GreatHornedOwl
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 11, 2010
- Messages
- 382
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- Age
- 43
The guy lives half across the country, lol. That's what's confusing to me.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dude come on.The guy lives half across the country, lol. That's what's confusing to me.
She just started doing it, dummy.Men, you’re supposed to screen for social media whoring prior to agreeing to exclusivity. This conversation must be had up front. This behavior is unacceptable.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So, she clicks the like button of some photos of a guy from Facebook, and you guys think the world is coming to an end. This is my fault asking for advice. I knew it was going to turn out like this.
Wait a minute. Who created a post called...She actually isn't my girlfriend.
So why are you posting about her facebook activity on a seduction forum?I have not banged her, nor do I want to right now.
OP is exclusive with a woman he hasn't even banged yet. How is that possible?Men, you’re supposed to screen for social media whoring prior to agreeing to exclusivity. This conversation must be had up front. This behavior is unacceptable.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gen ZOP is exclusive with a woman he hasn't even banged yet. How is that possible?