Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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Find a woman from a culture which still promotes marriage as a norm, shuns female promiscuity, female drinking culture and shames divorce.
I would think very, very hard about marrying a western woman. A hot western women, no way Jose.
You really do need to be a couple of rungs above to marry in this culture. lets say your woman is the usual bait and switch western narcisstic woman raised on SATC nonsense, if you’re several leagues above then she’ll always want to keep you. On the other hand, you may find a woman who wishes to dominate you and can’t cope with the risk of you cheating. If you’re happy with that deal, you prob won’t get divorced but you’ll never have a good marriage.
outside of the west, there are legions of women who don’t get child support, welfare, leg ups in the workplace or social acceptance if she fvcks around and then blames it on her husband. Regardless of the fact she may get this here, it’s dialled into theDNA.
The best thing you can do as a western man is stick a finger up to this horrific modern version of female empowerment and take what talents you have and employ them with someone who wants the same things you do.
It makes me laugh so hard as I did this and married a girl from the Far East (an educated girl - no mail order stuff) and all my middle class friends were “you’ll get used in a divorce!” “She can’t want you for you”!
we have all these stereotypes but they are mainly false. Fair enough if you’re 65 and she’s 19 perhaps. If you’re of similar ages, and both in reasonable league, then it’s total nonsense. I see the same people being totally run by their wives and GF while I really enjoy my life together. Sex is still great post kids and 2 years into marriage - never been turned done once. Not once. She doesn’t spend my money and thinks about the same way I do - plan for tomorrow.
so, if you want a good marriage, get someone who culturally wants a good marriage.
Im sure there are decent women here, but I never found one, and it’s increasingly difficult the older you get.
I would think very, very hard about marrying a western woman. A hot western women, no way Jose.
You really do need to be a couple of rungs above to marry in this culture. lets say your woman is the usual bait and switch western narcisstic woman raised on SATC nonsense, if you’re several leagues above then she’ll always want to keep you. On the other hand, you may find a woman who wishes to dominate you and can’t cope with the risk of you cheating. If you’re happy with that deal, you prob won’t get divorced but you’ll never have a good marriage.
outside of the west, there are legions of women who don’t get child support, welfare, leg ups in the workplace or social acceptance if she fvcks around and then blames it on her husband. Regardless of the fact she may get this here, it’s dialled into theDNA.
The best thing you can do as a western man is stick a finger up to this horrific modern version of female empowerment and take what talents you have and employ them with someone who wants the same things you do.
It makes me laugh so hard as I did this and married a girl from the Far East (an educated girl - no mail order stuff) and all my middle class friends were “you’ll get used in a divorce!” “She can’t want you for you”!
we have all these stereotypes but they are mainly false. Fair enough if you’re 65 and she’s 19 perhaps. If you’re of similar ages, and both in reasonable league, then it’s total nonsense. I see the same people being totally run by their wives and GF while I really enjoy my life together. Sex is still great post kids and 2 years into marriage - never been turned done once. Not once. She doesn’t spend my money and thinks about the same way I do - plan for tomorrow.
so, if you want a good marriage, get someone who culturally wants a good marriage.
Im sure there are decent women here, but I never found one, and it’s increasingly difficult the older you get.