You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not only is it nasty, but it also shows the woman has no control over what is good for her own body.Yeah, because who'd want a girl that'd put one of those nasty things in her mouth...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This same argument can apply to tattoos.Not only is it nasty, but it also shows the woman has no control over what is good for her own body.
Instant dismissal
I'll usually grant a woman a hall pass on the above mentality. Men on the other hand should know better. If we are going to be "the judge" then should we also judge the finger pointers for acting preachy while also driving carcinogenic automobiles?There are between 5000 - 7000 carcinogens in cigarettes. You be the judge.
I agree but I also dont mind if a woman has one or two tatts as long as they arent trashy. Its pretty common for a lot of attractive women to have some type of writing tatt on their collarbone or wrist. A lot of tatts or trashy tatts are a deal breaker.This same argument can apply to tattoos.
Last time I checked, people are not sucking on exhaust pipes.I'll usually grant a woman a hall pass on the above mentality. Men on the other hand should know better. If we are going to be "the judge" then should we also judge the finger pointers for acting preachy while also driving carcinogenic automobiles?
You're initial response was preaching about making healthy choices. Meanwhile, you point fingers at smokers while also being responsible for far worse pollutants (driving an automobile or using the auto industry for transportation.)Last time I checked, people are not sucking on exhaust pipes.
If it's a matter of being health conscious, then why drive a car (assuming that you do) or walk around areas where automobiles are in the vicinity. Emissions from an automobile are far more dangerous than that emitted from a cigarette.The tattoos dont affect my health if I am around them. Smoking does.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
well to be fair, people trying to end their lives do this consistently lolLast time I checked, people are not sucking on exhaust pipes.
Tattoos look great IMO on young women who are in great shape. One of my plates has almost sleeves and she looks sexy with them as she is thin/athletic. The problem is they fade and people typically get fat and the tattoos get stretched. Nothing looks worse than old tats on a fat woman.I agree but I also dont mind if a woman has one or two tatts as long as they arent trashy. Its pretty common for a lot of attractive women to have some type of writing tatt on their collarbone or wrist. A lot of tatts or trashy tatts are a deal breaker.
The tattoos dont affect my health if I am around them. Smoking does.
You're initial response was preaching about making healthy choices. Meanwhile, you point fingers at smokers while also being responsible for far worse pollutants (driving an automobile or using the auto industry for transportation.)
If it's a matter of being health conscious, then why drive a car (assuming that you do) or walk around areas where automobiles are in the vicinity. Emissions from an automobile are far more dangerous than that emitted from a cigarette.
If your inquiry is if killing yourself isn't a big deal to you, then go for it. If it concerns you, then stop.Guys i want your honest opinion about smoking cigarretes.
Is it a big deal ?
I will grant a woman an exception to the rule if she cares about her health enough to graduate to vaping for the purpose of gradually cutting down her daily nicotine intake level to achieve the end goal of quitting.I'll usually grant a woman a hall pass on the above mentality. Men on the other hand should know better. If we are going to be "the judge" then should we also judge the finger pointers for acting preachy while also driving carcinogenic automobiles?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
One of my favorite Ron White clips
Very true, some of us that haven’t personally been through an addiction cycle like that may not recognize the absolute pull strength it has on others behaviors…Sadly some of those juvenile experiments result in very long addictions that are difficult to shake off even when you get older and wiser.
A chick who smokes may be caught up in the addiction while genuinely battling to stop.Because i understand smoking and its struggles, im more accommodative of chicks who may smoke.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.