"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to do date at mine or hers?

wonderer

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Had a 2nd date yesterday. Taking her back in the uber to her place and managed for heavy making out, hand on d, hand on her tits. She was saying "if you were thinking of coming back, I have ppl here, but you can come round next time" I said no, no in a funny way and joking at the end about not having a phone or battery and now being stranded so needed someone with a laptop hint hint. Also talked about her geeky periodic table in her room and what element "69" was and that id have to see it to confirm i(she said she knows it by memory). Ive been working on sticking points in my game which is sexual escalation.

My question is for the next date should I just do my place or hers? weve been on 2 drinks dates now. She had mentioned a netflix show so I said we should watch it. Is it as simple as saying what was that netflix show you were talking about? Lets watch it. Wanna come here? Or am I seeing that periodic table of yours :D.

Or how do you guys normally approach the date straight up at one of your places (if at all?), or should I do a different date and try and go back to mine/hers again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SW15

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3rd date is always an invite to come cook dinner with me. If they accept almost always means they are willing to fvck
Same here. I have had to stretch that out to the 4th date before.
 

2Rocky

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Add me to the dinner at your place camp. If you want to make it ABUNDANTLY clear tell her to bring her overnight bag.....
 
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