This works with shallots, coriander and lemongrass, bok choy, celery and cos lettuce, ginger and turmeric. You can even repurpose the top of a pineapple to grow a hipster-esque palm plant!
  9. slow cook. It’s the most sustainable (and nutritious) way to prepare your meals. Did you know that a slow-cooker uses less energy than a light bulb?
  10. I don’t buy more until I’ve finished what I already have. I completely run out of yoghurt before I set out to buy another, that way I find myself using up the last of the sour cream or cheese in the interim.
  11. I ignore “best before” labels. The use-by date tells you when a food must be eaten for health and safety reasons, whereas the best-before date gives a rough indication of when it’s best to eat. Many countries have actually removed the “best before” date because they cause totally unnecessary food tossing. I ignore them. You should, too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you literally live in Zimbabwe?

This is a genuine question? you've written an interesting piece, and now i can see why were as entitled AF in the UK.

"Poor" in the UK, is 4 take outs a week, and booze everynight.
 

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  1. Look out for salmon tails. I sometimes see these at my fish mongers. They’re the tail end of the fillet and often get tossed out. They have lots of lovely skin on them (the most nutritious bit of the fish…please don’t discard!!). They’re half the price of the rest of the fillet and cook up beautifully.
  2. I buy discount meats, hard cheese and smallgoods in bulk. Perishable items are often discounted a few days before their “best before” date. I buy up and freeze what I can’t use straight away. Mince is a great one to buy when it’s discounted. I turn it into meatballs and freeze them immediately.
  3. I cook cheap cuts-offs, offal and other unpopular parts of an animal. They’re cheaper, sustainable and often more flavoursome and nutritious.
  4. I buy seasonally and locally. If it’s not in season you shouldn’t be eating it for a whole bunch of reasons – health, carbon miles and undercutting local farmers. Buying asparagus from Mexico or pink grapefruit from Peru is criminal.
  5. keep my freezer full. It’s more energy efficient that way, as solids freeze at a lower temperature than air.
  6. use the brine or oil from olives, anchovies or marinated feta as a salad dressing. Brine from canned tuna can be repurposed to sautee veggies and almost empty mustard jars become dressing shakers, to use up the very last bits.
  7. I create different scrap bags in the freezer. I add vegetable and fruit cut-offs, herb stalks and other scraps as I go along. I have one for vegetable stock, chicken and fish stock, a leftover pesto bag and a smoothie bag.
  8. I regrow the cut-off roots of the veggies and herbs I cooked with. This works with shallots, coriander and lemongrass, bok choy, celery and cos lettuce, ginger and turmeric. You can even repurpose the top of a pineapple to grow a hipster-esque palm plant!
  9. slow cook. It’s the most sustainable (and nutritious) way to prepare your meals. Did you know that a slow-cooker uses less energy than a light bulb?
  10. I don’t buy more until I’ve finished what I already have. I completely run out of yoghurt before I set out to buy another, that way I find myself using up the last of the sour cream or cheese in the interim.
  11. I ignore “best before” labels. The use-by date tells you when a food must be eaten for health and safety reasons, whereas the best-before date gives a rough indication of when it’s best to eat. Many countries have actually removed the “best before” date because they cause totally unnecessary food tossing. I ignore them. You should, too.
Good piece there. Fantastic
 

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Do you literally live in Zimbabwe?

This is a genuine question? you've written an interesting piece, and now i can see why were as entitled AF in the UK.

"Poor" in the UK, is 4 take outs a week, and booze everynight.
I think the brother is Australian or at least is based in Aus
 

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Do you literally live in Zimbabwe?

This is a genuine question? you've written an interesting piece, and now i can see why were as entitled AF in the UK.

"Poor" in the UK, is 4 take outs a week, and booze everynight.
I'm in Australia, i wouldn't name the account on the country i live in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in Australia, i wouldn't name the account on the country i live in.
I wasnt certain so just led with what I knew, Im actually a point now where I believe we need a catastrophic event to humble society. Cause people in the UK would think your from outer space giving that advice
 

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I wasnt certain so just led with what I knew, Im actually a point now where I believe we need a catastrophic event to humble society. Cause people in the UK would think your from outer space giving that advice
There is a catastrophic recession on the way for the Uk so that may help bring some back down to reality

I find it baffling the level of wanton consumer spending we have in this country everywhere i look people are mortgaged and financed to the hilt everyone i know seems to be driving brand new cars

The average income is what £20-25K a year
 
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everyone i know seems to be driving brand new cars
Dont underestimate how many were left houses by their parents, My daughters mom who is on the welfare, has never worked a day in her life.

shes been left the great nans house, and the mom and dads house, literally all paid off.

These are working class people, but still it amounts to 350k overnight.

