"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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6 Hour Rule?

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Hi community,

Everyone here has gone on dates that go great and you guys sleep together quickly. But then some you need a couple dates and you eventually sleep with them. I remember Todd V saying once that it takes on *average* 6 hours of time spent with a woman(you meet in day game cold approach) to sleep with her.

Obviously, you have some super down girls who you can progress quickly. But he says that on average, 80% of girls you meet want 3 dates before you guys have sex.

What do you guys think? Are those numbers accurate?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3 dates can equate to about 6 hours if each of those dates is 2 hours long. I tend to err on the side of making the first date 90 minutes, then the second date 2 to 3 hours. Usually by date 3 the woman has spent just enough time with you to feel comfortable, and may be cool with a hook-up happening. That said, I find hook ups happen faster when I'm not mentioning it. By date 2 I definitely go in for the kiss, but everything else is just normal conversation, a little bit of flirting and hand-holding. Just doing that and not bringing up hooking up will put you ahead of 97% of most men, which will make her see you differently... and then want to initiate hooking up, lol
 

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What do you guys think? Are those numbers accurate?
Mostly accurate. You can usually get it done in 10 hours or less of interaction time unless she's a devout practitioner of a religion and opposes pre-marital sex. If she's a devout practitioner of a religion, she'll probably suss that out of you and depart in less than 10 hours together. I've had first dates with women who were active practitioners who questioned me on religious practices in less than 3 hours of total interaction time.
 

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3 dates can equate to about 6 hours if each of those dates is 2 hours long. I tend to err on the side of making the first date 90 minutes, then the second date 2 to 3 hours. Usually by date 3 the woman has spent just enough time with you to feel comfortable, and may be cool with a hook-up happening. That said, I find hook ups happen faster when I'm not mentioning it. By date 2 I definitely go in for the kiss, but everything else is just normal conversation, a little bit of flirting and hand-holding. Just doing that and not bringing up hooking up will put you ahead of 97% of most men, which will make her see you differently... and then want to initiate hooking up, lol
Agree that doing light kino and going for the kiss early puts you ahead of the vast majority of guys. Thank you for taking your time to respond to me.
 

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Mostly accurate. You can usually get it done in 10 hours or less of interaction time unless she's a devout practitioner of a religion and opposes pre-marital sex. If she's a devout practitioner of a religion, she'll probably suss that out of you and depart in less than 10 hours together. I've had first dates with women who were active practitioners who questioned me on religious practices in less than 3 hours of total interaction time.
Religion isn't really big where I am, and mostly I'm dealing with college students too. Thank you for taking your time to respond to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi community,

Everyone here has gone on dates that go great and you guys sleep together quickly. But then some you need a couple dates and you eventually sleep with them. I remember Todd V saying once that it takes on *average* 6 hours of time spent with a woman(you meet in day game cold approach) to sleep with her.

Obviously, you have some super down girls who you can progress quickly. But he says that on average, 80% of girls you meet want 3 dates before you guys have sex.

What do you guys think? Are those numbers accurate?
Actually, what I've found is that if something doesn't happen quickly it probably won't happen at all.
 

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from my experience, its also on the 3rd date sex happens. Before, there is still alot of ASD from most girls
 
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