HB 7, 6.5 on the FB dating app tonight. Threw numbers at me. Advice.

[Macadellic]

I'm with OP on trying to find her Social Media to see current pictures of her.

Girl I used to date - the day after we first met, she checked out my LinkedIn.

I’m with equality they created.

Anything they can do, I can do better.
Yes I can!

Yum yum this cake of mine and eat it too.

 

[Barrister]

Do you not realize how women do this plus so much more?

I love equality, may I have more please.

Which is fine if you have good reason to believe the chick may be lying about her measurables on an OLD profile. Although, I would counter by just asking for a current pic of her if you are really that worried - not doing some bizarre research behind the scenes. If she refuses, you have your answer.

However, the OP looks for every excuse under the sun to not go on a date - essentially self-sabotaging himself at every possible chance. He clearly has major anxiety issues when it comes to dating and almost zero confidence. Regardless of anything he posts, I am not convinced he has been on a date in years.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What advice do you need? Set up dates with them

 

[BackInTheGame78]

And here we go again with the OLD. Still baffles me what men expect out of these things.

To each their own, I guess. My answer will always be, best of luck to you.


Modern Man Advice

Lots of sex

 

[Willie Naylor]

FaceTime w/ her before the date.

1) you verify you're not being Catfished

2) builds comfort before the date even begins

 

[rjc149]

OP, just set up a date and see where it goes. Be flirty, have fun, and seduce. Way too many men treat a 1st date like a wife interview. Don't fall into that mindset.

I think researching a stranger's photos in the fear that there's some huge discrepancy in her appearance is paranoid. Most women don't post pics of themselves then show up 50 lbs heavier or 10 years older. If you liked her face and determined that she's at a palatable weight from her profile, yeah, maybe she looks slightly less attractive IRL, but that's what booze is for. Getting drunk and banging a 6.5 is still a good time. Go have fun and get some at-bats dude.

 

[Willie Naylor]

OP, just set up a date and see where it goes. Be flirty, have fun, and seduce. Way too many men treat a 1st date like a wife interview. Don't fall into that mindset.

I think researching a stranger's photos in the fear that there's some huge discrepancy in her appearance is paranoid. Most women don't post pics of themselves then show up 50 lbs heavier or 10 years older. If you liked her face and determined that she's at a palatable weight from her profile, yeah, maybe she looks slightly less attractive IRL, but that's what booze is for. Getting drunk and banging a 6.5 is still a good time. Go have fun and get some at-bats dude.

He's not interested in getting better. He just likes to complain.

Don't take my word for it. Watch out for his next thread he creates.

It's going to be more b!tching and complaining.

 

[Macadellic]

OP looks for every excuse under the sun to not go on a date - essentially self-sabotaging himself at every possible chance. He clearly has major anxiety issues when it comes to dating and almost zero confidence. Regardless of anything he posts, I am not convinced he has been on a date in years.

He's not interested in getting better. He just likes to complain.

Don't take my word for it. Watch out for his next thread he creates.

It's going to be more b!tching and complaining.

OP,
Go on a date with this girl.
She threw her number at you,
what will she throw at you in person

Then report back to us with post nut clarity and a list of complains and excuses as to why you won’t see this girl again.

Cheers

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Lots of sex

If you are lazy I guess

Modern Man Advice

 

[biggoal]

OP,
Go on a date with this girl.
She threw her number at you,
what will she throw at you in person

Then report back to us with post nut clarity and a list of complains and excuses as to why you won’t see this girl again.

Cheers

I'll text her later. She's from a rich family though.

The 49 year old I'm waiting to get back with me is closer to me though. I'd rather go for her due to the closer distance.

 

[Willie Naylor]

I'll text her later. She's from a rich family though.

The 49 year old I'm waiting to get back with me is closer to me though. I'd rather go for her due to the closer distance.

Oh no. Please tell us @biggoal, what negatives does this tell you about her?

 

[Macadellic]

I'll text her later. She's from a rich family though.

The 49 year old I'm waiting to get back with me is closer to me though. I'd rather go for her due to the closer distance.

Go and date both.
Compare and contrast the negatives of each one.

 

[Barrister]

OP,
Go on a date with this girl.
She threw her number at you,
what will she throw at you in person

Then report back to us with post nut clarity and a list of complains and excuses as to why you won’t see this girl again.

Cheers

He has been given endless advice, encouragement, and support for YEARS on this forum. So, I commend your effort to be positive with him since you are unaware of this. But trust me, at this point everything is on him.

 

[biggoal]

Go and date both.
Compare and contrast the negatives of each one.

Why is there a lot of negativity towards women 40 and over on here?

 

[Willie Naylor]

Why is there a lot of negativity towards women 40 and over on here?

Everyone, please start ignoring this person. Maybe then he'll go away.

Stop responding to him as if it's going to help him.

It won't.

 

[biggoal]

Because their expectations are insulting like a bank/corporation that wants to be bailed out at your expense.

At least on OLD "some" are. It seems they're gold diggers though requiring a job that pays at least 150k a year and code words they use for money as well in their profile bios. Many seemed to be focused on wealth.

Maybe it's good to rent a Ferarri for the day and take pics with it or maybe with a Cessna to look wealthy.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Do you not realise how incredibly creepy that is?

I would agree, except that girls do it all the time.

Why the double standard?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Why is there a lot of negativity towards women 40 and over on here?

Because they're not attractive so why bother talking about them. They're obviously not anyone's true goal.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I've gotten women throwing numbers at me recently as well. From what I can tell, these women are player-screening. There's no real rapport built up, no sexual intent stated, just giving their number before the initial convo has a chance to develop. In every case, nothing has happened because they've gone radio silent after rebuffing any attempt at sexual flirtation, even if it's mild and well-calibrated.

OP, since your prospect did this and mentioned she has "too many messages" I suspect it's the same thing. She's a structured girl who's "processing" you with a newfound strategy.

 

[biggoal]

I've gotten women throwing numbers at me recently as well. From what I can tell, these women are player-screening. There's no real rapport built up, no sexual intent stated, just giving their number before the initial convo has a chance to develop. In every case, nothing has happened because they've gone radio silent after rebuffing any attempt at sexual flirtation, even if it's mild and well-calibrated.

OP, since your prospect did this and mentioned she has "too many messages" I suspect it's the same thing. She's a structured girl who's "processing" you with a newfound strategy.

Still haven't heard back. Don't want to double text so tomorrow I'll message her on the app.

If you have no real intentions of being serious, why would you give your number out to a stranger you never met face to face?

I would never give my number out to anyone like that unless interested.

I'm telling you, before covid hit this didn't happen. Girls woudl give out their numbers a lot and they would actually arrange a date with you usually if you're up for it. None of these games. But since there had been a BIG reduction in the number of decent women on OLD since Covid I do suspect they're probably getting double the amount of messages they'd typically get.