She doesn't think I can handle being friends

[GreatHornedOwl]

What does it mean when a woman says that?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why would you want to be? She is telling you in a non confrontational way to get a set of balls and stop being a pansy.

 

[Robert28]

Your reply: “who ever said I wanted to be your friend? I’ll make it clear. I don’t and never will.”

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

Why would you want to be? She is telling you in a non confrontational way to get a set of balls and stop being a pansy.

What do you mean? Being a pansy about what?

 

[Caelum]

What does it mean when a woman says that?

Maybe you could, maybe you can't. The point is don't get into platonic friendships with girls you've been intimate with before. It's a waste of time. If you want to spend time with people you don't want to bang, let it be your bros and family.

 

[MatureDJ]

I have no idea about the context here.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

What does it mean when a woman says that?

She says she doesnt want to fvck you and that she doesnt think you are a discrete enough simp to not bother her with your sexual advances while she takes advantage of your attention and everything else she can use you for (except sex).

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

So this is not a good thing when a woman says that? I think I came off a little strong and that's why she said that.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

So this is not a good thing when a woman says that? I think I came off a little strong and that's why she said that.

If there is no fvcking involved with this woman, what are you doing with her?

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I'm working on it.

 

[Chamber36]

Maybe you could, maybe you can't. The point is don't get into platonic friendships with girls you've been intimate with before. It's a waste of time. If you want to spend time with people you don't want to bang, let it be your bros and family.

You've got it backwards.

Don't become friends with women you haven't been intimate with before.

I dont mind talking to a girl I've banged before if she is looking for something serious and I'm not. I just let them roam around and if she ever wants to stop by she can.

I give these women advice. They never really are with their new mates as long as they talk to me though since I lead them philosophically or therapeutically. --> This is also the way out of the friend zone btw.

Become their counsellor.

 

[dude99]

What does it mean when a woman says that?

She is saying she doesn't want to date and doesn't even want to be friends.

Interest level = less than zero.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It means she knows you want to fvck but she doesn't. She challenged you to hang around even though she's gonna be fvcking with other guys.

 

[Robert28]

How old is this woman that told you this?

 

[bat soup]

What does it mean when a woman says that?

It's a type of BS. She's not cooperating, so what she says and what she thinks doesn't matter at all.

 

[Caelum]

You've got it backwards.

Don't become friends with women you haven't been intimate with before.

I dont mind talking to a girl I've banged before if she is looking for something serious and I'm not. I just let them roam around and if she ever wants to stop by she can.

I give these women advice. They never really are with their new mates as long as they talk to me though since I lead them philosophically or therapeutically. --> This is also the way out of the friend zone btw.

Become their counsellor.

That is time I rather spend elsewhere. If they want councelling, they can go find a real one.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

How would you guys turn this situation around? I like a challenge.

Player advice only, please.

 

[Mazer]

She controls the frame. When you become more experienced with women, you won’t be looking for “the challenge”. That’s ego talk. Your time is valuable and you shouldn’t be spending it on women who are “challenging”. I would tell her, “come to think of it maybe you are right” and then never contact her again. She might reach out after and you can control the frame a bit. Good Luck.

 

[Tilex]

So this is not a good thing when a woman says that? I think I came off a little strong and that's why she said that.

That was a sh!t test and a passive power grab.

Anyone that says they 'think you can't handle .........blah blah blah' is putting you in position of weakness. As if they're challenging you.

Why would anyone challenge you to a friendship?
It's nonsense like this is what makes it a sh!t test.

You should've said:
"I don't think you could handle this d!ck!"
Look her right in the eyes when you say it, and do not smile.

 

[Chamber36]

That was a sh!t test and a passive power grab.

Anyone that says they 'think you can't handle .........blah blah blah' is putting you in position of weakness. As if they're challenging you.

Why would anyone challenge you to a friendship?
It's nonsense like this is what makes it a sh!t test.

You should've said:
"I don't think you could handle this d!ck!"
Look her right in the eyes when you say it, and do not smile.

Damn...

You don't play