"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have stopped taking advice from other people about weight loss specifically. Common sense and quality food with fasting is what works for me. Imo organic is a scam. No food from the middle aisle, and eat an apple fritter occasionally.
Don't care about metabolism, I eat on average a calorie deficit, and if my body plays games I counter with long term consistency, and eventually my body gives up on what the professionals tell it. Finding what works for you very long term is what I wish everyone can figure out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello Guys!
So i have been in a weight lost journey.
I went from 91kg to 82 in 2 months.
Out of nowhere i stopped losing weight, but i am doing exacly what i need to do
I am eating 1500 calories a day , training 3 times a week.
Do you guys think this is just a " phase " and if i continue to do this i will lose weight.
Or do you think i need to change something up?
Eventually it plateus. You lost 9kg in 2 months. 19.8 lbs in 2 months which is approximately 10lb per month, which is approximately 2.5 lb per week. This is a good rate. You can lost this much as you lean down to less than 10% body fat. So if you were very fat, this could go on for quite some time.

What you can do within the framework you are using is add more training days. I'd do cardio every day at least 30 minutes while stripping down fat. You can do weight or bodyweight excersizes 3-5 days a week.

In your 1500 calories, you can get the carbs down a little lower, to force fat to be the fuel, and add a little more protein to save muscle mass.
 

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I have stopped taking advice from other people about weight loss specifically. Common sense and quality food with fasting is what works for me. Imo organic is a scam. No food from the middle aisle, and eat an apple fritter occasionally.
Don't care about metabolism, I eat on average a calorie deficit, and if my body plays games I counter with long term consistency, and eventually my body gives up on what the professionals tell it. Finding what works for you very long term is what I wish everyone can figure out.
You know what your body needs more than anyone else, and as long as you have experimented and taken notes on how you interact with different foods, then you will know it better than anyone else on you.
 

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Fasting helped me lose some weight, but training 5 days a week and building appetite meant breakfast is a proteinshake and banana, lunch and dinner protein and veg.

I don't agree with fasting anymore. The rate I'm training (and you should be too) and the protein I need, I need regular protein intake and protein synthethis research showed me I cant gorge on protein a couple times a day, need to spread it out

OOOHHHHARRRR (in man speak).

I'm a steady 195lbs 6'2 and have been while fatter and ripped

Listen to your body and how you look/feel.
 

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Fasting helped me lose some weight, but training 5 days a week and building appetite meant breakfast is a proteinshake and banana, lunch and dinner protein and veg.

I don't agree with fasting anymore. The rate I'm training (and you should be too) and the protein I need, I need regular protein intake and protein synthethis research showed me I cant gorge on protein a couple times a day, need to spread it out

OOOHHHHARRRR (in man speak).

I'm a steady 195lbs 6'2 and have been while fatter and ripped

Listen to your body and how you look/feel.
Fasting is just a tool to add and remove. Say you gorged over a weekend. You can add a single fast day to clean it up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fasting is just a tool to add and remove. Say you gorged over a weekend. You can add a single fast day to clean it up.
I meant more intermittent fasting like 8-6 hour window, I just cant seem to get what I need in that time frame
 

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Fasting is life. I Suggest you a 5 day fast . It feels great.
I have done 36 hour fasts before and I agree it's good to give the organs a rest.

But how do you fast while lifting and trying to pack on muscle?
 

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24-48 hrs fast will clean out excess glycogen in the system, forcing fat burning, it'll allow your organs to rest and raise your GH levels several times the normal amount.

You can use a fast to start the beginning of a new nutrition program or some other marker. Or the very occasional fast day thrown in to prove self control and will power and to change out the monotony of eating.
 

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24-48 hrs fast will clean out excess glycogen in the system, forcing fat burning, it'll allow your organs to rest and raise your GH levels several times the normal amount.

You can use a fast to start the beginning of a new nutrition program or some other marker. Or the very occasional fast day thrown in to prove self control and will power and to change out the monotony of eating.
Hmm great points there
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hello Guys!
So i have been in a weight lost journey.
I went from 91kg to 82 in 2 months.
Out of nowhere i stopped losing weight, but i am doing exacly what i need to do
I am eating 1500 calories a day , training 3 times a week.
Do you guys think this is just a " phase " and if i continue to do this i will lose weight.
Or do you think i need to change something up?
You hit a plateau. I highly recommend intermittent fasting. have a look at my thread and other. look at bb.com or other threads here. sleep better. minimum 8hr a day. do a 4day split. add in rowing or running. gradually increase intensity.
 

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I have done 36 hour fasts before and I agree it's good to give the organs a rest.

But how do you fast while lifting and trying to pack on muscle?
Once a month i do an 48h water fast where I train normally like every other day. I would even say I have more energy on the second day, or focus.

If I go above 48 hours then I don't train. Tried it once and was sore for one and a half week.
I don't try to pack on muscle tho. I am naturally heavy and I don't give a sheet anymore about a heavy deadlift, bench or squad. I work everything out and run 2-3 times a week training for a half marathon.
 

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Basically here is how this works:

1) Your body needs to burn more calories than it takes in. This can be accomplished several ways:
a) Building muscle creates more metabolically active tissue and requires 50 calories per pound of muscle per day. More muscle = higher caloric needs
b) Eating below maintenance (but not TOO far below maintenance)
c) Fasting(ironically eating nothing is better for the body than trying to eat very low calories(like under 1400 for a guy---you will raise your metabolism while fasting and burn through fat versus lowering it and burning through half muscle/half fat if restricting calories greatly)
d) Increasing the number of calories needed via exercise, which allows you to eat more.
e) Setting up situations for EPOC to occur post workout which is driven by intensity when working out. Your body will basically go haywire trying to restore the status quo afterwards and will need to expend calories to do so...sometimes a LOT of calories and can do so for up to 24 hours after. This is why intensity ALWAYS beats time when working out. A 20 minute intense workout will ALWAYS give better results than a 60 minute slower paced workout.
 

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Hello Guys!
So i have been in a weight lost journey.
I went from 91kg to 82 in 2 months.
Out of nowhere i stopped losing weight, but i am doing exacly what i need to do
I am eating 1500 calories a day , training 3 times a week.
Do you guys think this is just a " phase " and if i continue to do this i will lose weight.
Or do you think i need to change something up?
We're late for the party. But you might have hit a plateau. Try changing things up so the body doesn't become used to your routine and stop progressing

Modern Man Advice
 

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I think the "eat before xPM" is a good idea, not because of any physical reasons (I haven't done the reading) but because people will actually stop eating!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you stopped losing weight coz when you started your weight loss journey you started with immense diet and that can be a reason coz of your weight loss. you should have started the diet after 2 months coz initially you lose weight as it coz of the exercises you do. starting everything from the start will coz this problem you have now.
i recommend you take advice from a trainer
 
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