“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bill Gates is getting divorced lmao

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My grandfather lived to be 85. Died in his sleep at home next to his wife. He was active and mobile till the day he died despite having a heart only working at 20% according to doctors. He didn’t work out or eat healthy.

point is: with modern medicine and a healthy lifestyle, you can be mobile and capable at an older age. Marriage isn't gonna save you from bad health.

people need to stop living in fear but act proactively.
even if you aren’t married, your kids can be there to help. My grandad just died at a similar age and he basically needed help for like 3-4 years to his death. He basically lost all function 3-4 months before he died. It’s not like you will go party in Thailand one night and the next morning die in your sleep.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I was feeling empathy and pity for Gates, Bill. Empathy is feminine, appears I still have more to learn/grow.
 

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I was feeling empathy and pity for Gates, Bill. Empathy is feminine, appears I still have more to learn/grow.
Empathy is masculine. Women are indifferent to men they aren't emotionally invested in.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I was feeling empathy and pity for Gates, Bill. Empathy is feminine, appears I still have more to learn/grow.
Being emphathetic has nothing to do with being feminine or not. In fact, most females are the most cold blooded creatures I've ever seen.

If you see a fellow man in distress and develop empathy for him, that's normal.
 

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I think a lot of modern men are too embittered to look at marriage for what it is; a legal union that is a necessary evil for raising children and having someone to give you meds when you’re too old and feeble to wipe your own ass.
Marriage is no guarantee that you won't end up in an assisted living facility. Divorce and a wife dying before you often lead to this. More men should plan on assisted living.

If you don’t want kids, don’t get married.
I've been indifferent about having kids and haven't gotten married. Notice that Bill and Melinda officially split not longer after the youngest of their children turned 18. However, it is likely the marriage was dead in reality long before this.
 

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My grandfather lived to be 85. Died in his sleep at home next to his wife. He was active and mobile till the day he died despite having a heart only working at 20% according to doctors. He didn’t work out or eat healthy.

point is: with modern medicine and a healthy lifestyle, you can be mobile and capable at an older age. Marriage isn't gonna save you from bad health.
This is a strawman argument. Married men live longer and earn more money over their lifetime. Your grandfather despite poor health did manage to exceed life expectancy.

even if you aren’t married, your kids can be there to help.
Children have their own lives. They aren’t expected to take care of their parents. Your wife should be looking out for you and vice versa. Life happens, one of you can be widowed but you deal with that when it happens.

Marriage is no guarantee that you won't end up in an assisted living facility.
There are no guarantees. However, the statistics are you have a better chance at making it to the end of life in better shape with a spouse than without.
 

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This is a strawman argument. Married men live longer and earn more money over their lifetime. Your grandfather despite poor health did manage to exceed life expectancy.



Children have their own lives. They aren’t expected to take care of their parents. Your wife should be looking out for you and vice versa. Life happens, one of you can be widowed but you deal with that when it happens.



There are no guarantees. However, the statistics are you have a better chance at making it to the end of life in better shape with a spouse than without.
I don’t know what a straw man argument is. I’m just stating some facts.

edit: after looking it up I don’t think it is strawman argument. We are talking about marriage and someone mentioned needing to be married so someone could help you with failing health. My grandpa was married but had no failing health that required assistance in the manner mentioned here.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don’t know what a straw man argument is. I’m just stating some facts.

edit: after looking it up I don’t think it is strawman argument. We are talking about marriage and someone mentioned needing to be married so someone could help you with failing health. My grandpa was married but had no failing health that required assistance in the manner mentioned here.
Logic and relationships do not compute to the female brain or EyeBRollin. They both think similarly in that regard.
 
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Now I see what EyeBRollin is saying I think. Marriages have always been essentially a business contract to benefit parties involved. Females, Hollywood, and big businesses have ruined marriage by turning it in to some romantic Disney relationship where it’s suppose to be always fuzzy and have a spark.
 

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Logic and relationships do not compute to the female brain or EyeBRollin. They both think similarly in that regard.
Logic says children have the best outcomes being raised in a two-parent household.


Now I see what EyeBRollin is saying I think. Marriages have always been essentially a business contract to benefit parties involved. Females, Hollywood, and big businesses have ruined marriage by turning it in to some romantic Disney relationship where it’s suppose to be always fuzzy and have a spark.
Correct.
 

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This is a strawman argument. Married men live longer and earn more money over their lifetime. Your grandfather despite poor health did manage to exceed life expectancy.
I think thats in years gone by. men who were single more likely to drink more, smoke more, bad diet etc if not married. although no doubt having a 'soulmate' would help to some degree, but I think the main factors are what I formerly mentioned and if you address them and not isolate yourself from society, the difference to being married would be minimal.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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