I'll be honest it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth, how once again shes rewarded.

its no wonder she drives round in her car screaming at people with entitlement.
 

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There is a catastrophic recession on the way for the Uk so that may help bring some back down to reality

I find it baffling the level of wanton consumer spending we have in this country everywhere i look people are mortgaged and financed to the hilt everyone i know seems to be driving brand new cars

The average income is what £20-25K a year
gov and leadership can make that situation work for a very long time. it's a political issue at the core. be afraid is the message being told.
 

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slow cook. It’s the most sustainable (and nutritious) way to prepare your meals. Did you know that a slow-cooker uses less energy than a light bulb?
I just verified this. Given that I love soup and chili, I think this finally justifies the purchase.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cabbage and onions. Incredibly healthy and cost-effective. Cabbage especially is one of the most nutrient-dense vegetables you can eat, makes your morning sh!t quick, easy and complete, is half the price per lb than broccoli or cauliflower while delivering similar benefits (cruciferous vegetable family) and will keep in the fridge for weeks. It has proven anti-cancer properties. A large head of cabbage at my local supermarket is $2 and provides a vegetable side for 8-10 dinners. Sauté with sweet onions, olive oil, garlic and a little butter.

Chicken leg quarters are also cost-effective, running about $5 for 4 quarters.

If you’re really tight, then pork in the US is scandalously cheap. My supermarket has it for less than $1 per lb. Those pigs are fed soybeans, however, so that’s introducing a lot of soy into your system. But it’s cheap protein.

Generally speaking, organic produce isn’t worth the premium so I never buy it.

Watch out for tilapia! It’s cheap and delicious— but if it was farmed in Chiner, it was raised in a large vat and fed pig feces. Never buy cheap tilapia that was raised in Chiner.
 

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Good tips OP.

I survive pretty much on eggs, fatty fish, and chicken for protein. For carbs it’s oats, beans, potatoes, and honey. I live in kind of a richy area so vegetables are cheapish.

Nice tip with the salad dressing. I make my own as well. Amazing they charge $3-$5 a bottle for water, oil, vinegar, and preservatives. It’s so easy to make.

I’ll add a tip for household cleaning supplies. Spray bottles are a huge goddamn ripoff. All you need is bleach, vinegar, and dish soap. Pick up some empty spray bottles and make your own. (They have different applications so do one of each)
 

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Nice tip with the salad dressing. I make my own as well. Amazing they charge $3-$5 a bottle for water, oil, vinegar, and preservatives. It’s so easy to make.
I make an Orange Sesame dressing, and agree it's so cheap and easy to make your own.

Swiss chard and kiwi are 2 good foods to always have around.
 

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Oatmeal, basmati rice, vegetables, fruits, chicken breast, olive oil, low fat yogurt, etc.
 

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If you have the extra fat content to spare in your macros(like me lol) I love chicken legs and thighs. Extremely cheap and taste incredible.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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survive pretty much on eggs, fatty fish, and chicken for protein. For carbs it’s oats, beans, potatoes, and honey. I live in kind of a richy area so vegetables are cheapish.
I hear people complaining about their grocery bills and shake my head.

similar diet... ground beef, eggs, chicken, tuna, rice, rice cakes,vegetables, bone broth, ramen... drink water and coffee... I can keep it to around 100 bucks a week. If even that and I feel amazing.
 

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I hear people complaining about their grocery bills and shake my head.

similar diet... ground beef, eggs, chicken, tuna, rice, rice cakes,vegetables, bone broth, ramen... drink water and coffee... I can keep it to around 100 bucks a week. If even that and I feel amazing.
I agree bro. The most expensive thing I buy is salmon. I try to do more canned fish- sardines and herring due to cost.
 

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For your overnight oats use frozen fruit. It is cheaper than fresh.
Veg is also cheaper frozen than fresh.

Gluten free is expensive if you just replace gluten foods with gluten free versions. Changing what you actually eat is cheaper. Remove bread from your diet and replace with potatoes or rice
 

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Digging this thread.

I buy macros in bulk.

Chicken breasts thin sliced.
Coconut oil or Olive oil.
Brocolli, zucchini, lettuce + regular veggies.
Cheap low fat sauces like @nicksaiz65 suggested in a similar thread.

I don't eat out or eat anything I don't cook.

Tip: if you're taking risks with meat, please cook it properly, get a meat thermometer if necessary.

75 degrees Celsius is min required internal temp.
 

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Foods That Actually Help Me Eat Healthier on a Budget
  1. Eggs. Eggs are a huge part of my weekly meal plan. ...
  2. Beans and Lentils. ...
  3. Sweet Potatoes. ...
  4. Whole Chicken. ...
  5. Hummus. ...
  6. Pasta. ...
  7. Frozen Vegetables. ...
  8. Cottage Cheese.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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